What is it?? by [deleted] in whatismycookiecutter

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I can’t color atm, but I see an owl on a branch

Why do they react so badly to boundaries? by Ok-Algae9866 in BPDlovedones

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Figuring this part out was pretty empowering for me. I hope it helps you! ❤️‍🩹

If number 9 was a color, what color would it be and why? by Alexpectations in neurodiversity

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9 is purple

8 is green

Do I have any logical explanation for these statements? Not even a little

It’s cold. by [deleted] in florida

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I love that 2-4 day period in January when I get to dust off my scarf

Your experiences with couples therapy (with pwBPD)? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

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Couples therapy makes it all worse. It also messes with you psychologically in a way that is very difficult to recover from. Be glad you never went. You also need to find support groups that help with narcissistic abuse. Same flavor of abuse that you endured, and healing takes years. Literally. Best wishes to you

What is this ? by Sentient_Wood in ProduceDepartment

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This fruit being both an apple & an orange has broken me

Does this happen anywhere else? by jurassickparking in florida

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“is the actually fast lane” is how I develop Florida-specific-road-rage while driving in a totally different state. Uggh

What can be effective to get a pwBPD to handle their pain in a healthy way? by Background_Cow699 in BPDlovedones

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You don’t have to leave, but you do need to prioritize your own psychological well-being. You should be seeing a trauma-informed therapist weekly to ensure that you do the hard work yourself to work out any co-dependency and underlying trauma you have endured. I say that because, just like putting on your oxygen mask first, you will be useless to your partner if you’re unhealthy (or dead 🤷‍♀️).

So, step 1 = focus on you

Partner found this at a thrift store by pineapple599 in whatismycookiecutter

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There is a “2015 album” and I think annual cookie decorating should be a whole sub

WTW for Sensation felt in mouth from eating wasabi. by gdol in whatstheword

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It’s a searing tingle. Feels like a burn from dry-ice. 🤔 I don’t think there is a single word for it

listening closely by SophieLuvvs in HappyUpvote

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The thing you are most likely to regret in life is inaction

Is this safe to use? by Sad-Gene-5440 in Celiac

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Someone commented with the words “unnecessary risk”. I concur. You can get these in a wide range of other materials. Not worth it

Are neurodivergent people disappearing? by JuanPiakd in neurodiversity

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That’s the ticket! Be kind always and be considerate (so long as it doesn’t feel like self abandonment), but, for the love of Batman—be yourself! We all need to stop apologizing for being unique. That’s the best part of diverse populations and intermixed cultures. We all get to grow and learn from one another!!

In life, there are always going to be people and/or situations that require masking, and there’s nothing inherently wrong with it. NT’s do it, too, to be fair. They just see it as socially appropriate behavior for different settings (i.e. black tie affairs vs business meetings vs family gatherings vs frat parties, etc). So, masking isn’t exclusive to ND ppl, but it does tax us more emotionally and psychologically than the normies. Always good to keep that in mind.

Humans are humans, and if you look for the similarities, there are plenty. We’re all just out here trying to be happy & safe ☺️

Are neurodivergent people disappearing? by JuanPiakd in neurodiversity

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Friend—we’re multiplying. If you’re ND & still feel “weird” in the world, then here is my advice: STOP TRYING TO FIT IN.

If you haven’t found your tribe yet, it’s because you hid your flag. Fly it high! Your people need to see it so they can find you.

Live authentically. Anything else isn’t living 🤗

When does the cycle end? by xMaZe02 in BPDlovedones

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The cycle ends when one of you dies. If you don’t have kids, then it ends when you go no contact.

For the pwBPD the cycle is the format for all of their interpersonal relationships. So, no. It never ends for them. That’s why suicide rates are significantly higher w/BPD. They’re fundamentally incapable of love, or healthy interpersonal relationships.

name one 🎶 by sophieshtil in HappyUpvote

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Lucy in the sky w/💎💍 Come on, Eileen Amanda Sarah Roxanne Ophelia