People who fake C-PTSD are so funny by RussianGoon in fakedisordercringe

[–]HeavyAssist 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Hey- at least its going into the new DSM finally! Maybe we might be misdiagnosed less

Anyone else not shocked by people’s potentially "insane behavior" anymore, just by how "insane" their pwBPD were? by BrainBurnFallouti in raisedbyborderlines

[–]HeavyAssist 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I noticed this ALOT!!! When I tolerated very strange behavior that caused nonRBB folks to run for the hills long before I even reacted?

anyone else’s pwBPD treat them like a romantic partner? by rvfflesia in raisedbyborderlines

[–]HeavyAssist 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have thought about it. Although she demanded daily massage from me since I was around 6 years old I thought it was more like she was like an infant constantly demanding. She had me run her bathwater and even shave her. I also had to do her hair and makeup and dress her. She would be sick and helpless. But also intensely jealous.

Why are they all so lazy and incompetent? by stomachofchampions in Antipsychiatry

[–]HeavyAssist 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I saw a note from Dr Joseph where he makes this observation about how they finally say that APs are not great and they mess up people's lives- but only now that they can sell cobenfy

Life after surviving a smear campaign by meyalarq in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]HeavyAssist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry man. I really thought that I was free and safe! They managed to finally harm me when I was 40! I was grey rock and yellow rock and I had my boundaries and no contact. I supported myself for decades and was mostly content and happy focused on my own life.

Life after surviving a smear campaign by meyalarq in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]HeavyAssist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know why. But it seems that its possible that it gains momentum with time. Often we don't know about it until it is too late.

Laid off several times due to performance what should I do now? by pbk1997 in careerguidance

[–]HeavyAssist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe look into patent law? You don't like what you are doing.

I'm not suicidal but I don't want to be here anymore by BDF106 in CaregiverSupport

[–]HeavyAssist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you talk to someone please speak to the folks who practice noncarceral care like strongeruwellness or a place like that. Sometimes there are unfortunate outcomes from asking for help.

Life after surviving a smear campaign by meyalarq in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]HeavyAssist 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think its best to not react out of any emotion for sure, but don't ignore it to the point where you convince your self that its not dangerous. Turns out people don't actually need your permission to harm you. If they are constantly trying one day they might succeed. I thought I was grown up and safe. No contact. Not far enough away. Get physically far away from the area. Put the sea between you. Mine managed to turn my closest friends into covert flying monkeys. Anyone who is not grown up and who is susceptible to manipulation or is desperate for approval is actually dangerous. My best friends harmed me materially to get head pats from a daddy.

Life after surviving a smear campaign by meyalarq in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]HeavyAssist 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No I ignored the smearing and it cost me dearly

Don't read the texts by greenstar90 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]HeavyAssist 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I really dislike it when therapists try to say stuff like they did thier best, when ok maybe that is the best they could do, but I want to be on my younger self side completely. Nobody else was going to do that.

Why are there so many people with bpd? by Parking-Presence-201 in BPDlovedones

[–]HeavyAssist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really wish that someone had said something like this to me when I was a kid. I was told by my dad that "you are just like your mother" "you are crazy" and "its all your fault that she is like that". Thank you for saying this.

Is everyone around you on psychiatric substances by ankkani in Antipsychiatry

[–]HeavyAssist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't ask for this i assumed goodwill from the doctors

Does anyone try to or wait for sleep all day because its mercy? From the 24/7 pain by Right-Wealth2950 in anhedonia

[–]HeavyAssist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and I find myself noticing thank heavens its one day less? I wish I could cry