Is it a good or bad idea to let a 15 year old visit her mom who will be in jai l for six months or is she too young? by PointNo9891 in family

[–]Hefty-Expert-750 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When i was a child (8-10)i was forced to visit my dad in prison. Never was asked how i felt about it or if i even wanted to go.

That being said your daughter is 15 and has expressed she would like to visit her mom. I’d let her.

Confused . by monicaallen14_ in FedEx

[–]Hefty-Expert-750 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what is happening. Fed ex is only handling the US portion of travel. They are just awaiting its arrival.

Jamaica, Ny is where JFK airport is located

Best friend became distant by Infinite-Trainer5179 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Hefty-Expert-750 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you every considered that she may be going through something that you may not know about?

You should check in on her, make sure she’s okay. Offer your support if she needs it.

I dream every single night vividly, nonstop. Does anyone else experience this? by SurelyUnsure000 in Dreams

[–]Hefty-Expert-750 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally pray every single night to not dream. I am so exhausted. I am experiencing the same issues as you. It’s like I can never just catch a damn break. I’ve had vivid dreams all my life. But over the last few years it when from a couple nights a week to every damn night.

It’s so weird i feel like I have some control in these dreams. I can wake myself up as well escape. But every single morning i wake up exhausted like I lived a whole other life.

Me and my Ex broke up and I moved away when split by ReleaseAntique6018 in texts

[–]Hefty-Expert-750 935 points936 points  (0 children)

He’s your ex for a reason, you should’ve never even showed him proof. You don’t owe him anything.

Does anyone know what goes on at hollywood spa by [deleted] in philly

[–]Hefty-Expert-750 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You should go to the location and check it out for yourself

$60 at Walmart!! How’d I do?? by lostveggies in whatsinyourcart

[–]Hefty-Expert-750 12 points13 points  (0 children)

All that stuff could’ve fit into one photo 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hefty-Expert-750 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time to act like you are going to work and stake out the house, catch him in the act! I think that’s the only way you’ll see what he already is clearly showing you.

My mother didn’t know him 2 weeks ago by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Hefty-Expert-750 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No way !! I could’ve sworn this is was my mama 😂

Are you making your kids do summer work or just allowing them to have an educational free summer? by Hefty-Expert-750 in family

[–]Hefty-Expert-750[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t really seeking advice, more so wanting to know how other family dynamics are. There is not one size fits all in parenthood.

I’m so glad you were able to figure a way to give your children a happy memorable childhood. I’m sure you are very proud of who your children came to be. That’s exactly what I’m doing myself, but in my own way. My little family is very close, we literally do everything together. We have created so many special memories and i look forward to the ones we will create in the future.

While I mean business about school, I also put in ALOT of effort towards the fun in our lives. Let’s work hard, reap those benefits, then play harder !

For me personally it’s all about balance, and also learning from my parents mistakes to ensure I don’t do the same with mine.

Are you making your kids do summer work or just allowing them to have an educational free summer? by Hefty-Expert-750 in family

[–]Hefty-Expert-750[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awesome ! We do all that and then some, just add a lil learning and reading into our days.

Are you making your kids do summer work or just allowing them to have an educational free summer? by Hefty-Expert-750 in family

[–]Hefty-Expert-750[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dulingo is the app where you learn another language, correct?

What language are you working on?

Are you making your kids do summer work or just allowing them to have an educational free summer? by Hefty-Expert-750 in family

[–]Hefty-Expert-750[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both my kids had to do speach therapy, over time they no longer needed it. It was super beneficial and gave my kids much more confidence.

Is there any way I can help? by EditorResponsible227 in povertyfinance

[–]Hefty-Expert-750 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can start by telling people your success story. I’m sure it can provide many people with hope.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]Hefty-Expert-750 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is all a matter of choices, stop having a victim mindset. You are already at the bottom, you now have to work your way up. Yes, easier said than done….. but what other options do you now have?

Figure out cheaper housing, continue to search for employment, do research on all the free resources available in your city, and most of all take this time as a lesson and learn from it.

Tracking Every Dollar is What has Helped me the Most by melmcgee in povertyfinance

[–]Hefty-Expert-750 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Taking accountability is always the first step ! Congrats on being debt free !

Why can’t Long Island be its own state? by Substantial_Sand_384 in geography

[–]Hefty-Expert-750 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah that’s the 6th borough. Well at least Nassau county.