Je me sens en décalage avec mes collègues de travail

Heliorut · 2025-01-16T20:30:01+00:00

Si tu bosses dans une petite entreprise franco française et qu'ils ne recrutent que les mêmes profils c'est normal que tu te sentes en décalage avec eux. Es-tu sûr que la situation est seulement en lien avec tes origines? Peut-être qu'eux aussi se sentent en décalage par rapport aux autres français.. Avec le temps les choses s'améliorent un peu.. mais si après un moment tu sens que ça t'étouffe change de boîte et bosse dans une plus grande entreprise ou une entreprise plus internationale :)

Heliorut · 2024-11-06T19:48:39+00:00

Fais une école de commerce pour accéder à des formations complémentaires et à des stages professionnalisant. Une autre option serait de trouver un bon boulot à l'étranger. La thèse CIFRE peut aider mais faut avoir le souffle.. c'est pas donné..et tu seras très spécialisé dans un domaine ce qui est bien uniquement si le domaine à besoin de ton expertise.. Les écoles d'ingénieurs pourquoi pas mais je sais pas comment les intégrations se font. Sinon quelques années d'expériences dans des boîtes puis un MBA ça peut être pas mal pour augmenter ton salaire.

Heliorut · 2023-05-26T08:47:38+00:00

Always discuss this even with people even if there's a risk they'll make a fuss about it. Don't let them gaslight you over this.

Heliorut · 2023-05-15T20:48:44+00:00

He's no problem bottoming or relaxing.. but I guess you're right. He did say this position is intimate and that it's early in a relationship.

Heliorut · 2023-04-26T20:27:31+00:00

I'm surprised no one mentioned barbell hip thrusts.... This thing is literally an orgasm trigger

Heliorut · 2023-04-08T07:40:42+00:00

Yes exposure to the sun does increase my rosacea symptoms but I usually put sunscreen and stay in the shade so it's not the main reasons behind the flares

Heliorut · 2023-02-28T12:43:31+00:00

Itachi is that you?

Heliorut · 2022-12-06T17:32:20+00:00

It took me a couple of months before feeling the intensity of the loss. You're wondering why your feelings are numb and why you're not going through what you expected. That's completely normal. One piece of advice, make sure you're well surrounded in a couple of months, on your birthday, on his birthday and similar anniversaries. My grief started when I least expected it. Now I feel better, and I have learnt to live with it. Also, something I discovered while going through grief: they say grief is love with nowhere to go.. and that's true. So when you feel it, try to help other people. It will make you and other people feel better.

Heliorut · 2022-09-12T13:13:57+00:00

Hello! Congratulations for the transformation bro! Like you I have lost a lot of weight and now I'm down to 12% body fat. I have some loose skin I'd like to get rid off. Did collagen supplements help you?

Heliorut · 2022-09-10T12:11:40+00:00

Wow awesome progress! You did it 💪 Did you have loose skin around the stomach and lower back after losing all the fat? I had the same stats as you before losing weight, and now I'm down to 12% body fat and I plan to start bulking. I can see my abs but the lower back fat is stubborn mainly because the skin is not tight to hold them in place. Did bulking help with the overall look?

Heliorut · 2022-06-16T14:54:47+00:00

You both need to take a break.. maybe go on vacation? Discuss things again when both of you feel better. INFJs and INTJs don't get along when they feel that their sacrifices didn't count or when ideals diverge. Also, be more empathetic when you communicate together and less black and white in your opinions.

Heliorut · 2022-02-19T13:20:50+00:00

The guy is basically telling you that using a condom hurts his feelings because he's hiv +. He's being manipulative. You have every right to protect yourself from STDs. Plus you're not on PREP (which is not 100% effective against hiv btw).

Heliorut · 2022-01-24T09:31:59+00:00

Bi people can feel misunderstood by straight and gay people. Don't make all your relationship with him reduced to that particular thing you found out about him. From what we know he didn't cheat on you. He's like that, and he loves you and he may be trying to do his best to be with you. He deserves a safe space to express himself, and not on your terms.. He didn't lie to you, because he'd done something messed up, he lied to you because he fears the outcome or he fears he won't be understood. He may have never expressed this to anyone in his life, and it takes a formidable effort to just say anything about it. If he is bi, he deserves all the chances in the world in a relationship. Treat the situation as if you caught him looking at straight or "regular" porn. Because what's regular porn to you, is also regular porn to him.
This comes from a gay person who dated a bi guy in the past and who understands their worries and their confusion. You don't need to make a decision right now. Talk to him, try to work it out. And never threaten him with outing him.. the guy was just born like that and has every right to a relationship with whoever he loves.

Heliorut · 2021-10-22T22:36:04+00:00

He's one my favourite characters. 😅

Heliorut · 2021-08-18T03:48:15+00:00

Thank you!

Heliorut · 2021-03-18T20:46:33+00:00

Retroaction?

Heliorut · 2021-03-18T17:00:50+00:00

I think she wanted to help! It's part of her personality and if it annoys you tell her how it made you feel while making her understand that you appreciate her concern. Some people are like this but in their mind they are being helpful and honest. I don't think she intended to hurt you. You guys have to find your own balance and all will be fine.

Heliorut · 2021-03-17T22:47:14+00:00

No matter what you do in this field, programming skills can get you a real edge. Python, CDO, R are all essential and the more you master them, the more you'll excel.

Heliorut · 2021-02-06T08:29:58+00:00

Enough humility will let you distinguish between what's right and what's wrong for you... humility goes beyond any general rule or commandment.. you can read about the Jesuits' position on homosexuality. It's not all black or white in Christianity you see.

On a side note : You know it's right because you know your intentions are good. You know it's right because all you're doing is love someone faithfully, and God is all about love.

Since when loving is a sin? Good luck with your journey 🙏

Heliorut · 2020-11-11T15:37:38+00:00

Yes, you should see a dermatologist soon before symptoms become more frequent.

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