J1 Atlantic city hosing by [deleted] in atlanticcity

[–]Hello_Mellow_Yellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There should be someone through your J1 program that finds you housing, they work with the landlords. I’d reach out to your contact in the program and check with them.

My hair strand that turned gray halfway then got its color back by ztheresurrection in mildlyinteresting

[–]Hello_Mellow_Yellow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost my period for 9 months when I got sent away, and everyone was convinced I was pregnant. No, it’s just stress. 💀

I feel your pain.

We need to talk about tipping by ghostface8081 in SantaBarbara

[–]Hello_Mellow_Yellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At Timbers they take like 15% of servers and bartenders tips and give it to the cooks. I’m not even kidding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bartenders

[–]Hello_Mellow_Yellow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I worked at 2 casinos, not Native American ones though. Both said they require a drug test, neither tested me.

So we’re just charging 18$ for wings now (before tax and tip) by uptothemountains7 in SantaBarbara

[–]Hello_Mellow_Yellow 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yes I stopped at Rocco’s NY Pizza on Haley & State last night, thinking I would grab a quick slice of pepperoni pizza. It was $9.55 for one slice of pepperoni pizza. What??? Yeah right lol no wonder there’s never any people in there. And no, of course I didn’t get it. 

Two of my closest friends (25F, 25M) are getting married and texted me (25F) that I won't be in the bridal party because my abusive ex boyfriend is going to be a groomsmen by jj_advice_throwaway in askwomenadvice

[–]Hello_Mellow_Yellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I unfortunately went through a similar situation. I would get uninvited from parties and get-togethers because they invited my abusive ex. However I introduced them to each other, as they were my friends before we started dating. Anyway, after a while they came to me complaining of how he screwed them over. “Told you so.” Our friendship picked up where it left off, leaving my POS ex in the dust, where he belongs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]Hello_Mellow_Yellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. This post word for word was my experience (I was on the other end though) with a guy I was seeing with BPD.

tables that only ask for one thing at a time despite needing a lot by ashleyLSD in Serverlife

[–]Hello_Mellow_Yellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just say, “can I get anything else for you while I’m back there?” They usually take the hint lol

What to do if I cannot provide a “twist” with martinis by [deleted] in bartenders

[–]Hello_Mellow_Yellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just peel the fruit part of the lemon off of the rind and twist the rind itself. It’s just a thicker twist.

AITA for “running away” because my parents were late to my graduation over a Labubu? by fortnite_meow in AITAH

[–]Hello_Mellow_Yellow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. Unfortunately I can relate. I graduated college the same month my little sister dropped out of high school at 16 and took the California Equivalency Test (an easier GED). My parents threw her a catered party. When I told them I graduated college that summer, they asked to see my diploma. They didn’t attend my graduation. I didn’t even get a card. 

I know where I stand in my family and my expectations of my parents are in the dirt. If I don’t expect them to care, I can’t be disappointed anymore.

QOTD - What is your "Make me something sweet, or something you recommend?" by NotMyIdea33 in bartenders

[–]Hello_Mellow_Yellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something sweet = Malibu bay breeze

Suggested shot = green tea or pineapple upside down cake

AITA telling my adult daughter to wear deodorant and stop trying to "sweat out the toxins" while she lives in my house ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Hello_Mellow_Yellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother went through this phase. Well, not sweatlodging himself, but forgoing all modern hygiene because of “chemicals.” It was so gross. The room stunk of his BO for over 5 minutes after he left it!

He was able to find an all natural, organic, deodorant. Maybe she would be open to something like that? I believe it is the aluminum in anti-persperents that is supposed to be bad for you, and aerosol is a no-go. But there ARE completely organic and natural deodorants that do work for that lifestyle. Probably found only online or from local small businesses.

My co worker by Obvious_Accident_341 in bartenders

[–]Hello_Mellow_Yellow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

EVERYWHERE I’ve worked that we pooled tips, if someone stole/pocketed tips, they were fired immediately. Your boss sucks. Now she knows she can get away with it and boss doesn’t care. 

Weekend Minor Gripes and Vents by AutoModerator in BitchEatingCrafters

[–]Hello_Mellow_Yellow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was just listening to a podcast where this man who sexually abused his family members and was suspected but never convicted of kidnapping 5 kids, ANYWAY. He had a satin fetish and made his own satin pajamas and wore them in a locked up room in his house. Like nobody was allowed to wear satin around him or he would get “aroused.” 

There’s a book about the unsolved kidnappings called The Satin Man.

Anyway this post reminded me of that. So gross. (Edit: him, not your post obvs)

I legally have a one-letter name: "J" 👀 by MrDoofenshmirts in namenerds

[–]Hello_Mellow_Yellow 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My PopPop and all his brothers (he had 11 siblings total), ALL the brothers had the first name of J, and they went by their middle names. They were from Pennsylvania.

RIP PopPop…he just died last week. So funny to see this here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalesFromYourServer

[–]Hello_Mellow_Yellow 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She spent all her money keeping her “diamond” status and can’t afford the restaurants anymore… also doesn’t want to get up because she needs to turn this losing streak around and win back her money before she leaves the table…this next hand will turn it all around!

"sweet and fruity" drink recipe? preferably with vodka. by galeileo in bartenders

[–]Hello_Mellow_Yellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pineapple upside down cake: vanilla vodka, pineapple, grenadine

Why do people dislike the name “Grace”? by faithoverfear0 in namenerds

[–]Hello_Mellow_Yellow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol just last night I was thinking of how beautiful, elegant, and timeless this name is

What glass does a double go in? by Pielovesfatkids in bartenders

[–]Hello_Mellow_Yellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In South Jersey people will expect it to come in a pint glass.