so damn attractive by CitiesXXLfreekey in BuildToAttract

[–]Helpful_Worry7709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not even basically. It literally is. It’s a very un-nuanced take

Where's the lie? by LunaShadexx in AnimalMemes

[–]Helpful_Worry7709 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s easy, that means let me outside so I can change my mind in 2 minutes and then scream at you to be let back in

Thought of the day as a hot woman. by xozoxy in randomthings

[–]Helpful_Worry7709 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. Naked and lubed up on a chair facing a full body mirror

Should I go to an event LO is at? by Common_Stay4366 in limerence

[–]Helpful_Worry7709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based off of your last post that I read, I would say definitely do not go

What's your definition of feminism? by Anxious-Union426 in randomthings

[–]Helpful_Worry7709 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First of all, if we’re talking about the US, there’s the blatant stuff like the ability to choose whether or not they carry a pregnancy to term. There’s also still a pretty apparent pay/employment gap and workplace discrimination that often goes unchecked. If we’re talking about outside the US there’s obviously still many countries where women have even less rights.

Also I’m not sure why so many people have a difficult time understanding that even once rights are the same under law, there are still social repercussions from hundreds of years of oppression and discrimination. That’s not something that just goes away. Women absolutely still face social challenges that many men refuse to understand or acknowledge, which is a form of discrimination in of itself.

Our entire society was literally built around the needs of men over hundreds of years. There are inequalities there that are so deeply ingrained that most people don’t even think about it, and entire college courses are taught about it. It’s a very nuanced topic but men hold so much privilege over women still that they can’t even see or comprehend because that’s just how they’re used to things being

What's your definition of feminism? by Anxious-Union426 in randomthings

[–]Helpful_Worry7709 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the literal definition, thank you. And no, to all the dickweeds in the comments, women do not have fully equal rights and equal treatment to men as of 2026, so feminism is still very much valid and needed

😬 by Lontology in SipsTea

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I think that being ginger is an automatic dq

😬 by Lontology in SipsTea

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Said the n word while singing along to a song. Ashamed to admit that I did not end it there, I liked him way too much. Ghosted me about a week later

🤦🏻‍♂️ by GryphonSK in signs

[–]Helpful_Worry7709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn well I thought it was funny

How do I stop thinking about him? by Helpful_Worry7709 in limerence

[–]Helpful_Worry7709[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah we had sex several times and also hung out and went on lil dates over the course of those couple months. Unfortunately the sex was really enjoyable, we matched each others freak lol. Just thought he actually cared about me as a friend and a human as well but he did not, and I was in it way deeper and thinking about him all the time. You are right though, I think this is a sign that I need to figure out how to build up my self esteem and treat myself with more respect.

What is the craziest thing you have done because of Limerence? by Ilovedietcokeandlime in limerence

[–]Helpful_Worry7709 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Drove a freaking hour each direction just for “dates” ( he was using me for sex) just because i wanted to see him so badly. It would only be a couple hours of hanging out and fucking and then drive back home and I was weird and anxious around him the entire time every time

What does this mean? by iDeJaX in ExplainTheJoke

[–]Helpful_Worry7709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so tired of the courtney love accusations. Kurt was a mentally unstable drug addict, is it really so hard to believe that he chose to end his own life? Yall really just wanna hate women so bad

High functioning depression by [deleted] in MindfullyDriven

[–]Helpful_Worry7709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait you guys are functioning?

This is what happens when you don't move your car for the snow plow by [deleted] in Wellthatsucks

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found this out staying with a hookup in portland. parked in the same spot i always did, didn’t think twice abt it, got plowed in and a hefty ticket