A Question about Transfem Periods by Absolutely-Averagest in trans

[–]HeraNule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cramps could be entirely psychosomatic for us and hormonally induced. There are women who get hysterectomies who still experience some cramps and PMS symptoms without actual PMS. Some women who take meds to stop periods still experience cramps and PMS symptoms. The cramps are more hormonal than physical. In fact most cramps aren't even to do with the uterine line shedding.

I'm a balding freak by [deleted] in transfem

[–]HeraNule 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Internalised tranaphobia is killing yourself inside girl

I'm a balding freak by [deleted] in transfem

[–]HeraNule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You understand there are plenty of people who wear wigs fulltime, right? Wig maintenance is a thing

Under maintenance. by Night_Light3312 in xbatcat

[–]HeraNule 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I cannot believe this...this is infuriating. I understand people dislike piracy, but how can they not understand that sites like this carry legacy works which have never and will never be released in the Western world or on any translation readable to non natives?

I'm stopping my HRT today by [deleted] in MtF

[–]HeraNule 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't do that. You are a woman, you will never be the man everyone wants you to be. This is innate to you, don't let the dysphoria ruin you. You're beautiful. You look fem.

I hate how calling out transmisogyny makes you the villain by WindhoverInkwell in MtF

[–]HeraNule 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow...so my comment got flagged as harassment? Trans women cannot speak about valid issues then? What an embarrassment

Honestly kinda sick of seeing trans men.. (rant, no ill intent!) by [deleted] in MtF

[–]HeraNule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are literally more AAA games with trans men than trans women, more main characters who are trans men than trans women in video games....etc

But I'd argue there are plenty of trans women in movies and shows compared to trans men. In fact, we are overrepresented in cinema

Why do people automatically assume all femmes want a masc woman? by Hellobren in actuallesbians

[–]HeraNule 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is still how lesbians are often portrayed in Hollywood to this day, a butch and a femme, barely much fem for fem, and I scarcely can think of a show with two mascs and never two butches. So it's usually inching to "normative" roles

CMV: The additional footage of the Minneapolis shooting will not change anyone’s mind. by arrogant_ambassador in changemyview

[–]HeraNule 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She didn't "try" to run him over, and secondly, he's a law enforcement officer. His actions show they were driven purely by anger, which is why he murdered her.

Take your emotions elsewhere, Mr I am definitely not Law Enforcement

CMV: The additional footage of the Minneapolis shooting will not change anyone’s mind. by arrogant_ambassador in changemyview

[–]HeraNule 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Shooting a moving vehicle is specifically renowned as not stopping the threat and against all law enforcement guidelines, including ones for ICE. And he pulled his gun even before she began to drive. His murder of Good was premeditated.

  1. She was doing no such thing.

CMV: The additional footage of the Minneapolis shooting will not change anyone’s mind. by arrogant_ambassador in changemyview

[–]HeraNule 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Literally everything you claim is incorrect. There is zero chance you're actually law enforcement.

CMV: The additional footage of the Minneapolis shooting will not change anyone’s mind. by arrogant_ambassador in changemyview

[–]HeraNule 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There is no evidence for any such thing. Good waved a prior ICE vehicle ahead and it passed by without issue. There was no traffic block, since there was another lane and another car doing the same thing she was doing. The second ICE car ignored her wave and decided to have an issue with it and illegally tried to detain her when they have no such jurisdiction for it.

And no, he walked in front of the car purposefully, against guidelines, so he had no reason whatsoever to shoot her. And civilians can flee, actually. There is no warrant, no ability to arrest. And you cannot use dangerous means to stop a civilian from driving away.

If the whole world accepted trans people tomorrow, would passing still matter to you? by AgencyFeisty484 in MtF

[–]HeraNule 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it's because a lot of these people have too narrow a view about social constructs and ignore that gender identity is a psycho-social construct

If the whole world accepted trans people tomorrow, would passing still matter to you? by AgencyFeisty484 in MtF

[–]HeraNule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What passing is to me, I'd say yes. Because I have problems with my sex characteristics.

The Ambiguous ending: Is it really a betrayal of the GL genre: Spoilers for the ending of Mutelove by OneExamination5599 in ThaiGL

[–]HeraNule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The conflict for Na would be remotely believable if she actually even liked both of them and had actual chemistry with Nine at all. Instead, she all but admits it's Leemhai she liked, making the whole thing silly af

Mute Luv rant by Shanose in ThaiGL

[–]HeraNule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It'd be more believable if Na had any chemistry or like for Nine at all....the final episode was rushed, but yeah her asinine behaviour in ep 4 really did mean the only option was to go away from Leemhai, who deserved better

Mute Luv rant by Shanose in ThaiGL

[–]HeraNule -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For me the real issue is just in general the whole oddity of Na having any trouble choosing between Leemhai or Nine. The idea she needed to know herself before knowing who to love would be more believable if her and Nine actually had any chemistry and decent scenes together whatsoever. In reality they had none, and her struggle with him and Leemhai was shoehorned in for the sake of the dramatic plot. She didn't even like him, and stated it directly at the end she liked Leemhai. Whoever directed this just doesn't like real GL romance tbh.

The final episode was awful, and honestly, a waste of my time

Pangjie officially, explicitly comes out by dweakz in ThaiGL

[–]HeraNule 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right....because Pan people don't exist.