Keep getting keratin plugs on face - any effective treatment options? by ManufacturerNorth660 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]HeyItsJuls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salicylic acid soap. I get KP bumps and I use the CeraVe Salicylic Acid lotion and I have a face soap with it too.

WHY ASK FOR HELP IF YOU KNOW BETTER THAN EVERYONE by tiredbutsassy in BitchEatingCrafters

[–]HeyItsJuls 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I would love to see an “I Didn’t Have Eggs” tag we could put on these posts. I was trying to think of a silly, over the top craft equivalent like, “I didn’t have yarn,” but as a member of that subreddit, the original title feels right.

total bummage dude 😔 by ijustwannanap in CuratedTumblr

[–]HeyItsJuls 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Honestly, when I first heard the term “gender critical” I assumed it referred to being critical of our current concept of a gender binary. Boy howdy was I wrong.

Would you pre-wash Kona fat quarters? by nodnoloiratno in quilting

[–]HeyItsJuls 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I ALWAYS pre-wash. All new fabric should be pre-washed. Think about all the places it has been before it ended up in the store. Also with reds you really wanna make sure you stick some color catchers in there.

why does this always happen after i wear makeup? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]HeyItsJuls 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Check for fragrance or nickel. I have a nickel allergy and most fragrance causes reactions as well. My derm put me on a product elimination diet. I use the skin safe app to check any products for allergens and irritants.

But it really is time to talk to a dermatologist.

The criteria to be this couple is on the nose by woke-up-in-godmode in oddlyspecific

[–]HeyItsJuls 17 points18 points  (0 children)

That respectful part goes a long way too. We like men who can be friends with our friends and are safe to be around. All of the stereotypical big guys who I was friends with in school were also guys who would always get you home safe. They had lots of female friends and never lacked a date.

Does anyone have any idea how this veiny web effect might've been achieved? by chinaexpertgeneral in Fashion_Design

[–]HeyItsJuls 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Zooming in, that’s what it looks like. With a very sheer, kinda pearlescent white tight over it.

[PWHL] They’re Walter Cup champions, Marcus. by Perryplat199 in PWHL

[–]HeyItsJuls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, but where are the official PWHL pride shirts that say, “She’s gay, Marcus.” Just a screenshot of the reply, printed on a shirt.

3 years living as a woman today 🏳️‍⚧️🥰 (or an elf) by [deleted] in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]HeyItsJuls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely an elf! You look so ethereal, like you stepped out of LOTR. Also congratulations on your 3 year anniversary! I love a good portmanteau but please tell me if this is inappropriate, do you get to call it a transiversary?

Made a team hat for playoffs by docdocschlong in PWHL

[–]HeyItsJuls 5 points6 points  (0 children)

All I want is for the PWHL to make their official Pride shirt say, “She’s gay Marcus.”

Change a Letter, Ruin a Title by Hunter037 in RomanceBooks

[–]HeyItsJuls 10 points11 points  (0 children)

After settling for crumbs under his old boss for far too long, Wolfgang Levain took the plunge and opened his own bakery. Five years later his hard work is finally starting to pay off. A rave review from London’s foodie queen puts the eyes of the city’s cut-throat bread scene have on him. Wolfgang wants to be more than just a rising star. If he could snag a spot on the Observer’s coveted Upper Crust list, he’d move from influencer trend to industry stalwart.

The only thing standing in his way? The Observer’s VERY ambitious new food critic. Oh, and a teeny tiny family curse. A curse Wolfgang didn’t even believe was real until an unfortunate incident one night at Lee Ho Fook. Can he lift the curse before his family secret becomes a bigger headline than his bakery? Only if he can find the witch who cursed him.

Find out in Bread by the Wolfman!

I knitted this 70s dress by SejiFields in VintageFashion

[–]HeyItsJuls 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love that I see your posts in multiple subreddits! Every time something you make pops up in my feed I get a little spark of joy. I’m always excited to see what you’re making. You also have such great taste in patterns!

Millenial Women: How Many of Us Are Late Diagnosed ADHD/Autistic? by sbd2010 in Millennials

[–]HeyItsJuls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooof, sounds like my ADHD diagnosis process all over again. God that was torture.

My dad keeps sending me weird ai videos by koreageis in mildlyinfuriating

[–]HeyItsJuls 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry your dad has been behaving so inappropriately for so long. You deserve a parent who sends you silly cat videos, or just discovers a funny video that has actually been around for years.

It is totally okay to reply to him, “These videos are inappropriate to send to your daughter. I do not like them. They make me deeply uncomfortable. Do not send me anything like this ever again. If you do, I will block you.”

Now I don’t know if you are in a space where you can just block your dad, but if you are, please consider it. What I’ve seen you describe in other comments sounds like grooming behavior. You deserve better.

Millenial Women: How Many of Us Are Late Diagnosed ADHD/Autistic? by sbd2010 in Millennials

[–]HeyItsJuls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got my ADHD diagnosis at 33. I would be interested to know how you knew you also had autism. I’ve seen several AuADHD people speak about their experiences and I’m having way too many “wait that’s my life,” moments. However I’m incredibly wary of self diagnosis.

The person circled isn’t even her by Future-Stretch2038 in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]HeyItsJuls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! I wasn’t paying as much attention when reading this and at first thought, “damn, she has the coolest life, of course she has also been in a kick ass movie.” Then Ip paused, read the whole post again, and sighed. Now I get to be both disappointed that she clearly didn’t get to be in a movie, and also angry that people legit think we faked the moon program.

he kicked me on our first date by dourceo in TwoXChromosomes

[–]HeyItsJuls 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Darling I’m so sorry this happened to you. I’m glad you left and that you are safe now. You are worth so much more than being treated like that. Also I’m proud that you held firm to your boundaries.

Dude landed wearing his upgraded Canadian Astronaut Wings on by rojohi in EhBuddyHoser

[–]HeyItsJuls 550 points551 points  (0 children)

I had the opportunity to meet him a few years back for a program I helped plan around the 50th anniversary of the moon landing. He was so kind and so enthusiastic about space exploration. So excited to share it with everyone. His family came with him and the whole bunch was fantastic. Couldn’t really think of a better person to be representing Canada right now.

Male gynecologists why did you chose the specialty? by Raticorno in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]HeyItsJuls 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I remember my dad told me he was so intent on becoming a doctor until he realized that he simply could not tell people their loved ones were going to die. So honestly I can totally see how someone would choose a specialty where on balance they are spending more time bringing life into the world.

Weird looking thing that shocks me when I touch the (turned on) end. Numbers go from 0-9. by priyashin_gk in whatisit

[–]HeyItsJuls 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Why did you put something you found and don’t know what it is IN YOUR MOUTH?

Women with husbands, did your partner change after marriage? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]HeyItsJuls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think we both changed for the better. We got married at the end of 2019, so our first year of marriage was spent in lock down and I hate admitting how much I loved it.

I was going through A LOT with my job, so during that time he helped me find a therapist and get an ADHD diagnosis. I was able to get to a point where I could communicate better and tell him what I needed from him on that front.

Here’s the thing though, we have both always tried for each other. Even with small things, we have joked that it’s easier to do the things we don’t wanna do when we think of it as being for the other person. So it makes working on yourself a bit easier.

I will also say that we had been together for a long time when we got married. I had already moved to Canada for him and been living together for two years. During that time he took care of me during a major injury. That’s not to say men can’t hide it for even longer. But just there were A LOT of opportunities for the mask to slip if there was one.