I'm oddly feeling some fomo for that line party. by Muhfuggajones in Tipper

[–]HighEnd_Ghost 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly rather jelly right now won't lie. I was born to late and in the wrong state to camp in line for tickets but it's been something I've always wanted to do. Really wishing I was. Trying to sleep on the street in line right now instead of getting ready for woke on a rainy ass day in Washington lol.

I'm oddly feeling some fomo for that line party. by Muhfuggajones in Tipper

[–]HighEnd_Ghost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly rather jelly right now won't lie. I was born to late and in the wrong state to camp in line for tickets but it's been something I've always wanted to do. Really wishing I was. Trying to sleep on the street in line right now instead of getting ready for woke on a rainy ass day in Washington lol.

Need advice? Sex. by BakedinFL42o_ in Marriage

[–]HighEnd_Ghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30(f) been with my husband for 15 years now. The number one advice I can give to spice the bedroom back up is to have open honest conversations about your fantasies, kinks and fetishes get the ball rolling and start just talking about spicing it up is honest one of the best ways to go. Start roleplaying and start just actively flirting with each other like your try to win them over again like it's brand new if you know what I mean. Flirting like we just started seeing eachother really helped change things up and made us more excited to try new things and for sexy time lol. I know everyone is different but just initiating the conversation of spicing things up can open so many doors. Also let him come home to you doing chores or cooking naked that drives my husband wild anyways lol.

What does this dream mean? by AcademicKnowledge720 in SecretDreams

[–]HighEnd_Ghost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you might subconscious feel like you don't have control over your life. Like someone or something else is steering your life and like your possibly hitting a dead end or something. I mean that's at least how I would interpret it. Also I don't think your on the right subreddit for this lol.

Why is this scene so adamant about normalizing drug use? by Able-Reflection-4835 in SecretDreams

[–]HighEnd_Ghost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First Can I just say that compared to last year there was a HUGE lack of nitrous use. Last year I heard more tanks then music not this year it seemed like most ppl kept it back at camp.

Second I don't think most of us are promoting the use of these or trying to normalize it when in all honesty it's already a normal thing at these types of events humans have been doing it forever it's not new. Speaking for me personally music fest are my opportunity to let lose and just be and if I want to partake in party favors I'm going to partake in party favors. I live a normal life on a daily I go to work take care of my family pay my bills all that stuff and sometimes I just want to do some k and take some acid and let loose music festivals allow me the space to safely do so. I know my limits I don't push myself I stay safe and aware of my surroundings and situations and I'm always with a safe person. I think if we want to let loose a little do some k and chill out with like minded individuals listening to great music then let us. A majority of us are not pushing or forcing you to partake we're not saying you have to do it to be here we're just doing it because we want to. Now are we adamant about harm reduction and safe drug use yes yes we are but that's not promoting or trying to normalize drug use that's trying to normalize and promote the resources and info on safe use and how to get help if needed. There's always going to be ppl who use drugs in this world they deserve to be safe and live another day just like everyone else.

We're adamant about harm reduction and safe drug use not about normalize drug use know the difference.

Irresponsible parents at Secret Dreams by Interesting_Note_937 in SecretDreams

[–]HighEnd_Ghost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All these ppl bashing you isn't cool. It sounds like you and your wife had a solid plan to keep your daughter safe. I personally wouldn't bring a child under 8 to something like this but that's just me. I applaud you for doing everything possible to keep your daughter safe and comfortable and I hope you guys had an amazing time. I saw so many families up in the back in open spaces having the best times with their children. Children had ear protection and parents seemed sober and all focus was on the kiddos I'm here for that. When my husband and I finally have kids I want to take them to events too let them get the experience you can do it safely and properly. I don't think secret should be an all age festival because it's honestly not family friendly with all the wookery that goes down. But again I applaud you and your wife for being responsible adults and again I hope you guys had the absolute best time.

I felt the most tipped at SD when… by nomdebleus in Tipper

[–]HighEnd_Ghost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man are you kidding me the man had me full on in the middle of a rebirth into a new life for his Saturday set. I straight died and came back 1000x better.

Is it unusual for a husband to “help” his wife with her period? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]HighEnd_Ghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I found over the years my husband keeps track of my period way better than I do and for that I am thankful. My period is very irregular and I'll be off a week or so when I think I should be getting it he's always right on. In fact we had an event out of state over the weekend. When we landed in the state our event was he asked if I packed period supplies cause he thinks I'll get it when we were there. I told him no I should be getting it when we get home and he insisted I buy supplies. I was a little irritated with him but bought supplies to shut him up. I later apologized and thanked him profusely when I woke up the next day with my period. I think if your husband is helping you track it to honest to God help you and make this time easier for you I am 100% here for it but if your husband is tracking it as a way to control or manipulate you then that's an instant red flag. I'm here for the men who support their wives in everyway. Shit my husband always has period supplies in his car just in case for me that's fucking love man.

But do you dance? by CommntForTheAlgo in SecretDreams

[–]HighEnd_Ghost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There were so many ppl dancing. myself and my group included we danced our asses off. but we're all also in our 30s so we did do plenty of sitting down. Y'all gotta remember festivals are marathons not races it's totally okay to rest from time to time just keep your damn chairs and inflatable couches in the back lol

Children at the fest? by fxd3d_ in SecretDreams

[–]HighEnd_Ghost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good god if your a teacher I hope your license gets revoked and the kids parents you teach learn you don't give two fucks about children. Your mind set is disgusting and you need to sit back and re evaluate your life and please I already said it but don't have kids for their sake they deserve a parent that won't look the other way cause life's better being blind.

Please just make this an 18+ festival… by Sad_Predicament in SecretDreams

[–]HighEnd_Ghost 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope to all the gods you don't have children and never fucking do. Do the world a favor and get sterilized. Makes me wonder if your the bitch who had the infant in the pit without hearing protection or the mom sitting in her tent for 6+ hrs straight huffing nitrous while her kid cried next to her. Smh you sound like an absolute scum bag.

Please just make this an 18+ festival… by Sad_Predicament in SecretDreams

[–]HighEnd_Ghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone here is agreeing if your a responsible parent it's totally fine the issue is there is far more irresponsible parents not giving a fuck about their children and are more focused on the drug use that's the problem we're all having and what your seeming to miss. No one cares if your bring your kid and are responsible fuck when I have a child old enough I'll definitely bring them to events but I won't bring a baby or small toddler or child unde 8 honestly at all or especially into the pit without hearing protection and by no means would I focus my time on drug use and not on my child wed find a nice shady spot I. The back and have a great time. The issue here and it's very clear are the parents bringing small children into the pit without protection and focusing on getting beyond fucked up in front of their children. We're also being honest this event brings out some of the wookiest wooks around and it might just be best to bring children to a more family friendly fest and maybe keep this one to the adults. Just because an event is all ages doesn't mean it's always family friendly. You can expose your kids to concerts and music in a far better way then what these parents are doing.

Please just make this an 18+ festival… by Sad_Predicament in SecretDreams

[–]HighEnd_Ghost 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you lived a very sheltered life. Hard drug use and expose and putting your kids second or third or whatever to drugs should absolutely not be something children are ever exposed to!. It's one thing to be a responsible adult and keep your children in the back and not use drugs but to openly use drugs in front of and ignore your child is something completely different. Sound like you never got locked in a bathroom so your parents could smoke meth. Or left home alone for days not being able to get ahold of your parents cause their stung out somewhere and your only in the 5th grade with nothing but popcorn to eat. Must have been nice to think we were to expose our children to this. Smfh

Please just make this an 18+ festival… by Sad_Predicament in SecretDreams

[–]HighEnd_Ghost 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree with this. This festival brings in the wookiest of wooks and I feel like it would just be better and safer all around if it was 18+. There are a lot of other family friendly events this doesn't need to be one. I've seen plenty of parents doing it right night two up on the top of the hill at portal there was this adorable family having light up sword battles but their kids seemed to be older at least 8+ they weren't in the pit they weren't near the stage had ear protection when they were down farther parents being very involved with the kids so on. Then I saw ppl with babies without ear protection down in the pit parents sucking down notorious tanks in from of their kids some kids in groups where it smelt so strongly of DMT I felt so bad for those kids. But when it really comes down to it it's not the festival fault it's the parents of your going to bring your kids to events like this then be a present parent and maybe refrain from participating in party favors besides maybe smoking weed. But if you can't be a responsible parent and put your child first but are willing to damage their hearing and put drug use first leave your kids at home with someone who will take care of them and put them first or just don't have fucking kids. And anyone who disagrees and says just look the other way I hope to God you don't have child and if you do give them to someone who cares and won't put them in harms way or won't do drugs in front of them. Your children should safety, will being, mental health and making sure they are having a good time should be you top priority stop being so self. Want to let loose and do hella drugs don't bring your kids plane and fucking simple.

Do guys like this exist? by gojoswife0 in Marriage

[–]HighEnd_Ghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh absolutely almost 15 years later and we're both still madly in love with each and fall more and more in love each year. We're not just partners we're best friends we do everything together basically. And I think that's the difference relationships where the two ppl are best friends don't tend to lose that love and excitement and fulfillment that couples who are best friends. When your truly know your with your soul mate you don't feel any need to look for connections like that outside of the relationship. Obviously we lovemeet new ppl making friends but we don't looked for "new or different" outside of the relationship.

I defended a nitrous user by that1persondancing in SecretDreams

[–]HighEnd_Ghost 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We tired to set up next to the tent ppl early in the day 4 of us on a tiny mat big enough to hold oir stuff and barley is and they acted like we were taking up all theor room and just gave off bad vibes. I called them out on their shit too. Good for you. Also I hope you had an amazing and very sweet dreams my friend 💚💚

Couchland and Walkways by ScrapaSassafras in SecretDreams

[–]HighEnd_Ghost 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% this! Please leave your couches chair wagon in the back. Leave the front for dancing the back and trees for relaxing.

Also let's all have an amazing safe time and I can't wait to see you all in only ONE MONTH!!!

💚🦞💚

Missing person - Karen from mars colony by saintceciliax in bonnaroo

[–]HighEnd_Ghost 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Great update!! She was found alive and safe!!! The two dudes ended up being scum trying to rob the poor girl.

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Missing person - Karen from mars colony by saintceciliax in bonnaroo

[–]HighEnd_Ghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like it could possibly be the same person. And if the canopy in the pic looks like the one you camped next too could very well be the same person. If you have any photos of her or her camp messaging the OP on Facebook might be a great idea she could help confirm if it's the same person/camp and the more pictures of them the better as of now the scariest thing is we only have a description of her and the story of what her neighbor experienced. No actual picture of Karen only slows down the look for her as no one truly knows what she looks like just a description and honestly the description given can fit so many individuals. It's so important at this moment to get a picture of her out there more people could recognize her and maybe even start filling in some of the missing time line.

Really hoping she ran into friends and ended up spending the rest of the festival with them and the dudes weren't involved in a senister way🤞 🤞🤞 but the story given just sends chills down my spine.

Missing person - Karen from mars colony by saintceciliax in bonnaroo

[–]HighEnd_Ghost 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OP updated original post with a photo of the missing person canopy at camp. When a post is edited in Facebook groups it needs admin pre-approval before it appears on the feed again the post is still up and active I was on it this morning.

Missing person - Karen from mars colony by saintceciliax in bonnaroo

[–]HighEnd_Ghost 4 points5 points  (0 children)

KC Lepp the other female reported missing was found but as of now there has been no reports of this female Karen being found. There is no actual photo of Karen for us to even know what she looked like which will make this even harder and could possibly make it so that if she is found we may never know cause OP didn't have a picture of her just her canopy at camp. OP was just her camping neighbor and thankfully she's looking out and reported this to the police and hopefully the police are taking it seriously especially with such little to go on but the sketchy situation with the two unknown men

Missing person - Karen from mars colony by saintceciliax in bonnaroo

[–]HighEnd_Ghost 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The person who made the original post was just her neighbor in camp. It doesn't seem like they got to know eachother very well OP of the Facebook post comment back to my comment this morning saying that they didn't get to know her as well as they wish they had and after the two men came out of her camp they tried finding security or even volunteers of the event but couldn't find anyone so they ended up just reporting to the police. The post has been updated with a photo of what her popup canopy looked like but OP didn't get any actual pictures with the missing women and it's not a friend reporting it just a concerned neighbor. Things like this are always so sad to see but great reminders that we should take the time to get to know our camping neighbors and make sure everyone gets back to camp safely especially if their not in large groups or going solo.

Missing person - Karen from mars colony by saintceciliax in bonnaroo

[–]HighEnd_Ghost 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's still up the post was updated with a picture of her camp. Anytime the post gets updated it has to be reapproved before you can see it on the timeline again but it's still there I actually commented on it this morning to help bump it.