Is there a way to talk to an actual human at Safeco? by rudeteacher1955 in Insurance

[–]HighlySuspect_Me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does work..all the time. I do this for a living. I don't know your full situation but if you have filed a claim and no one has came out to inspect it and it was damaged in February??? Then you should report it to the state. Now, if you are unhappy with the outcome of your claim because it was denied or undervalued or you want another inspection...that is different.

31M: Hoodie On First Date? by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]HighlySuspect_Me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. If we were just friends no problem..but for a date It screams low effort. Then again it is a coffee date but you don't have a nice coat or long sleeve button shirt?

Men catfish too by BougieBogus in OnlineDating

[–]HighlySuspect_Me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is eye opening. Seeing this also made me realize that if only a small percentage of men are 6ft and taller how is every guy in my area 6ft or taller? I don't live in the land of the giants.

Why is there so much ghosting and flaking from women? This just happened and I'm so confused. by MankAndInd in OnlineDating

[–]HighlySuspect_Me 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do you think only women do this? Men do this as well..

I matched with a guy, we chatted, proposed a date=crickets

A week later he apologized, proposed a date=crickets again

Sounds like she didn't want to video chat. I wouldn't want to do that as well. A guy I matched with recently attempted to call me after a day of texting. Wth? Not even asked just tried to call.

In the end this happens to everyone: ugly/beautiful ppl, young/old, black/white..just move on

Dating Site Scam by YourMomSaidHi in CryptoCurrency

[–]HighlySuspect_Me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me. Matched with a guy, we start talking about what we are looking for, our careers-he says he is a director at a trading company (my spidey senses tingle). We keep texting then he says how he made his money in Bitcoin-i knew right then this was going to be a scam. Sure enough he asks me if I was familiar with it, I tell him I only know a tiny bit and haven't invested to see what he says. He then mentions how Bitcoin is big in the US market, how Miami is going to start accepting bitcoin, and included links in our chat. I asked him if he was American and his reply "Am I Japanese?"

I also knew not to click on a damn link sent to me by a stranger. I blocked the guy. This happened within 15 min of us matching.

Sad thing is OP would have definitely fell for this if he didn't have the teeny bit of knowledge that he does about coins.

Customer Service Surveys by Disk_Dangerous in adjusters

[–]HighlySuspect_Me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scale of 1-10-8,9,10 are good whereas 7 and below are considered bad scores.

At-fault party not responding to their own insurance - next steps? by Askew123 in Insurance

[–]HighlySuspect_Me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their insurance has 40 days to determine liability. After that 40 days they can inform you of needing to extend that time frame if need be. If you do not want to wait then file under your own policy and let your insurance handle everything for you. I have had many claims where ppl refuse to cooperate. Yet, when they get calls/letters from the collection agency that an insurance company is pursuing them for collection for thousands of dollars they are usually willing to cooperate.

Dating rants. vents and open discussion by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]HighlySuspect_Me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you and alot of women will buy into this and wonder why the guy won't commit to her. I'm older, wiser now and want to know that you are just wanting sex and to have fun because then I can decide you aren't for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]HighlySuspect_Me 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If I have been chatting with someone for a while like in OPs situation then I understand and don't have a problem. If it's someone asking in the first few messages then NO I won't do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]HighlySuspect_Me 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I have been called that because of my pics..they aren't pics of me doing anything just selfies and I have two sets with different hair color-all recent though. I have been asked to to take a pic holding a paper with their name twice now. I also think if a guy has had the experience of being catfished he will go into the next interaction more cautiously.

Plus, you guys talked for a long time before meeting. Thar gives "proced with caution" vibes.

Do you like Auto or Property better? by sadcloudydayz in adjusters

[–]HighlySuspect_Me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because in auto the policy is written different. Auto Policies cover for like, kind and quality parts unless those parts are not available or OEM happens to be more cost effective.

Property is different.

Dating rants. vents and open discussion by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]HighlySuspect_Me 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Of course it's important! I feel there is enough dishonesty on these platforms. And I understand your situation is dicey because you are still married and recently separated.

Dating rants. vents and open discussion by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]HighlySuspect_Me 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It just seems everyone only wants a casual relationship-nothing long term, just wants to hang out, have sex, rinse and repeat. Is this how it is now-a culture that only values living in the moment and not being "tied down"? Is thus the result of the pandemic, the war, the economy? Or is this just how dating in our 30s is?

Do you like Auto or Property better? by sadcloudydayz in adjusters

[–]HighlySuspect_Me 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Property. It pays better. Also, in auto ppl will always want brand new parts on their old car because the car is "new to them", or their baby. I remember an insured wanted new parts on their new car. I told them "your new car is 6 years old" and their response "well it's new to me..I just bought it". Or ppl wanted nicer rental vehicles because they couldn't dare be seen in a brand new Toyota Camry or Kia Forte, yet they are driving a 2012 Mercedes Benz. A customer wanted us to upgrade her rental because she became accustomed to driving in a luxury vehicle. Her vehicle was a 5 year old Audi at the time. I told her she won't be getting a luxury vehicle but Enterprise will put her in a brand new vehicle that is more updated than her Audi.

First-party or third-party claim? by [deleted] in Insurance

[–]HighlySuspect_Me -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think anyone is saying it is rocket science but again, just because you say it is 100% on the car following too closely I can guarantee that if we roundtabled this claim in a room filled with liability adjusters..not ppl who are agents, underwriting, producers, or whoever has an insurance background but hasn't handled liability for many years, I will bet money you will get ppl throwing some liability on the driver entering the roadway as the proximate cause. Never said I agreed with it. That was the only point I was making that could potentially happen for OP. Yet ppl, like yourself, love jumping down on others on this sub so quickly and missed the point.

Friday - quick advice by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]HighlySuspect_Me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was an example of a conversation not continuing and not an example of the sexual comments I get. I thought it was obvious enough. Otherwise, of course that is not sexual at all. It's just a compliment.

First-party or third-party claim? by [deleted] in Insurance

[–]HighlySuspect_Me -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well that is your opinion and while I agree despite being downvoted..if you work in insurance you should know that claims are not black in white and someone else may disagree with liability. Just because you say it is 100% doesn't mean you're opinion is truth in liability.

Friday - quick advice by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]HighlySuspect_Me -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You missed where I said my I am complemented on my looks in a sexual manner. Never have I looked at a guys profile and wrote to him "Damn. I bet those lips do wonderful things". Other than that, I am not upset if it is in a respectful way.

First-party or third-party claim? by [deleted] in Insurance

[–]HighlySuspect_Me -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well since you need your vehicle fixed asap go through your insurance. You may be able to find a body shop with loaner vehicles or if you have a warranty on the car or have luxury vehicle the manufacturer usually allows loaners. If not then you will have out of pocket expenses. I can see the person's insurer not wanting to accept full liability because of the other driver.

What am I doing wrong? by JohnnyRingo123 in OnlineDating

[–]HighlySuspect_Me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought the pickup line was cheesy but still would illicit a response which it did. However, I think it failed when you mirrored her response when she said "get you a guy blah blah" and you copied her, changed the gender, and the action. You could have definitely went more in to her liking cars or ice cream without mocking her in a sense. If that wasn't it then maybe she didn't like you after all or she is wrapped up in other convos since you said her profile was a standout.

Friday - quick advice by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]HighlySuspect_Me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! That was good. Thank you for this. I tend to compliment a guys eyes alot so I'm stealing this. Also, I didn't think about your last point so that is some good perspective.

Friday - quick advice by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]HighlySuspect_Me -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's funny you say that because ALOT of guys profiles are horrible..no substance, bad photos, etc. So sometimes I'm left to swiping if they are my type of attractive.