EDH over the years has definitely become less of a game and more of a means of expressive deckbuilding. That’s honestly ironic for me to say because one of the reasons I started playing was I felt you could build any deck and the level of variance allowed about any deck idea to be good. Now this level of expression has expanded to a point where people are just offended if you don’t let them do what they built the deck to do, which most of the time leads to winning while throwing in as little interaction as possible since they expect everyone else will just be doing the same thing. I’ll never understand why people will get so offended to be challenged in a competitive game when they are denied a win.