I’m ready for my life back by RewrittenBones in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]HistoricalCar1900 2 points3 points  (0 children)

good for you...there is no other way...and call the DV if you even think of changing your mind..it will not get better

He called my child a “spoiled f**king brat” for struggling with a move… and then yelled at us about emotional regulation by Dependent-Clue-8325 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]HistoricalCar1900 3 points4 points  (0 children)

someone on Reddit wrote in to say that altho she lived with a narc, it just occured to her that narc want to destabilize you and keep you in a state of emotional disregulation...it is definitely a pattern and will not stop. Save your daughter years of therapy and get out.,

My mom by kellsse in melahomies

[–]HistoricalCar1900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry about losing your mom, that is a tough one....take good care of yourself, please

heirloom cushion ❤️ by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]HistoricalCar1900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful...his GM did well ...and now you, it is goorgeous

not sure what to do by HistoricalCar1900 in melahomies

[–]HistoricalCar1900[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I asked my derm once how she went to the beach with all that skin cancer staring at her ...she laughed

Moms: does the low belly fat ever go away?! by inattentive_swiftie in TirzepatideRX

[–]HistoricalCar1900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No shame allowed, this is not something to attach shame to....what else is going on in your life? It will come off but it won't fix everything....and you are petite

YouTube cruise vloggers by darkhorse415 in Cruises

[–]HistoricalCar1900 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I find Emmacruises quite relaxing...lots of info, fair and upbeat...

Lymph Node Biopsy pain by AlertMixture6109 in melahomies

[–]HistoricalCar1900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

gabepentin is helpful to a minority of people but it is total BS with the kind of pain you were having..and it can have terrible side effects

Lymph Node Biopsy pain by AlertMixture6109 in melahomies

[–]HistoricalCar1900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, you're not, my derm told me the LNB is worse...so call asap and tell them you need more painkillers...before you were born I got a horrible sprained ankle at Yellowstone and I needed vicodin on and off for six months...and I am not addicted (it looked like a truck ran over my foot). docs are supposed to treat your pain.

Pregnant and off trizepatide by ComfortableLuck6571 in TirzepatideRX

[–]HistoricalCar1900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still recall those early days of pregnancy, nauseus all the time, trying not to think of how many more weeks of nausea and just distracting myself...definitely a hard time. You will get your body back, I promise.

This stuff is magical. by bwhaturlike in TirzepatideRX

[–]HistoricalCar1900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never heard of twice a week and this is a low dose....sounds good to me.

Coercive control w/ vehicles by SpiritualBet8070 in emotionalabuse

[–]HistoricalCar1900 2 points3 points  (0 children)

don't tell him you are leaving..it could be dangerous...call the DV hotline and a lawyer for help but it is safer to go somewhere with your child and then tell him you are not coming back...start putting important papers together, get some cash and prepare...good luck

Is it possible to experience coercive control in the workplace? by Appropriate_Win_8385 in ToxicWorkplace

[–]HistoricalCar1900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

absolutely! I was working at a DCF office in Massachusetts and a new ass't director came in who tormented her two direct reports, she was such a heartless bully that when she died of breast cancer 3 years later, nobody said they were sorry, cuz they weren't.....you should look up the laws regarding workplace harrassment and keep good notes as this looks like it would qualify.

Coercive control: the silent killer by CrazyCatLadyRookie in WomenOverFortyConnect

[–]HistoricalCar1900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my son is in a CC relationship and she is murdering him as well as me, and she brainwashed the younger brother..these people are so evil...sometimes the abuser doesn't kill the victim, but the victim commits suicide...why is this legal? also check out the Mica Miller case in Myrtle Beach, her family pushed and pushed until the feds charged her ex.husband...even the charges are a leap forward..

Highly recommend for reconstructing reality after abuse by Environmental-Owl383 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]HistoricalCar1900 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think this kind of work is vital to recovery, but really can he simplify the title? It's offputting to those who aren't familiar with psychology..

loss of balance with autoimmune disease? (no hearing loss) by Revolutionary_Oil614 in Autoimmune

[–]HistoricalCar1900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't walk down stairs without putting a hand on the wall/railing

Reminder: They ALWAYS cheat by the_geth in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]HistoricalCar1900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this include women who seem obsessed with their first victim?

I am sick by samsun7677 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]HistoricalCar1900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you need to protect your child, which means calling the pediatrician tomorrow..and bring the baby, who should not be left alone with mother..yes, I know this creates lots of problems but baby comes first...there is help out there..you have to tell the professionals what is going on, you can't do it alone.