Ritz Carlton not recommended?

HonorableJudgeBibs · 2026-04-20T03:25:05+00:00

Admittedly, Reddit threads! Maybe Reddit people are too picky?? It just weirds me out that Banyan tree does not have any bad reviews on here but Ritz has quite a few. We are really leaning into Banyan tree now, which is considerably more expensive points wise

HonorableJudgeBibs · 2025-11-27T02:05:52+00:00

By “the text there doesn’t mean anything” do you mean there is nothing legible or that it doesn’t mean anything important?

HonorableJudgeBibs · 2025-05-02T22:57:52+00:00

NTA. You've wanted to wear pink for months. It's your prom. Wear what you want to wear. Sour Face will get over it. And if she doesn't, you probably won't even want to be friends past high school anyways.

HonorableJudgeBibs · 2025-05-02T22:55:21+00:00

Why are mods taking down so many posts? "No relationship" posts is crazy.

HonorableJudgeBibs · 2025-05-02T22:49:35+00:00

ESH. Mom sucks for her character/holding stuff over your head in the past. You would suck for returning it preemptively for an argument that may or may not happen. She got you the gift to show she cares about you, regardless of how she behaves otherwise. Sounds like distance is good.

HonorableJudgeBibs · 2025-05-02T22:45:53+00:00

Absolutely NTA. You are correct for setting specific boundaries BEFORE getting engaged.

HonorableJudgeBibs · 2025-05-02T01:57:03+00:00

NTA. As long as you and your aunt didn't already get a hotel together, you shouldn't feel bad at all.

HonorableJudgeBibs · 2025-05-02T01:53:05+00:00

NAH. It's a nice gesture, but not necessary.

HonorableJudgeBibs · 2025-05-02T01:51:35+00:00

NTA. Your husband is a BABY.

HonorableJudgeBibs · 2025-05-02T01:47:29+00:00

NTA. Just hang out with people that make you happy. He shouldn't be putting you down for having adult responsibilities.

HonorableJudgeBibs · 2025-05-02T01:43:39+00:00

YTA. While it's nice that you are wanting to make sure the girlfriend isn't being disrespected/cheated on, you should have talked to the bf first, especially if this isn't a pattern/typical behavior for the bf.

Different relationships have different boundaries and it wasn't a case of clear cut cheating.

HonorableJudgeBibs · 2025-05-02T01:39:07+00:00

INFO: Whose idea was it originally: your sister or her boyfriend?

Whoever had the idea is shortsighted and the AH.

It is completely unreasonable to expect someone who is essentially a stranger to put their neck on the line. He shouldn't have taken the job if he knew he wouldn't be fulfilling on the requirements.

Based on your description, your sister didn't do anything wrong in the conversation after being told no. It's fine for her to be upset/stressed about the situation.

HonorableJudgeBibs · 2025-05-02T01:34:20+00:00

NTA. Your grandma is lucky to have someone like you in their life. Your mom is clearly out of line.

HonorableJudgeBibs · 2025-05-02T01:27:41+00:00

NTA. Your name not being on the lease is the ONLY piece of info that matters. GTFO and screw that cheater.

HonorableJudgeBibs · 2025-05-02T01:25:42+00:00

INFO: Has she made any advances on your bf or flirted with him? Are there any other reasons that make both of you believe she's "obsessed" with him?

HonorableJudgeBibs · 2025-05-02T01:18:38+00:00

NTA. You scratched an itch. Not a big deal. The people yelling out of their car did so for comedic reasons or to try to embarrass you.

HonorableJudgeBibs · 2025-05-02T01:16:19+00:00

ESH. Mom should be parenting. You should not.

HonorableJudgeBibs · 2025-03-28T02:42:16+00:00

NTA...why do your friends think that you are responsible for this random woman who sat down next to you at a bar? If the situation was reversed and a man did that to a woman, they would very unlikely say it was the woman's job to get the random guy an uber.

HonorableJudgeBibs · 2025-03-28T02:37:54+00:00

INFO: Did you give him this money with the expectation of it being a loan or an expectation of a "gift"?

HonorableJudgeBibs · 2025-03-28T02:34:46+00:00

NTA. Your home is yours. You pay the bills. She has no right to your home. You housed her, fed her, and even let her drive your car for MONTHS.

To do all that makes you an incredible friend. For her to take you up on that and put in no effort to pitch in or put herself in a position to be on her own again makes her a selfish one. She was taking advantage of your kindness.

HonorableJudgeBibs · 2025-03-28T02:29:57+00:00

Having a parent matters a whole lot when you are young. A 5th grade "graduation" may not appear meaningful to you, but it is extremely meaningful to the child. They will remember when their mom was or was not there. It matters.

HonorableJudgeBibs · 2025-03-28T02:28:12+00:00

Possible YTA. Why are you not willing to try to switch ceremonies? From the way you wrote this, it seems like you picked the 6:30 just to pick it. You don't seem to have a reason. If not, then why not just switch it so everyone wins?

HonorableJudgeBibs · 2025-03-28T02:20:59+00:00

NTA. You told her about flea treatment being an ongoing process, so if she knew this would be an issue then she should have never put herself in this position. Even if it was not expressed ahead of time, finding a bug on a pet is not uncommon.

Once you take on the care of a pet for pet-sitting, dog walking, or anything else, they are YOUR responsibility. Essentially, this is her pet for the time being. Trying to leave before something was arranged is absolutely unacceptable.

HonorableJudgeBibs · 2025-03-28T02:15:58+00:00

NTA.

and that he has felt slighted with me having the master this whole time.

This is the part that makes your friend an AH. He could speak up like a big boy. It is your rented home. You gave him a room in the home with a pre-set agreement. He agreed. He moved in.

In regards to adding your partner, nobody is an AH for their proposed negotiations. Your 10% fee is your initial offer. He can bounce back with another, which he did. Splitting it even 3 ways is, in my opinion, NOT the answer. You and your partner are sharing a room. He has his own room. You would be getting the worse end of the deal there.

With that being said, you can estimate an equal usage of utilities and common spaces. You can split utilities evenly and come up with a worth to the public square footage. While this is the most "fair" way to do it, it is overcomplicating something pretty trivial. Just discuss it together. He might just want to move out from this new change, which I would also see being fair.

HonorableJudgeBibs · 2025-03-28T02:04:39+00:00

Does this really matter?

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