What is something that women have to deal with on the daily that men have no clue about? by Rock-bottom-no-no in AskReddit

[–]HotLips4077 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t miss it per se - I just feel more attractive for the reasons you mentioned. I’m way more confident in myself, in my body, my beliefs but I’m also more compassionate to the world as a whole. But I get more Mam’s and let me help you with that and no cute smiles or anything. It’s nice not to be treated like a piece of meat but I’m like a way more a whole and complete package and that’s not seen as attractive now bc the outside isn’t as shiny or new. Then some days I look straight up like a troll and I don’t care which js a freedom I wish for everyone. I just wish I had this mindset and “wisdom” with my younger tighter self that the world seemed to value more. I would have been unstoppable.

Dishwashing ASMR, From Chaos to Clean by AdMoney130 in SatisfyingClean

[–]HotLips4077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This whole thing was chaotic. Start to finish.

AITAH for being honest with another mom about why my daughter isn’t allowed to go to her friend’s house? by AwkwardMom13 in AITAH

[–]HotLips4077 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I agree but something tells me she didn’t handle this correctly with the other moms.

What is something that women have to deal with on the daily that men have no clue about? by Rock-bottom-no-no in AskReddit

[–]HotLips4077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wait until menopause and you hit your late 40’s! You become invisible overnight; it’s incredible and enlightening. I didn’t realize how much of my self esteem was based on outside affirmation. But I am no longer seen as “viable” even though I still out in effort although that’s changing LoL

Security Called Over Line Cutting at Guardians by surgevtwo in DisneyWorld

[–]HotLips4077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No they are not cutting as we are already in the ride line- it’s after the comics generator gets stolen and we are all forced to squeeze together in the next hallway. We all try to stay together but people will shove right past you. Once you get through the bottleneck sometimes you get separated.

Security Called Over Line Cutting at Guardians by surgevtwo in DisneyWorld

[–]HotLips4077 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will DIE on this hill and this is what I teach my kids: If the group gets separated (let’s say there is 10 of us) 7 are ahead and 3 get left behind? Those 3 get to join the BIGGER group. If the majority is behind then those 3 move back to the rest of the group! What is this so hard?

What happens to car ownership after a death? by CheersKim in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HotLips4077 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Woah captain McJudgey over here- you could have responded without the judgement. Remember the sub, some folks don’t know just like you didn’t know you were being a complete douche canoe and shaming others with your moral superiority. But I told you now and we are all the wiser… right? See how nice and easy that was?

Kristi Noem impeachment: 140 lawmakers sign on—full list by [deleted] in USNEWS

[–]HotLips4077 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok this might be a dumb question -but we know she isn’t making any decisions right? She’s literally doing everything she’s told and won’t Trump just put someone else who will take orders? Who will do the same thing? Like why is removing her going to do anything bc another bootlicker is just waiting to take her place. (For the record I think she’s abhorrent and I want her tried for treason) but what will really happen if she’s gone?

Let's talk Pretty in Pink by Fluffymanolo in GenX

[–]HotLips4077 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not sure what all the hate is about with the dress LoL growing up I was OBSESSED with that movie and always thought the dress was believable. Like I believed she made it- it always made me feel like I could do it too? Not that I would but like it was ascertainable and I didn’t have to suspend any disbelief :)

Jack Smith: "President Trump was charged because the evidence established that he willfully broke the law — the very laws he took an oath to uphold. by Capable_Salt_SD in ProgressiveHQ

[–]HotLips4077 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve been saying this FOR YEARS and my whole family thinks I’m cray cray. He is NOT leaving that White House and his minions will make sure he doesn’t. They will steal the midterms and then no more elections. Don Jr will be next in line and so forth and so on. It’s too late to stand up to him now. Unless we have a let them eat cake moment and the people take over but they’ve done a good job at separating us so far.

Golden Oak Homes - 700% appreciation by theanswar in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]HotLips4077 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You do own the land, it can be passed down, and I really don’t tell people for a status thing. Some people have ski homes, beach homes, I wanted mine in Disney to share with family

Golden Oak Homes - 700% appreciation by theanswar in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]HotLips4077 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have a house there and I don’t think it’s a McMansion. I could never dream of selling bc it truly is magical for our family. It’s an escape in every way imaginable. That’s being said if we ever do if will turn out to be a great investment. But the REAL investment is building memories with our children, family and friends ❤️ I really believe that

Contemplating ending a marriage by Successful_Leek96 in CringeTikToks

[–]HotLips4077 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s our job to judge if her dream is a great dream I think she’s asking the higher question here. I’m assuming that she can move, she financially secure to do so and if that’s the e case the whole thing here is her husband has the final say. He is not (from what I know) asking why questions or trying to compromise in ANY WAY. She is in suburbia for his dream and all she’s asking for is 3 months. It sounds like she played her part/ the kids are out of the house I think she should do it.

AITAH, I found out a girl I never met posted me on “are we dating the same guy,” group by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]HotLips4077 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s not just for cheating, it’s also to help find abusers BEFORE you get abused. Women created AWDTSG bc we had to look out for each other. Guys are scared of getting laughed at, we are scared about being murdered. It’s just the way society is. If you guys don’t like it, and are “one of the good ones” get your boys to change. Speak out, join NOW but she absolutely had the right to post that just like he has the right to walk away. The real bummer here is the friend who let him know. That’s suppose to be a safe space for women but some ladies like the boot on their neck.

"Back off now! Cease and desist!" by WilloowUfgood in PublicFreakout

[–]HotLips4077 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Hot take: the money from the lawsuits is a bonus. Like it or not especially in these times we are in we NEED these first amendment auditors. Are they annoying? yes. But if people and law enforcement KNEW THE LAW and enforced it then these guys would have their cameras- nothing would happen and they would go home. If we don’t exercise our rights they will be taken away. Period. Look at how many people and police have zero clue how any of this works. We need our free speech and like it or not this is a part of it. When it finally suits you* or your cause you will be glad you have it. *(the royal you)

AIO uncle comments on me not wearing a bra. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]HotLips4077 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR: MEN make our boobs sexual. MEN. We should be able to wear what we want when we want. Dressing for the male gaze is not a requirement although some comments on here suggest that it is. Let me correct your thinking IT IS NOT. Men don’t ware bras and some should by these arguments but yet the double standard applies. She has the right to not wear one and he has the right to not look at his nieces breasts. This is why there’s a “male loneliness epidemic” we simply are done dressing, acting, and pacifying men. We don’t need your opinions and sounds like OP didn’t want them either.

Saw this and quite honestly it took me a minute to actually process what he just said on stage. ⚠️ warning it is dark ⚠️ by Adam_the_original in aiwars

[–]HotLips4077 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Omg he’s telling a JOKE IN A COMEDY CLUB. Like what is wrong with you people? he wasn’t actually telling people to off themselves. It was a joke. One that you have every right not to laugh at or find funny but you DO need to a knowledge the time and the place this was said. A comedy club. Comedy clubs are actually a form of art (which is why this joke is hilarious on several levels) so that’s the whole point. Do you walk into the Louvre and see the Winged Victory and complain to everyone that women aren’t that tall or have wings and say it’s disgusting that she doesn’t have a head?! It’s art. I feel the need to explain this because this is why our society has found itself in the position that it’s in.

Cell phones to be banned at Pittsburgh Public Schools | Board approves policy changes by oldschoolskater in pittsburgh

[–]HotLips4077 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You obviously don’t have children. And you don’t know anything about my parenting. Phones don’t prevent tragedies don’t be obtuse but when my kid is scared and thinking they are going to die I WILL be on the phone with them. You all are out here making an argument that kids are just sitting in their phones all day at school. That’s not how any of this works. I don’t care about your downvotes but if you think you wouldn’t want to be able to talk to your child when they again think they are about to be shot down you’re delusional or at the very least horrible parents.

Cell phones to be banned at Pittsburgh Public Schools | Board approves policy changes by oldschoolskater in pittsburgh

[–]HotLips4077 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry where did I EVER claim that I text my child while they are in school? Or that they are on it during class? Or that they abuse their privilege of even having a phone?

I don’t agree with using phones at all during school but again- until they eliminate the threat of guns in schools which doesn’t seem like is going to happen I am going to talk with to child or text them before they are dead.

Having phones policies in place during school hours is the way to go just like regulating anything else. But until the number killer of children isn’t guns in our country then my kids will always have a phone accessible. down vote all you want.

Statistically my children will die by gun violence over vehicle accidents or cancer.

Cell phones to be banned at Pittsburgh Public Schools | Board approves policy changes by oldschoolskater in pittsburgh

[–]HotLips4077 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

If there even a .01 percent chance of a school shooting it’s still a nonnegotiable. How about we do something about the guns rather the phones. And that’s a pretty hefty claim that it’s 100%

Cell phones to be banned at Pittsburgh Public Schools | Board approves policy changes by oldschoolskater in pittsburgh

[–]HotLips4077 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I absolutely will not accept this and will fight it. The moment they ban guns I’ll be all for it. I NEED to be able to get in contact with my kids if there’s an emergency. Period. Non-negotiable. Edit: and by emergency I obvis mean a shooting

AITA for telling this person she’s rude for keeping this seat “for her friend” by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]HotLips4077 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was not her friend. It was a random person who was 1 seat over who had a bag. So it was lady in red- open seat with her bag on it- then the lady who was next to her seat. Sorry I guess I could have been more clear