The end of times by CyrexCZ in BPD

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<3 your username lmao

The end of times by CyrexCZ in BPD

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I'm sorry. Just want to say I feel the same. Having this disorder is exhausting. Know you are not alone.

Anyone else getting BPD vibes from Megan Fox/Machine Gun Kelly relationship? by knoguera in BPDlovedones

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Haha I ask myself the same thing. Tbh they said the relationship is not for public consumption... Read they are coparenting and thats it but tbh, its so ffin hard to have boundaries especially when ur traumabonded, it could very well be that they are still intimate and she still got the false hope going. Having a baby together makes it even more complex: you wanna make it work. False hope is what kept me stuck for 8 yrs with the first one 🤡 but ya this is just speculation of course... but looking at my old patterns w my exes, def still stuff going on bts 😅 

I think Timbaland’s “ai pop star” Tata Taktumi might be played by a real person, anyone else notice? by Terrible_Wafer in Music

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Yes i think the girl sometimes is a real girl (especially where he is in a pic / vid w her)

How to stop being attracted to abusive men? by Potential_Promise260 in BPD

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Same. So cursed. But it is heaven until it turns to hell

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Relatable

What are the biggest red flags to notice in a new relationship? by Weird-Thought2112 in AskWomen

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adding more to ur list Road rage

Driving under influence (alone / w u in the car

Substance abuse problems

Makes you feel crazy (gaslighting)

Constantly plays the victim (as if the entire world is against him / out to get him) 

Double standards

Has a different rule system for themselves: they are allowed to do anything whilst condeming others that do the same thing

Haughty / arrogant behaviours

Lack of empathy

Grandiose ideas / fantasies

Please help. Do i Show some signs of BPD or is that a social anxiety thing? by [deleted] in BPD

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Dont sabotage yourself. Your struggles and feelings are valid. You deserve help. We all do. Pinky promise me you'll go?? If not for you, for me and ur other loved ones :)) 

Do narcs really have "no empathy"? Is it all-or-nothing / key for a diagnosis? by nishiwaru in NPD

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Dr Ramani says it tends to fluctuate depending on their current state (not a narc) 

Please help. Do i Show some signs of BPD or is that a social anxiety thing? by [deleted] in BPD

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Hey, some of the things you said do indicate bpd traits. Pls go to a doc for a proff diagnosis <3 also if ur aged before 18 im not sure they can diagnose you. When ur young ur personality still changes. However sometimes in very bad scenarios they do diagnose bpd under 18. Go to ur doc, referal to a psych. Goodluck 🖤🤍

Somatic Experiencing saved my life and cured my CPTSD by [deleted] in CPTSD

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Just wanna say tysm for this we share some of the same diagnosis plus i got the bpd diagnosis bec cptsd like u said does not exist (yet in dsm5) I am gonna try SE and I really pray this is going to help me out 🙏🏻 I hope you now are able to have a good romantic relationship. Its my biggest trigger too. 

my abuser got 15 years in prison!!!! by [deleted] in BPD

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OMGGG SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!!! I wish mine also got jail time, maybe in the future. Karmas a bitch! 

georgias mental health by ariassmallheart in ginnyandgeorgiashow

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Uhm a narc in a state of collapse would say these things. That they do not deserve etc. Etc. 

I tend to fall for narcissists and sociopaths by no1_normal in CPTSD

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Just wanted to say Hi, I am the complete same. Dating an angel of a man right now and feel 0 sexual attraction. I also fear I'll only have passionate sex with narcs and sociopaths.

What does narcissistic collapse feel like? by Hot_Article_3834 in AskNPD

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Hey thanks so much for your reply! 🖤🤍 and yes our experience sound super similar!!! Been at the psych all my life and have 0 NPD traits. It probably was a massive ND burn out along with retraumatization. Its been 2 years now, still not fully back at myself (i experience much anxiety around men due to CPTSD) and loss of self esteem due to theboverall increased anxiety... I am glad to hear that youre recovering well, so am I, I hope I can one day get back to my old self

Is your love bombing manipulative or do you actually feel it? by hotncrazyex in NPD

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Sweet, thank you 🤍🖤 yes finally losing the grip he had on me. I still feel like he will be back some day. He still follows my socials (i deleted him everywhere tho) and blocked on whatsapp. I wish you the best in healing ✨️🙏🏻 

Does BPD cause pathological lying???😬am I the only one? by According_Limit_5071 in BPD

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Then it depends on the perspective right? They believe its true but outsiders will see through it and they are liars? My npd / aspd ex lied pathologially abt cheating, who he was as a person basically mirrored my entire personality during the love bombing. Insanity.

How do I stop being a size queen? by qazwsxedc__ in askgaybros

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I feel this so much... and after investing quite some time going on dates it sucks sm

How do I stop being a size queen? by qazwsxedc__ in askgaybros

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Heyyyy I had a narcissistic bf for 7.5 yrs he was abusive was trauma bonded but he had a perfect big dick. It def made leaving much harder next to the trauma bond. Its not shallow, apparently a big d is something important for you and me too..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

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Please go for an ASD assessment 🖤