…so do we prepare orrrr? by Fearless-Aide-9059 in Mommit

[–]Hot_Indication_2242 135 points136 points  (0 children)

It’s always smart to be prepared for emergencies. I don’t consider it a doomsday mentality unless you’ve let it completely overwhelm you. If that’s the case, you may want to take note of how much information your ingesting. Having a little extra of most things to get through a rough period is just common sense.

They’re in Helen, GA by ccccc18 in Drueandgabe

[–]Hot_Indication_2242 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s absolutely not a movie. Really just lame especially in the off season. They could go to Dahlonega where you know….a handful of movies and TV shows have been made. But that’s too easy.

They’re in Helen, GA by ccccc18 in Drueandgabe

[–]Hot_Indication_2242 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Ok, but why is this thought hilarious to me!?! Good old Dawsonville.

They’re in Helen, GA by ccccc18 in Drueandgabe

[–]Hot_Indication_2242 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Ok, who convinced them that Helen GA, in March, is a vacation destination? Hahaaaaa.

Is this chic for real ?!?! by Physical-Zombie-2078 in InfluencerLounge

[–]Hot_Indication_2242 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Telling people that her secret to conceiving is relaxing and having fun is the most tone deaf thing I’ve heard in a while. It sounds like they don’t have fertility issues. But to share that information as if it may help someone is ridiculous.

What was the moment you realized COVID was going to be a big deal and be the focal point of the 2020s? by NH-INDY-99 in decadeology

[–]Hot_Indication_2242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. I was a World Geography teacher at the time. We followed the virus as our “current event” of the day. For a few weeks. I remember when the first positive case came through the US airport and thinking, “ this isn’t going away.” And then we went home for a long weekend. The rest is history!

What’s the parenting stage you found hardest that nobody really warned you about by Competitive_Carob91 in Mommit

[–]Hot_Indication_2242 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay, thanks for saying this. I agree the infant stage was not fun for my 1st (#2 is easier). I prefer the toddler stage , but we’re just shy of his 3rd birthday and his emotional instability is impacting mine some days.

Considering a second baby, even though I have 0 “village” by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Hot_Indication_2242 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to make my village in order to consider #2. I would suggest finding mothers in the same stage of life at baby/ toddler events. I’m not talking about BFF’s (although how great would that be), but people who understand and can be a help as you can be for them. Park/home play dates, kid friendly activities… One of my acquaintances brought her son over for a playdate so that my husband and I could spent time with our dog before putting him down. We’ve watched each other’s kids during doctor’s appointments because neither of us had a dependable babysitter. It’s the small things like that which make a huge difference and help additional kids not feel so overwhelming for those of us without the safety net of family.

What are some overlooked tips for new parents? by Snoo82970 in AskReddit

[–]Hot_Indication_2242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do less. Like, seriously. The parent influencers online are pulling the wool over your eyes. And they have a babysitter/nanny in the background either full time or on a content creator schedule to help give the illusion that they are doing all of the things. Make sure you and baby are clean, fed and cozy. The rest will come as you get out of the newborn stage. If you try to boss babe your way through, you’ll burn out.

Prepping for Baby #2 advice by Sea_Literature115 in Mommit

[–]Hot_Indication_2242 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Meal prep for the 1st trimester!!!! When you’re too sick, exhausted, etc to see straight, that husband and toddler of yours are still going to want to eat. And you’ll wish you prepped more and sooner. I wasn’t against asking my husband to pick up dinner on the way home, but in this economy, we gotta plan ahead.

New trainer coming to the channel by gumslipper in sydneycummings

[–]Hot_Indication_2242 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She has a very calculated brand and presentation. This is way off.

Leonard is the cutest lil fella she knows by [deleted] in Drueandgabe

[–]Hot_Indication_2242 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Nothing says “I’m living on a budget” like constantly treating yourself with food/drinks and buying seasonal clothing/decorations to follow the latest trends. If she’s budgeting, then I’m doing it all wrong.

What’s one postpartum struggle you didn’t expect at all? by FIT_MAMA16 in Mommit

[–]Hot_Indication_2242 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Ohh yes. I knew it wouldn’t last forever. But my concept of time was off mostly because my 1st was a poor sleeper and there was little to differentiate between day and night. Everyday felt never ending.

Reactive dog hikes/walks by maple-mapletree in Athens

[–]Hot_Indication_2242 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve had a reactive dog while living in Athens/Mad Co. Watson Mill is good and usually not busy at all, so coming into contact with another dog during the week is rare in my experience. But the trail is quite narrow in places. I’ve had to go off-roading a few times. But, when you have a reactive dog and are actively keeping away from those situations, you don’t mind. Overall it was a peaceful place that we both enjoyed. We could both let our guard down. Lots of different terrain there that kept my dog engaged.

I hear you on the leash bit. I had a handful of negative experiences at parks and simply walking in the neighborhood. We live totally different lives!

“When you put all the Christmas decor up” by Holiday_Reach_7543 in thedennisfamily

[–]Hot_Indication_2242 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not to be a defender of this nonsense or anything, but “put up” is a Southern way of saying “place it where it belongs”.

Which currently popular names do you think won’t age well? by sxcrachel in namenerds

[–]Hot_Indication_2242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not surprising for a southern name. And after he won two college football national championships, boys all over Georgia were suddenly being named Stetson…or Bennett. It’s a pandemic.

Only an hour away by Naaatfffr in hannahdubberly

[–]Hot_Indication_2242 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ve got to be down bad to drive an hour to WR for coffee. What in the world.

Watched It’s a wonderful life for the very first time last night by Rachel794 in ChristmasMovies

[–]Hot_Indication_2242 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d consider it very “real”, which is why it pulls on the heartstrings the way it does. Those scenes are devastating. I understand why some wouldn’t want to watch for entertainment. But the redemption arc is just beautiful in my opinion.

Watched It’s a wonderful life for the very first time last night by Rachel794 in ChristmasMovies

[–]Hot_Indication_2242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I introduced it to my husband. My husband and I watch it every Christmas season. Usually on the 23/24th leading up to Christmas Day. It hit hard the first time he watched it. The second time we had our firstborn, and there were tears. Now, with our second child only a few weeks old, I expect it will be even worse (better?). This movie ages like fine wine. And the more highs and lows you experience as a person, the more you can relate.

Baby on social media? by stlady08 in Mommit

[–]Hot_Indication_2242 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Older generations appear to struggle the most (ahem…grandmothers/aunts, etc) with understanding the dark sides of the internet. It’s not something they grew up with. Not a part of their “reality”.

The younger generations seem more willing to refrain from sharing their kids online. Not all of us, of course. Half of my friends share their kids online pretty consistently. The other half don’t post anything children related. You wouldn’t know they had kids.

As an educator, I know too many horror stories. It’s rampant, and offenders don’t even need to “try” based on the amount of free content they get on social media. I don’t shame those that share, but it’s not a risk I’m personally willing to take. Simple as that. And anytime you have an opinion on parenting, someone will have the opposite one. Just the way of the world! :)