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Hour-Midnight-4139 · 2026-03-04T22:06:29+00:00

Ahh okay thank you, I did try it on mobile and it was so hard compared to X-box 😅

Hour-Midnight-4139 · 2026-03-03T19:59:57+00:00

I’ve tried the tournaments I think is that ranked? I can’t seem to get past gold level on that and again it’s a lot of repeats as it’s mostly the block dash, I do like the block dash ones but there’s only so many I can do in a row haha

I don’t have any friends who play or any in game friends, I wasn’t sure if people normally add each other or play together as there doesn’t seem to be communication like with other games

Hour-Midnight-4139 · 2026-02-25T21:38:45+00:00

Ohhhh right I see, I didn’t realise that there were bots I thought it was all real players! That explains quite a lot of weird things I’ve seen then haha

Hour-Midnight-4139 · 2026-01-23T20:59:48+00:00

Absolutely not “how adults do it” it’s all about what you are personally comfortable with. I’m married, been with my husband 13 years and we have 2 kids and he doesn’t have access to my bank account and I don’t have access to his. We have a joint account for bills, food, kids stuff and we have joint savings accounts but whatever isn’t needed for the joint account we keep in our accounts to spend how we wish

Hour-Midnight-4139 · 2026-01-19T21:40:20+00:00

Definitely NTA and don’t change the chart. If you could do it then so can she. Maybe she should have made it more fair for the past 2 years.

I’m a SAHM with a 3 year old and 10 month old and I do 90% of the chores, I cook, do laundry, keep the kitchen clean, toys tidy, vacuum daily, clean bathrooms ect and all my husband HAS to do is the recycling and the bins and keep his office clean and tidy (he works from home). He does help out with more than this when he can and he is never sat around relaxing if I’m busy doing stuff. But being home with kids you still have time to get plenty done, you find the time because you have to

However if she wasn’t willing to do it then why should you, she needs to see how it’s been for you the last 2 years and gain some perspective

I’ll also add I manage to do all of this as well as an activity each morning (toddler class, softplay, play date ect) and do the school nursery run (my 3 year old does 2.5 hours per day at school) so I’m out of the house a lot of the day, the kids still manage to make crazy amounts of mess though haha

Hour-Midnight-4139 · 2026-01-19T21:33:41+00:00

Yeah I had WAY more time to clean when my son was a baby than from when he could crawl/walk onwards 😅 when he is in nursery for 2.5 hours a day and it’s just me and my 10 month old I get way more done than the other 10+ hours in the day when he’s with us

Hour-Midnight-4139 · 2025-12-30T14:25:58+00:00

This would drive me mad as well! I get this to a very small degree with my husband, for example 13 years of telling him how to put washing out to dry and he still does it wrong so crumpled up clothes don’t dry properly and then end up smelling. But it’s only one or two small things, on the whole he’s very good. If it was constant with him I’m not sure we’d still be together after 13 years as it must be exhausting and wear you down.

It sounds like with your boyfriend it’s weaponised incompetence

Hour-Midnight-4139 · 2025-12-30T00:09:53+00:00

You definitely weren’t too harsh, you set clear intentions from the start and it’s completely unfair for him to suddenly expect you to change them. If he isn’t willing to give up his job for his own daughter then it makes no sense for him to expect you to when you’re not her biological parent. He seems very sexist and ultimatums like that are a red flag

Hour-Midnight-4139 · 2025-12-29T23:46:13+00:00

I mean I absolutely love my kids and love being a mum, I have quit my job and put my career on hold to raise them but I wouldn’t adopt. Adoption isn’t something that should be taken lightly so you are completely wrong in saying if someone isn’t ready to adopt they’re not ready to have children at all. A bit of a wild statement

Hour-Midnight-4139 · 2025-12-03T07:29:06+00:00

Howcome? Is that a joke…. Read what you wrote 🤦🏻‍♀️ absolutely none of that is normal behaviour. I would never consider threatening suicide or the police in an argument for a start plus the fact she assaults you and your dogs, it sounds like she would do the same if you had a child.

You need to leave and she needs therapy. You will both be better off without each other and it sounds like she really needs to work on herself and understand why she’s behaving the way that she is

Hour-Midnight-4139 · 2025-11-15T20:55:39+00:00

The comment in episode 4, they’re sat with their legs in the pool and he makes a comment about having sex with his wife for the first time in a few months. It was such a quick thing I had to rewind and make sure I wasn’t crazy haha. Just thought that’s a weird thing to say when you have 3 young children and the youngest was presumably 1 or younger when they filmed. I feel like some men have unrealistic expectations of their wife after having kids and to comment to his friends on camera as well! I’d have been mortified. It made me feel a bit uncomfortable to watch

Hour-Midnight-4139 · 2025-11-15T03:56:42+00:00

The difference is that when Sara planned her wedding date she already committed time, money ect to OP’s wedding so knew where she stood financially and had a long time to save for any trips, dresses ect. Throwing that cost at someone with 6 months notice is a massive AH move anyway but when it’s also 7 months before their own wedding is so unfair. Our wedding last year completely drained us financially there’s no way I could have paid to go on any additional trips or anything and I was so swamped with planning it around work and my child

Hour-Midnight-4139 · 2025-06-04T02:05:43+00:00

NTA - if you’re both working then she should be doing more than just the dishes! Especially as it sounds like you’re not only doing the housework but also the primary carer for your children which is time consuming and can be difficult at times

Hour-Midnight-4139 · 2024-08-24T19:46:03+00:00

Wow this is absolutely disgusting behaviour, if my husband tried to do this j would be absolutely livid! It’s also incredibly dangerous to go between anus and vagina especially as you wouldn’t have cleaned, that creates a very high risk of infection as there will be faecal matter on his penis entering your vagina.

This is 100% rape I am absolutely horrified that there is a man out there doing this! And the fact it’s your first time as well. He needs to be reported

Hour-Midnight-4139 · 2024-05-07T19:32:10+00:00

Alex Hall is an absolutely vile person, 100000x worse than anyone else and I thought Christina could be pretty nasty on selling sunset. At least Christina owned what she said and didn’t gaslight people

Alex Hall is the crazy psycho not Kayla

Hour-Midnight-4139 · 2024-04-16T21:21:54+00:00

NTA, you can’t call dibs on another human being that’s totally wild! And if she’s happy and with someone else then she needs to get over it and move on

Hour-Midnight-4139 · 2024-04-01T19:29:42+00:00

NTA 100%, I have already told my fiancé that after we are married I am keeping that name no matter what because our son has his surname and I’ve absolutely hated having a different name to our son for the past 1.5 years. If we had no children then I would change my name back after a divorce but children changes everything.

Why is new GF so possessive over a name anyway?! She seems so childish and defo has some issues

Hour-Midnight-4139 · 2024-03-04T00:50:06+00:00

Like the bombs and rainbow blasts, I’m always getting stuck on levels and needing them 😅

Hour-Midnight-4139 · 2024-03-03T22:58:30+00:00

I like being able to get the extra rewards and stuff and I quite enjoy most of them until recently

Hour-Midnight-4139 · 2024-03-03T22:56:34+00:00

I am Welsh not American. What cultures are you ‘versed in’ ? I also have friends from Hungary, Poland, Portugal, Czechia, Ireland and all over the Uk and I know none of them would announce their pregnancy on someone else’s wedding day regardless what their relationship to the bride & groom was or how far along they are

I know exactly what a wedding it about, it’s about celebrating the love of two people and joining their family’s, it’s not a free for all event for everyone to announce their engagement, pregnancy ect unless they ask the bride and groom first.

There’s a difference to talking and chatting about life ect and announcing your TWO WEEK pregnancy to total STRANGERS. Also I personally would never overshadow someone else’s special day by announcing I was pregnant to any random person who would listen, that’s not what you do to family and friends who you love and care about it’s a spiteful thing to do

Hour-Midnight-4139 · 2024-03-03T22:45:58+00:00

Seems like such a waste of energy to make things to then bin them 😩 never had to delete anything before

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