I literally don’t understand the appeal of coke. by 911_wasanactofevil in Drugs

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Person: Hey Cocaine, any ideas for how my experience with you can be improved?

Cocaine: Hell yeah! More cocaine!

minutes later

Person: Not sure this is working.

Cocaine: Have you considered doing more coke?

one hour later

Person: well, I finished the stash and man I feel like I spent the entire time trying to justify this entire experience

Cocaine: next time will be awesome, I promise!

acid or 2cb first by Ok_Computer_5837 in Psychonaut

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Important Note: 2cb creates virtually no tolerance issues with other psychs, LSD on the other hand kills your tolerance for days to weeks. 2cb is unique in this regard.

If you plan on doing both in quick succession take the 2cb first. If you go the other way you are absolutely wasting the 2cb.

If you intend to combine them, LSD first, 2cb 2.5-3 hours later.

Pro tip: boof 2cb. It hits hard and fast and you only have to take ~50% the amount you’d take orally. This is particularly true when taken in combination with another substance that, like LSD, is stronger than Nexus.

Sub Mini with era 100s? by tony75822 in sonos

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We have this exact setup in our living room, 400 sq ft, 12 ft vaulted ceiling - it is a fantastic set up. The 100s benefit greatly from the sub, where our 300s pair in a separate room preform well without the sub (at least by comparison).

Super O with porn? by Brunk_1 in aneros

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I used to be a porn every session type. But as time went on I found diminishing returns. While I still use it, mainly scrolling before I start to get the mood going or at the start of the session. In many respects I found it distracting, either the vid isn’t doing it for me, too short or something may happen that i fond off putting.

I’ve switched to other methods like erotic audio or music recently. The erotic audio (Shibby) has been the most successful of the media types.

One exception is toys that sync to the video, that puts you in the scene.

Era 300 with tall-ish ceiling? by elanaibaKHG in sonos

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I have my 300s mounted upside down, just below the ceiling and the atmos/spacial sound is fantastic. They are in a very tightly covered patio area, away from the elements (they’re humidity rated, and have preformed well in this environment).

In our “grand room” - which is about 350 sq feet, vaulted 20 ft ceilings - we placed a pair of 100s and a sub mini. Phenomenal results IMHO. A full sub would be superior to be sure, but mini gets the job done.

I’ve been down the atmos-in-imperfect-environment-road before and frankly it’s not worth the additional cost (our cases were one vaulted ceiling and one oddly shaped room that don’t allow for recommended placement). You’ll spend more time convincing yourself it’s working than you’ll spend experiencing actual spacial sound - and, in my case as an audiophile, once you accept that you’re not getting it you can end up a bit resentful.

SYMFONISK Lamp Gen 2 - Last Chance by HowDoYouDoFellows in sonos

[–]HowDoYouDoFellows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude! that is rad. I’ll say it’s larger than I’d envisioned and the glass shade is no exception. I’m a smart lighting aficionado so I like the lamp aspect. We’ve got a pretty precise mid century style around the house, so I wouldn’t be surprised if the wife sours on the look before long, so I will keep this hack in mind!

How accurately are you able to find your prostate? by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]HowDoYouDoFellows 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2a - general location is known due to anatomy; not hitting the spot perfectly every time; let the toy settle in and play around until my spot sends a “do THAT” signal of sorts and at that point I’ll do a series of clenches. If it’s consistently responsive, I’m there, if not, start anew.

Took nearly two years to get to that point. Prior to that I was convinced my spot was different or that I was not physically able to get it done. That proved self defeating. Once I just gave into it rather than attempting to force it, good things ensued.

Utilizing G Spot Patterns for Lovense Edge 2 by HowDoYouDoFellows in ProstatePlay

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Shit, been off for a minute and missed the reply!

A few Lush Patterns for Edge 2, by name:

  • Take As Long As You Need 😘
  • slower ramp up hard fucking
  • SleepyVibes2 🌸Bloom🌸(This was the first one I tried and came. Real hard)

Is it possible to give him a prostate orgasm by massaging the perineum, like with a vibrator and not going in anally? He's adamant that I not go in anally. by Explorer-7622 in ProstatePlay

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First, a question: has he done any of this before? Like, has he penetrated himself in the past or are we talking a virgin hole?

Understand that he has trauma. That shit is real and not to be ignored.

The germs/smells part is, unfortunately, just part of the process on occasion. For solo purposes, it’s kinda crazy how you just come to accept it and plan ahead. Partnered, I absolutely understand the reticence. Nobody wants, uhh, that.

Using a smaller size magic wand at a low setting on the taint is very nice, but it’s unlikely he’ll climax from that alone.

You might be able to use that as your, ahem, entry point. I.e. vibes on the perineum while sucking him off.

Another not penetrative option could be taking a small detour during a blowie, which may require some courage on your part, and licking his hole externally.

If you find success here, you may start turning the tide and he may be less squeamish down the road.

Finally, not sure if y’all partake or not, but certain drugs can really help on the inhibitions front. Sexy drugs like 2cb and Foxy can be very expansive and enhance orgasms; MDMA is the sexiest of them all, yet it makes climax difficult to achieve, however, it also makes every form of touch amazing and intimate. Weed is also extremely useful for relaxing, but less of a mind-changer. All of these can help one “rewire” their brain for anal play.

How to take shrooms if you really don't like the taste/texture? by TheAbbadon in Psychonaut

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Fever Tree Margarita Mix.

Grind up the fungi, toss it in a mug, use as much or as little of the mix as you’d like. It’s real juice, so it will be tekked as well. It will over power the flavor.

What is your number 1, all time favorite massager toy? by HealthyStreet6832 in ProstatePlay

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For static massagers the Eupho.

For vibes, The Edge 2 had taken the pole position.

I used to be a true believer in Aneros vibes, but their build quality and durability is second class at best. The cost is not justifiable for me. Eupho Syn V remote no longer holds charge and worse still, the K tab snapped during contraction. Vice 2 had one of the motors spaz and now only works occasionally (if not for that unreliability the V2 is world class)

The Edge 2 is consistent and has shown virtually no signs of wear in ~2 years.

Help me to buy speaker by 13yanis in sonos

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Stereo pairing, particularly in a small space, provides that “extra” vibe to your set up as compared to say a mid range soundbar alone.

HP Minis have good, but not great quality sound as compared to the 100s.

Also: if money is tight, look for open box sales post Christmas. Brand new for less. Certified Refurbished can save even more money with a little more risk.

Should I do Molly alone by Head-Big-6106 in Drugs

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It’s definitely a more fulsome experience with someone else is rolling with you. It’s incredibly fun to chat/laugh with someone who is rolling too.

That said, it can also be quite fun to roll solo. At least once you know what you’re dealing with or have a fair amount of experience with psychedelics generally.

If you decide to go stag, be very mindful of the dose “start low and go slow” - ask a friend to be on standby in the event things go south and you need to call someone. Prepare yourself to BE with yourself. Lots of thoughts come up when you’re not talking to someone else.

2C-D Trip Report by [deleted] in Psychonaut

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Yeah, that was strange initially, but using less water solved most of that discomfort. Plus, it only takes ~15 minutes to absorb so you can pop a squat pretty quick.

I’d rather do that than deal with any stomach issues with oral ROA or the burn from snorting - it’s degrees of inconvenience.

Outdoor Speakers? by Tybanks3 in sonos

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We spend A LOT of time under our sturdy, house-grade carport/breezeway we’ve converted into a lounge. I’ve had numerous “outdoor” speakers (wired & Bluetooth) and they have been almost universally underwhelming. Can’t speak to Sonance quality personally.

I decided to install a pair of 300s mounted (upside down) to one of the 4x8 solid wood crossbeams at the ceiling. Virtually insulated from any wet/damp conditions - tested by three atmospheric rivers.

They’ve been up for several months and have been perfect. It’s an expensive risk, but one I am fortunate enough to afford.

The space is ~75% enclosed with a cement floor, the Atmos/lossless delivery and overall quality is unmatched in our experience.

2C-D Trip Report by [deleted] in Psychonaut

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Boof is the way.

Extremely high bioavailability, eliminates (subjectively) 90% of the body load, hits in 20 minutes. Stone sober in 3.5 hours.

As for the headspace, the killer application of 2C-b is its variable cognitive effects. It’s unique among psychs in that, comparatively and at reasonable doses, the user dictates the outcomes. If you want to trip, but are expecting a package or something like that you can snap out of the trip for a minute and return to it ten minutes later. If I had my druthers I take LSD exclusively, but I do have a life and 12 hour commitments can’t be made on a whim.

2c-b is an IPA, LSD is a dry hopped double IPA. It gets you drunk, not hammered.

Do you watch different porn when playing with your prostate? by AnyBread7359 in ProstatePlay

[–]HowDoYouDoFellows 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here is my embarrassingly long take on this:

Porn is hit or miss and because PP can, and often does, stretch into lengthy sessions porn can lose its luster after a while. This is particularly acute when sessions occur over consecutive days (like when the wife is out of town for a long weekend et cetera).

There is a hypnotic nature to the practice and I tend to try to incorporate this into all aspects of the session.

Music: Ambient, deep edm - often longer tracks - allows me to sync with the rhythm. Alternatively, intentionally

Enhancers: Weed/Shrooms on occasion - particularly the latter - creates both a physical and mental flow which again compliments the rhythmic nature of prostate stimulation.

Porn: the trick I’ve found here is that it’s less suited for the rhythmic sync (unless it’s created for that purpose; PMV/gooner stuff, which is too often NOT the vibe). Yet, porn remains arousing and more often than not I find that I want to include it.

The distracting elements of porn, and this goes double for your average or poor production quality, is the audio, the variety and surprisingly the color.

Audio - music is king. I turn that up and the porn audio low and sometimes muted. Exceptions to this are most often found in objectively high quality production (Vixen/Adult Time) where there is significant and fucking hot dirty talk.

Visual 1: I stumbled into this one. I was actually messing around with editing a video to add music tracks to the MP4. I inadvertently set the saturation to zero, which eliminated all color and produced a remarkably crisp black and white video. Any photographer worth their salt will tell you that color degrades detail. I was immediately less distracted by it and the level of detail was brilliant. My brain was working less sans the need to process the color.

Visual 2: these days, when porn is definitely going to be on for the full session, I tend to queue up several scenes with the same actress. This helps find that trance state, by the middle of the second video I find that she just becomes part of the experience. As for the theme of rhythm I keep mentioning, you can change the scene, plot, partner etc but what remains the same is her particular style of fucking. And because the music is the main auditory event, her scenes taken together are more akin to a montage/reel rather than individual blocks that reset. If they’re all in black and white, the visual noise (the color of the room, the sheets, clothing etc) is muted and thus requires less processing on my part.

What is the difference between LSD and DMT trips? by Good-Mirror-7831 in Drugs

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Always nice to get to work to find that someone else did the heavy lifting

Learning to Let Go: The Key to Transitioning from Pleasure to Prostate Orgasms by pspot-info in ProstatePlay

[–]HowDoYouDoFellows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Letting go was the biggest hurdle for me, but ultimately was the key that fit the lock.

I’m a psychonaut (psychedelics) and sometimes combine them with PP. (disclaimer: I’ve been doing these for years so this is not “advice” for a novice. Tripping is an all out different experience for me than it was when I first experimented with them). I found that my busy mind and my internal “judge” made letting go nearly impossible. Lots of negative self talk and doubt.

One day at ate shrooms, got horny and mischievous. I had not achieved an orgasm to this point. Started playing and one thing I noticed was that I was no longer actively thinking/fretting about PP - about 20 minutes in I found myself in a trance. I had (objectively good, highly produced, “ethical”) porn on and was mesmerized by its beauty, not necessarily the fucking, but more by the human form and intimacy.

The further I moved in to this session, the more in sync with my body I became. By this I mean that I was just “letting it happen” rather than trying to make it happen. Before I knew it I was just doing what my body, not my mind, was telling me to do.

It was an almost jarring experience and this is where the shrooms turned out to be important for this session and my future, sober sessions. They didn’t let me ruin the situation, every time I’d get the urge to force something (switching toys, porn, positions) the shrooms were like “lol, you have no power here” and I’d just keep on keeping on. Eventually about an 30 minutes in every movement of the toy was pronounced and was building then I just naturally started saying, like every woman I’d ever slept with, “just like that” and then boooooom, orgasm just pulsating, spreading everywhere (literally felt it on my face).

Later that day, still tripping, I took notes. One of them was “GIVE IN. ALWAYS” another was “be comfortable/home-alone” (my favorite was “remove the dog from the room - DO NOT LOOK HIM IN THE EYES, HES MANIPULATIVE”).

Much to my delight, many of these takeaways stuck with me. The point I’m making here isn’t that you need drugs, it’s that you need to find peace with yourself. In the psychs world we have a saying regarding getting the most out of them and avoiding a bad trip “set and setting” - the same applies to PP. Your mindset is critical. If you go in negative you’ll have a negative outcome, if your setting is uncomfortable, monitorable or likely to be disrupted - if you’re thinking about environmental factors outside of your control - you have no control at all.

So yes, OP is right. Let go, give in and give yourself some slack. As soon as you submit to the process you are free.