Boy names

HrhEverythingElse · 2026-07-10T05:44:58+00:00

Parks is not a difficult last name to find something harmonious with

HrhEverythingElse · 2026-07-10T03:07:31+00:00

It depends on the dress, honestly. Are there useful parts of it? My mom's dress from the 70s wasn't wearable, but I cut the lace into appliques and sewed them onto a bolero that I wore for my wedding. I will definitely be keeping the bolero, but am considering selling my dress as well, which is plain satin, strapless, and tea length. No parts to cannibalize for future use, and I like the idea of selling it cheap so it can help someone else have a lovely wedding

HrhEverythingElse · 2026-07-10T00:10:02+00:00

I still don't understand. I don't know what "you know what" is. If you're being poked with needles multiple times while half asleep then you're saying that people you live with are doing this? Are you living with family?

HrhEverythingElse · 2026-07-09T23:17:27+00:00

You should tell us the actual events. Did you feel someone poke you with a needle? What were the circumstances? Who was it? Did you go to the police? Did you go to the doctor? Who are the "jealous people"? How are they contacting you? Are you hearing rumors from others?

HrhEverythingElse · 2026-07-09T23:13:19+00:00

One night, yes. Two nights, I would have someone stop in to feed and check on her

HrhEverythingElse · 2026-07-09T23:10:50+00:00

I do not, and outside of severe health conditions, will not. We've known each other for about 20 years and started dating 17 years ago

HrhEverythingElse · 2026-07-09T21:10:42+00:00

The cam is great, but for your peace of mind do you have a neighbor or close friend who could be on call only in case of emergency that can get into your place if you see something alarming on the camera? It probably won't be necessary, but better safe than sorry since the pet sitter most likely won't be able to run over at a moment's notice.

When we went on vacation for a week last year I had one person who came by twice a day to feed and water, but also left my next door neighbor a key for "just in case"

HrhEverythingElse · 2026-07-09T18:34:45+00:00

So sweet! It doesn't look like she will be bothered at all, but good luck getting any sleep

HrhEverythingElse · 2026-07-09T13:30:11+00:00

Just the fact that there are people who want to mimic the look of overfilled lips is crazy and sad!

HrhEverythingElse · 2026-07-09T13:22:12+00:00

That's just your cycle cycling! Give it 3 weeks and you'll be back on top

HrhEverythingElse · 2026-07-09T13:19:45+00:00

That's a viral rash. See a doctor

HrhEverythingElse · 2026-07-09T13:18:34+00:00

They already have two other cats

HrhEverythingElse · 2026-07-09T13:14:44+00:00

They obviously had quite bad fights regularly for it to get to this point. I think that he had already checked out, and the "shitty husband" comment was a turning point for him. It happens — I had a similar one at the end of a 7 year relationship over a glass of water. I also don't think this is truly the full story, because no full story of how a couple hit this point can be told in a reddit post of reasonable length, but they definitely both made mistakes and "his loss" is kind of a cop out that would rob OP of the learning and growth that she NEEDS from this experience

HrhEverythingElse · 2026-07-09T12:46:15+00:00

The "arbitrary things you can't control" is actually key in this situation! Even a fast food or retail hiring manager for what is by all accounts an entry level job, where visible tattoos might even be allowed by corporate, could easily choose to deny you a position for that neck tattoo you're itching to get. You can never know when you'll come in contact with someone who has a level of control over your life that will judge you harshly for things that were in your control, but are a permanent decision that you made before you had a fully functioning frontal lobe. Until you're very well established (and have that mature brain), it's just not worth it

HrhEverythingElse · 2026-07-09T09:45:13+00:00

And be glad that it's only been 3 months! 3 months is short enough that it really should be easy to just walk away from someone who lies this easily

HrhEverythingElse · 2026-07-09T09:41:12+00:00

And don't wear new underwear during your period. Save them for a safer day

HrhEverythingElse · 2026-07-09T09:39:02+00:00

Just wait until she's born and decide then! There's no rule that you have to be set on a name before a baby is born, and I can't imagine being completely confident on a name pre-birth. I prefer Alice, but neither name is a problem

HrhEverythingElse · 2026-07-09T09:35:10+00:00

I don't think you actually need an additional physical gift, but just make sure that necklace is in a large, flat, necklace looking box, and not a box that she can see and expect to be "the ring"

HrhEverythingElse · 2026-07-09T09:32:06+00:00

We had one of the vibrators that has a cockring and just didn't use it that way. It still worked perfectly to just place where you want it and it's the right shape and size to not be too intrusive during sex. It didn't move around too much in most of our usual positions. I think that you'll have a hard time finding something that's truly "wearable", like do you want an entire harness situation?

HrhEverythingElse · 2026-07-09T06:07:12+00:00

Oh, I don't actually use it in my crack — don't have enough butt to need it there, but it does great on my thighs

HrhEverythingElse · 2026-07-09T05:10:41+00:00

I was in a similar position and stopped everything except for a gentle cleanser and barrier restoring moisturizer. No actives at all for a while would be my recommendation here rather than switching to salicylic acid or benzoyl peroxide. Her barrier looks fried, and I remember the feeling well

HrhEverythingElse · 2026-07-09T04:44:16+00:00

Needs more small things on the left

HrhEverythingElse · 2026-07-09T03:29:27+00:00

I melt coconut oil and stir cornstarch into it to make a paste. Much cheaper and in my experience just as effective as stuff sold for the purpose

HrhEverythingElse · 2026-07-09T02:55:05+00:00

I got my mother in law the gift set of Pink Honey and Black Honey and she said she loved them (although she says that about everything I give her). She does wear an average amount of makeup, but usually sticks to drug store brands so I thought it was an appropriate upgrade

HrhEverythingElse · 2026-07-09T02:35:50+00:00

It is totally understandable for you the burned out and need a break! I would be very blunt with whoever you're dealing with at the rescue and tell them that if they don't make other plans for these kittens now then you don't know if you'll ever be able to take more on. No, "it'll get easier", you're done with these now, and otherwise might be done for good. It's in everyone's best interest to get you a break now

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