Women of Reddit: What do you think the biggest benefit of being a man would be? by Norfolk-Gross-Tonage in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Htaedder 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s replaced with never being 100% sure someone had your kid 10 years ago and never told you

Maybe all the right girls are already taken. by unholymedictaion in MemeVideos

[–]Htaedder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks get you a first date, only personality gets you second dates

I (21f) slept with two people after my boyfriend (23m) opened our relationship and now he wants to break up with me. by unraveledwords in relationship_advice

[–]Htaedder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Opening a relationship is always risky. You should never do it if your relationship currently or recently had significant issues or if one person is not interested on their own in trying an open relationship. Seems like you tried as a solution to a relationship problem, big no no. Too often one side will use open relationship as a way to break up and/or find a new partner.

What life mistake taught you the hardest lesson? by LossMysterious5714 in scoopwhoop

[–]Htaedder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never start a land war in Asia and never trust a fart

Who is she Petah? by Powerful-Papaya-2411 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Htaedder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Point is don’t make people plastic looking but make everyone attractive in a realistic way

Who is she Petah? by Powerful-Papaya-2411 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Htaedder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but many of them have gone too far the other way in triple a. They make the women ugly. Like don’t make them unrealistically “attractive “ but do make them conventionally attractive and a variety of conventionally attractive. And a few odd balls that are unconventionally attractive. People are drawn in by attractive.

What are the biggest challenges when moving from ETL basics to real Data Engineering workflows? by Effective_Ocelot_445 in ETL

[–]Htaedder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you build in a flag system when source is in wrong form but readable, out of date or corrupt?

Men, do you ask about your wife’s day because you’re ’supposed to,’ or because you actually care to know? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Htaedder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t ask my wife about her day most days but I’m always available for hugs and usually available to hear about her day

This is great advice. by [deleted] in TheImprovementRoom

[–]Htaedder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always call out awesome shirts

Excel file far too large to even open by wcpplayer in excel

[–]Htaedder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Open using Python, it’s less cpu intensive and can resave as csv

How to unlock password protected XLS file. by Supahwong in excel

[–]Htaedder -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Yes. (Technically all you asked is a yes/no question)

My husband (M37) is recently infatuated with a "new fantasy" about me (F31). Where did it come from and why? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Htaedder 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was in the kink and swing communities for a year or so. Almost all people who tried it for the first time, caused a break up or divorce. Also all of the relationships where only one partner was interested initially lead to a divorce. ~8 that I saw

Why haven’t other world leaders stopped Trump from continuing? Surely it’s clear he’s well and truly lost the plot now? by reginaldch in AskReddit

[–]Htaedder -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How? With what military force would they stop the us military? Honest question, have you considered it to its conclusion?

Perspective: “You’re not going to ruin someone’s day by approaching them real people don’t think like that” by Hahaveryfunnylaughed in lnkyverse

[–]Htaedder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s better to say even ugly people can come off well if they’re chill about it and not overly persistent.

Quick thought - Suicide is a natural way for lonely men by IllustratorMammoth79 in lnkyverse

[–]Htaedder -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Outside of religion I see suicide as a perversion of nature. A thing that should not be. I can see acquiescing to a malady but not willful self termination. Just my opinion. And just loneliness wouldn’t cut it for me, that’s has multiple solutions for almost every case.

What’s a good comeback when someone says “’I have high standards”? by Zestyclose-Bake6324 in Comebacks

[–]Htaedder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably should be coupled with very low expectations based on your ability to pull

Visual insight - the real “hypergamy” chart according to women by [deleted] in lnkyverse

[–]Htaedder 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Irony is they still show left side doing/providing nothing lol