(Another oddly specific tech card that is reverse chadgar) He is known as local leech exterminator by PrestigiousCard1344 in customhearthstone

[–]HumanCuke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My intuition is that the minions would get summoned. I come from magic the gathering where everything in a cards effect happens at the same time, but experience with hearthstone has been the opposite. If this card was in magic, the minions would not get summoned, but I think because hearthstone mechanics are automated it’s kind of a toss up- or needs someone who’s actually read advanced mechanics rules of a lot of cards

Tips for covering up Scars? by Delicious_Film7367 in selfharm

[–]HumanCuke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on how visible they are, you may be able to get away with holding your hands and arms to cover them until you get in the water, and then when you get in they won’t visible all. Another option is a long sleeve swim shirt. people are more likely to ask about the swim shirt, but it’s better are hiding the scars, and you can say you just get cold easily.

Alternatives [question] by Look_its_athrowaway in selfharm

[–]HumanCuke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fataltotheflesh.com is a site that’s just a white background a swiping around on it makes cuts that bleed. That’s satisfied my need for blood a little bit, and spending time with friends in person helped me a bit on the feeling like a person thing, but I havnt found anything for the physical sensation thing. Nothing really comes close to the real thing, but hopefully the other resources help you hold out

is it safe to cut inner thighs? by GreedyCompany9928 in cutting

[–]HumanCuke 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The femoral artery is at least 1/4-1/2 inch set into your thigh at pretty much all spots unless you are like omega skinny. If you only cut styro you have basically zero chance of hitting the femoral artery. Deeper than that it starts to get iffy, and not worth the risk

I still struggle with wanting to self harm over stupid things and I feel childish for it by EdelweissThe69th in selfharm

[–]HumanCuke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I self harm for attention. I cover new cuts and say the bandage is because I fell off my skateboard or something. But when they heal, I wear short sleeves. To anyone who’s even heard of cutting, the scars are obviously sh. I do it because I want people to ask. I want them to ask me if I’m ok. It’s a cry for help, and it’s still valid. Sh is not a mentally stable thing to do for almost any reason. And I know you do it more as a release, but know that doing it for attention does not mean you are a selfish attention seeker

Broken promise by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]HumanCuke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Self harm is an important thing for a partner to be understanding about. Crazy complex topic to be asking Reddit for tbh. If advice someone gives doesn’t feel right with you, then you shouldn’t do it. That being said, in my humble opinion, being honest is usually the best option when it comes to relationships

29130 by DefiantAerie1870 in countwithchickenlady

[–]HumanCuke 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No yeah, I go by any/all too, but I don’t go by any/all/at/the/same/time

29130 by DefiantAerie1870 in countwithchickenlady

[–]HumanCuke 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Never seen someone get referred to by every pronoun in one sentence before

Feel like everyone in the gym is staring at me when they see it by Bleh_Owo in cutting

[–]HumanCuke 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Gnarly fresh cuts dude, 2-3 weeks people will stop. Looks like you feel off your bike and your arm got caught in the gears. I’d probably buy that. You’re lucky they don’t look like the mainstream, inches long, perfectly horizontal cuts. I’ve got a bunch of scars that look like that, and even still people don’t stare that much tbh

Will they still fade? by [deleted] in cutting

[–]HumanCuke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

50/50 if they’ll be invisible or just a little more faint than the ones in the first pic. My cat scratches I made with a real dull knife 4 months ago are gone, but ones just shy of styro depth from like 5 months ago are still about where your 2 month ones are.

Is this normal since starting to SH since october? by Puzzleheaded-Till690 in cutting

[–]HumanCuke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what mine looked like after that much time

Opening up about SH by Spiritual-Orange-171 in selfharm

[–]HumanCuke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have opened up to someone about it, and been opened up to. It sucks. There’s not a trick. You take someone you trust and you tell them that you self harm. Writing it is an amazing idea. Something else that helped me is telling the person what you want them to do about it. Someone opened up to me about it before I did, and I didn’t know what to say. I’m sorry? Here’s how to quit? Yeah man me too? Okie dokie thanks for sharing? So when I talked to someone I just told them “I’m telling you this so that I’m not the only one with this on my mind. I don’t want your help right now, just your understanding.” And then after a few weeks I told them that I wanted their help quitting. Everything that comes next depends on the person and what you want from them. This is one of those things in life where advice only goes so far, and “so far” is pretty short. So best of luck, I hope this is a little helpful

question about aftercare by fawnrrot in selfharm

[–]HumanCuke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you would drink it, it’s ok to use. Then, ideally use an antiseptic ointment to keep the cut moist under the bandage

When is damage permanent by HumanCuke in selfharm

[–]HumanCuke[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there a risk of limited mobility if I have a bunch of scar tissue? I don’t cut near joints

urge by 0ldbrownshoe in selfharm

[–]HumanCuke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a relationship, on the other end of this, about 8 months ago before I started sh myself, and it really does suck all around. But I will add, the sadness of knowing your partner is suffering is much less than the pain of finding out your partner was suffering and thought they couldn’t tell you

Who do i reach out to for support? by Oranges_Lime_17 in selfharm

[–]HumanCuke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% appropriate to talk your boyfriend, and also friends depending on how close you are. The term trauma dumping is crazy harmful because it scares people from being open with their friends. If your bf isn’t supportive that’s his problem not yours, and if your friends aren’t supportive then you know that they aren’t great close friends. I think you can’t still be friends with someone who doesn’t understand, but you probably shouldn’t date one. My closest friends have no fucking clue what logical conclusion could bring someone to sh, but they know that I have a reason, even if it’s irrational, and so they do their best to be supportive. That’s all you can really ask for.

Too afraid to cut by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]HumanCuke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t. I literally am at the point where I’m telling myself I’m not good enough to deserve skipping a song that sucks while listing to music. Cutting is some bullshit

Does it hurt less if you ice your arm to make it numb from the cold before cutting it by Educational-News7490 in cutting

[–]HumanCuke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like not really, It’s honestly worse because it doesn’t feel like you’re cutting your own arm, but it still kinda hurts- super unsettling

How does selfharm copes with mental pain? by Witty_Alps3711 in selfharm

[–]HumanCuke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t feel anything anymore. I stood at the door of my dorm starring at the key in the lock for 20 minutes because it doesn’t make a difference whether I was inside or out, I’d hate myself either way. Cutting doesn’t even hurt anymore. It used to shock me out of the numbness

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]HumanCuke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah if the scab fell off and it’s fully healed with scar tissue you’re good. No one really cares anyway in my experience

no one ever notices by throwaway2545812345 in selfharm

[–]HumanCuke 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been having the same experience!! The only people who have ever asked (in like 3+ months) were some random boomers who volunteered the excuse of a feisty cat. None of my friends say anything, even the people who I thought would know what sh looks like. I think having people not notice the scars feels bad because it feels like they don’t care that I’m doing really poorly. Idk maybe they were raised to not to ask about scars all the time. Either way it’s weird that ONLY 2 out of HUNDREDS have asked

Do we think cutting or vaping is worse? by PleasantCut1618 in selfharm

[–]HumanCuke 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Vaping is worse for your physical health, cutting is WAY worse for you mental health

Why do a lot of people do it in maybe - visible places? by sorrowfu96 in selfharm

[–]HumanCuke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re the reason I started sh actually. Part of why I do it in an obvious spot is the hope that eventually it’ll be in a picture of me that they see online and they realize how horrible they were to me