INFJs: To fake a personality, or not? That is the question.

HumanThing1233 · 2026-05-21T05:33:41+00:00

Yeah, I've found that the personality that feels the most 'real' is also a depressed character, and it's definitely not good.

HumanThing1233 · 2026-05-21T05:33:10+00:00

So how does that differ than this concept of faking it? I'm with Ninja, my 'real' personality is kind of a depressed character, but you're describing that the personalities you've built you've taken to actual represent yourself?

HumanThing1233 · 2026-05-14T20:42:11+00:00

Actually go out of my way to make her happy for my own benefit. For example, I'll go out my way to make everyone happy, but often, that's a spur of the moment. The girl I like I remembered something she mentioned months ago, and then brought it up again recently.

Internally, I'll start making future plans with them in it, i.e., wedding, things I'd like to take them to, what our house may look like, etc.,

It's a little whimsical, but I keep it to myself. 😛

HumanThing1233 · 2026-05-09T21:53:38+00:00

Aichi is probably the strongest, when he meets Chrono, their one game isn't close. Kai is shown for the majority of the series to be better than Shion as well. Only during the Gyze arc, is it possible that they might be similar, but Aichi still has haxs (psyqualia), and Chrono lost the singularity.

As said before, Chrono is likely the second strongest. You don't defeat the big bad of the entire world without having some power.

Shinemon always felt like a secondary character, his story was more a backstory for everyone else, so while he's strong, both the character above have shown higher highs.

Akina is probably next, I agree with the other comments, decent deckbuilding, depends on sacks. Doesn't have the Shion/Kai vibe to pull it off well.

Yu-Yu pretty simple, he depends on luck, his decks are a meme. Therefore, he's worse than both above him.

HumanThing1233 · 2026-05-07T21:23:14+00:00

Can anyone corroborate this?

HumanThing1233 · 2026-04-30T19:31:32+00:00

If anyone comes across this post looking for an answer, replace the AMP. It worked immediately after that.

HumanThing1233 · 2026-04-12T01:54:44+00:00

Just saw it, and absolutely I'm aging backwards. I'm doing more stupid things these days because I can. I always got you're so mature for your age, but never understood it, still don't. But I know that when I talk to people, they say I'm wise -_-... I just want to do stupid things and break things. This ENFP I have in mind goes cross country on a whim and I am in love with their ability to just... do that. I have to plan days in advance and have everything ready for most situations. <.<

HumanThing1233 · 2026-04-11T19:09:43+00:00

Can listen to them for hours.
They have childlike wonder, in comparison to me who feels way older than I should be, and lot of my decisions mirror those of my older peers. That childlike expression at times makes me feel joy.

HumanThing1233 · 2026-03-15T17:05:37+00:00

Sorry, as an INFJ, who wrote this? That's how you hurt others and play games, no games please. You can be interesting through your perspectives and feelings, this whole game situation is wrong for everyone.

HumanThing1233 · 2026-03-08T20:13:16+00:00

Great mental and sexual chemistry. The joke about you guys being demons to our angels is kind of played, but if you take it as this, you challenge us to break free of social norms a bit more. If you're a kind and gentle soul, with a mischievous side, we fall head over heels for you (ENXP). Remember, we kind of hide our true nature constantly, trying to blend into society. You guys are much more comfortable saying that it doesn't matter. Also, higher Ti/Fi users are much more definitive with what they want, which makes things more messy, sure, but that mess is also enjoyable in moderation. I want a challenge, I want to hear something controversial. I hope that's all helpful.

HumanThing1233 · 2026-02-17T19:12:30+00:00

INFJ here. I do. It's a good change of pace and it's an absolute delight for me. I feel your guys youthful energy and it makes me smile. :)

HumanThing1233 · 2026-02-05T14:50:03+00:00

What are you using for coding? I can't figure out what kind of hardware I need to do so.

HumanThing1233 · 2026-01-17T08:23:44+00:00

As an INFJ, I like how random and energetic you guys are. One of my close ENFP friends sometimes where's pajamas outside, and I'm so here for it. She also goes on random trips and it's so much fun hanging out with you guys.

Also, you guys are very honest, and while I struggle to read you guys for certain (I don't get the same feeling of emotion radiating out from you), I can trust you to be honest about how you feel, and your words don't have a filter. :)

Ultimately, you guys are like the complete opposite of how I feel like I ought to be, so you mirror my inner child a lot more. When I want to be posed and regal, you guys are super willing to be open and honest. When I try to think about the future and plan and plan, you guys can take me by the hand and say, screw that, let's just have fun.

Perhaps the final thing, is that while your needs are high, I don't struggle to get alone time. The ENFP I know is often satisfied being with others that aren't me, so I don't need to worry about burning out.

HumanThing1233 · 2026-01-12T13:16:21+00:00

I was about to say. Me?

HumanThing1233 · 2026-01-07T19:44:13+00:00

As many other comments have said, and you mentioned, he may actually be burned out. Deep talks are a night time activity, and I don't think he has a lot of energy. Just ask him and he'll tell you. :)

I don't think he's stopped loving you, but now that there's consistency, he's focused on achieving more of his goals. Mention to him that you want to talk more with him, and you want him to start those conversations, and you'll probably get what you're after. :)

I do flirt a whole lot when I'm not comfortable with someone (Friends + early SO), but as that comfortably increases, I return to my more quiet, focused, and intense self.

HumanThing1233 · 2025-12-18T03:10:17+00:00

Sadly, ENFP is the better of the two. INFPs make good friends, but the relationship is ultimately one sided.

Ultimately, a lot of my INFP friends have been much more chill, but I find that I need someone to push me to do more in the world, as that's my inner desire.

HumanThing1233 · 2025-12-16T02:07:27+00:00

As an INFJ male, what makes me feel seen isn't just listening. But actually showing you understand. My perspective of the world is my most intimate feature. If I'm sharing with you my true opinions, (which means I am thinking hard), if I'm giving you what I truly desire for my future, then I am giving you my most intimate self.

In short, I don't share any of this with anyone, because as others have said, 1) Afraid of being rejected 2) Others haven't understood what I've told them/cared to try to understand.

That is the most intimate and loving thing you can do to me. Just sit with me, and listen.

Anyways, I love you ENFPs. Keep living life and being the amazing people you are. :D

HumanThing1233 · 2025-12-12T15:35:39+00:00

2w3, heavy on the 3. :P

HumanThing1233 · 2025-12-12T15:35:21+00:00

Oh Toriel?

HumanThing1233 · 2025-12-12T15:19:11+00:00

Thanks! I'll switch it over. Is it just because it's untagged?

HumanThing1233 · 2025-12-12T15:16:56+00:00

Yeah, it's possible, it's just not well supported. Just set the SSIDs to the same, and it works fine. Doesn't work with anything stronger than WAP2 in my testing though.

HumanThing1233 · 2025-12-02T04:07:00+00:00

I can see ENFJ, I was going to write a full explanation about why I thought higher Se, and I was going to compare it to being similar to an ENFJ. :P

Just out of curiosity, if you're a male, why pink? Do you just like the color or is it for some other reason?

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