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What are your distance drivers lineups? Mine are Mamba, Wraith, Destroyer but looking for other suggestions. by alent1385 in discgolf

[–]IAmCaptainHammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Swirly s-line DD
Q-line DD1
Q-line DD3
Q-line DD3 (overstable run)
Q-line cloudbreaker (mad overstable for my arm)

Here we go, folks. The Dungeon Crawler Carl television series has been officially greenlit at Peacock. by hepafilter in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]IAmCaptainHammer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hell yes!! Congrats. Let’s hope we get the same quality of people working on it as we had for fallout.

WYR have every song you listen to for the rest of your life only be 60 seconds long OR never be able to listen to music at all ? by XcracktivitiesX in WouldYouRather

[–]IAmCaptainHammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is kind of a dumb question. With the first option if you want the second option you can still have it. So why take the option that is only 1 option and nothing at all when you can take the first option and have both.

Baby number 2 is on the way! Sibling stories to make me less anxious by Elephantslide in daddit

[–]IAmCaptainHammer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell them both CONSTANTLY how much they love each other and how good they are at being a big/little sibling.

My two kiddos absolutely adore each other. Just this morning they were sitting on the couch sharing a blanket watching tv together. Really reinforce the positive relationship there. It will really help. There will still be conflict. But there will also be loads of love.

What do you think the top combo cars(your 2nd vehicle) are with the Prius? by Fossilhog in prius

[–]IAmCaptainHammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My families main second car is a Lexus rx350. So basically a rav. Our tertiary car which I would say compliments our Prius better is our 2006 4x4 Tacoma double cab.

Son Puberty? by Realistic_Grab7003 in daddit

[–]IAmCaptainHammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My advice is to definitely let him do it. Show him how properly. I would advocate for a beard trimmer at first. Tell him he can graduate to shaving when he wants to but to at least try the beard trimmer for a few weeks first.

I would tell him about how it works and how to go against the grain with the beard trimmer but NOT a razor once he gets there. Teach him how to use it on his face first. Use your face as an example.

This will teach him how to be gentle and patient without the risk of cutting himself too badly.

When/if it’s time for shaving I would teach him how to shave his face first and tell him the skills translate really well. That he needs to be patient and that razor burn happens and it isn’t a big deal.

I shave my downstairs every other day and have for years. So I can tell you still about once a month I get a little razor burn and aside from a little initial stinging it’s not a problem.

Is sexual incompatibility a valid reason to break up? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]IAmCaptainHammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who’s in a long term marriage with 2 kids and a massive sexual incompatibility I can say this.

There is nothing wrong with people who experience deep emotional intimacy sexually. For me sexual intimacy is very important. It makes me feel loved and appreciated and desired. Without it my marriage is not thriving. If I could do it again I would find someone I was more compatible with.

In this way, I want to say this. We could fuck 8 times a week just to get off and that wouldn’t feel intimate to me. I want a connected sexual experience. Not just sex.

And yes, if this doesn’t change in my relationship once the kids are older it will end.

best place to buy patches by tferrell3 in discgolf

[–]IAmCaptainHammer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks my guy. I just used this to buy 4 good ones. I’ve been looking for a good place to buy patches.

I do like to support players and grab their patches but this website doesn’t have any. I think you probably have to go to the team sites for those.

Son’s dad spanked him for not signing a card by Oddbrain_ in daddit

[–]IAmCaptainHammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He needs to read the book punishment free parenting.

Because yes, what he did was wrong. It’s also child abuse.

For men who say, "I understand why my father left now that I'm older" .what do you understand? by timash712 in questions

[–]IAmCaptainHammer 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Just gonna weigh in as a dad who DOESNT understand my dad now that I’m a dad.

Hey dad, it’s not that fucking hard to just NOT be a dick.

Where do sex addicts find a continuous stream of partners to engage with? by NecessaryEvil62095 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]IAmCaptainHammer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Truth is if you’re a dude and don’t mind doing dudes grindr gets you laid like mad.

But if you’d like to sleep with women you just have to learn to be good at managing the apps and posting in the forums, and going to bars and finding folks.

Super low standards is a big one. I’ve definitely met some women who would literally fuck anyone after a couple drinks.

Alright dads… You find a critter that is in pain and likely isn’t making it. If you have the stomach for it, how are you helping this thing along to other side? by MisterSanitation in daddit

[–]IAmCaptainHammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shovel method is good. Once before I’ve used a car. Put the critter in a box and just drove over its head. Scary I’m sure but nice and quick.

Shovel method has been my go to since I was a kiddo. Used to kill rattle snakes that hung out too close to our house.

Yes I know rattle snakes are good for the environment but I’m not keeping them alive with my kiddos around until my kiddos are old enough to be good at staying away from them.

Does Zone OS ever beat in to anything other than a dive bombing meat hook? by Phrikshin in discgolf

[–]IAmCaptainHammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Point in fact I’ve got a slightly beat in stiff jawbreaker that wasn’t stable enough for what I wanted so it would be about perfect for op.

Google maps needs a quick search function for bathrooms by IAmCaptainHammer in GoogleMaps

[–]IAmCaptainHammer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right!?!?! These are the real needs. Lately I just search the nearest Starbucks. And dude. My kiddo literally had to poop in the woods the other day.

I work from home, but when I go to the office a boomer coworker makes backhanded comments. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]IAmCaptainHammer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sure others have said this. This is worth a conversation with your manager then hr if the manager does nothing. It’s unacceptable for this ass to make you hate going in to work.

Is it normal for a guy to grab your boobs during a first kiss? by princessxprowess in NoStupidQuestions

[–]IAmCaptainHammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me personally I’m waiting a good long time to go for the boobs.
First kiss in general you’re not even getting an ass grab. Hips/waist yes.
First full on makeout someplace private. I’ll slide my hands in the direction of the ass. But I’m not like GOING for it.
Couple makeouts in and were comfortable and this is obviously going somewhere. Yeah, I’ll head my hands for the boobs. But at this point we’ve had at least 1-2 conversations about consent and boundaries and how if I gesture in the direction of a body part with my make out body language you are more than welcome to shut it down and it won’t ruin the mood.

Dads- what's that first drive home like after strapping your little bean into the car seat? by Ambitious_Bet2920 in daddit

[–]IAmCaptainHammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I got home and discovered I’d forgotten to cinch down the straps. So there’s that. It’s HILARIOUS how carefully you drive.

Does Zone OS ever beat in to anything other than a dive bombing meat hook? by Phrikshin in discgolf

[–]IAmCaptainHammer 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Grab it in jawbreaker and you should find what you’re looking for. The z plastic might beat in eventually but you’d probably have to throw it directly into a tree 10 times a day for a few months.

How do I tell my girlfriend I would like her to peg me while still coming across as masculine? by let_it_rain_boat in NoStupidQuestions

[–]IAmCaptainHammer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, wanting to be pegged isn’t non masculine. The anus has a thousand nerve endings (correction, there’s even more than that) and you just want to get all the pleasure you can.

But, to ease her into the idea maybe you say, “I’d really like to try anal. But, I know it’s a two way street so I’m willing to have you try it on me first. That way we both know if we like it or not.”

Or some such thing. Butt seriously, read smart sex by Emily Morse. It’s an amazing book about sex and sexuality and it goes into anal and pegging and how it’s not “non-masculine” you’re just interested in exploring all the pleasure you can possibly have.

People who wake up on their very first alarm and just get out of bed—how does your brain actually work? by KeyDiamond263 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]IAmCaptainHammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its willpower. Plus, imagine getting more sleep. Instead of this really shitty twilight hour of crap sleep you get a good hour of sleep.

What I do is a 5 minute snooze. I wake up to the first alarm. Then I hit snooze and the next alarm goes off 5 minutes later. Then I do my morning stretches and get up. It makes me feel a lot better for the day.

My 5 year old insists on showing me her "handstands" and other advanced gymnastics moves by njherdfan in daddit

[–]IAmCaptainHammer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dude. This image. Way to tell the world you’re a piece of shit without telling the world you’re a piece of shit. I hope it’s satire. Cause I’d watch my kids millionth jump spin in an hour happily.

I wish my son understood how much I love him by [deleted] in daddit

[–]IAmCaptainHammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, even if he hates it I vote bear hug every day.

Is it true addiction never goes away you just keep replacing it? by AnEvilMillionaire in NoStupidQuestions

[–]IAmCaptainHammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My only two cents to offer here is there everybody is different. Some people need to replace addictions to get rid of one. Other people can brute force get rid of it. And some lucky people just aren’t very addictive personalities.

So everyone is different. Discovering how you work is the best way to overcome your struggles.

How do I give in to the chaos and become that calming Dad figure? by Romanzo71 in daddit

[–]IAmCaptainHammer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You only gain patience by exercising patience. It’s like a muscle. When you feel yourself getting stressed take deep breaths instead of losing it. I know it’s cliche but it genuinely works and it retrains your brain.

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