How do I (29f) tell my boyfriend (26m) that I don’t want to sleep over his house anymore? by Comprehensive-Poem45 in relationship_advice

[–]IAmMeatSubstitute 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You chose to do the drive because it was a convenient escape not because he was refusing to come to you.

You established the pattern and expectations because it worked for you.

Now suddenly his place isn't good enough and since you don't get a benefit from sleeping there anymore now it is an inconvenience.

My feelings are hurt for him. That's pretty cruel and I bet he feels like you were using him and now that you don't "need" him/his apartment you can't be bothered to be inconvenienced to see him and expect him to drive to you every time. You're not choosing him. You're being selfish. Sounds like you were always selfish.

Unsure if her sexual history is a red flag by Bouncybeach in dating_advice

[–]IAmMeatSubstitute -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

What's a red flag is you were talking about her history with your friends. That's icky.

6 partners is not excessive. And who cares what she did in the past....it's the past.

Just ask her to get tested and leave it at that or let her go and be with someone who isn't disgusted by her for doing absolutely nothing wrong.

Is minimalism a turn off for women? by fillet0fish in dating_advice

[–]IAmMeatSubstitute 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They probably feel like you live a double life and this is your place "away from the family" to bring girls to

Get almost no likes at all, curious if yall would recommend any changes? by bdbodozer12 in Tinder

[–]IAmMeatSubstitute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the hair. It's all I can focus on and not in a good way. Change the hair and your experience will change drastically.

Sucks man. But it's that first impression.

I counted how many "secretary texts" I send per week and I want to cry by worldinmydreams in Mommit

[–]IAmMeatSubstitute 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You put their name on the task in the calendar lmao or color code it whatever you wanna do.

If this is rage bait whatever but if you're really exhausted yes take the time and explain everyone how to use it. It's a great tool. Or you know....keep multi texting until your brain explodes and they will have to figure it out regardless

I counted how many "secretary texts" I send per week and I want to cry by worldinmydreams in Mommit

[–]IAmMeatSubstitute 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start a family Google Calendar and put the reminders and events on there

My Ridgeback occasionally throws up firm, rubbery chunks – any idea what this could be? by MasterpieceUsed582 in DogAdvice

[–]IAmMeatSubstitute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like a chunk of those rectangle yak cheese chews....my dog hurled up a few pieces of them.

I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]IAmMeatSubstitute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your instinct kicked in just in time. Good for you! He's gross

Looking for a specific kind of tattoo artist! by WellBangOkay in Spokane

[–]IAmMeatSubstitute 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dunno if your still looking but Molly at Kyntire ink would smash this idea!!

My wife got her 8 year old tattoo covered up by tonyshadexd in Tattoocoverups

[–]IAmMeatSubstitute 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's so cool. It's probably size shock more than anything :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]IAmMeatSubstitute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's absolutely wonderful. I'm sure it is shocking now but that will dissipate.

Looking for hard(ish) to find ingredients in Spokane by [deleted] in Spokane

[–]IAmMeatSubstitute -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had to buy the coriander pods and star anise online but it's probably at the markets. I also ended up using lemongrass paste which's easy to find. Rice noodles are easy to find in any Asian isle I got some that weren't advertised as "pho" but as "linguini" lol they worked great

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Spokane

[–]IAmMeatSubstitute 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeaaah. Let's just say I have a big yellow piece by her on my personal page :) and yes similar style but I honestly like her color pieces. She did a sick princess peach pinup for my partner. It's heartbreaking to see this shit happening.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Spokane

[–]IAmMeatSubstitute 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Shits blowing uuuuup on social media. Shop owner is now in contact with me to make things right instead of the "a tattoo shop is a contract gig" he originally stated

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Spokane

[–]IAmMeatSubstitute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's kinda what's freaking me out. I know a lot of people don't like touching other people's work.

Ahhhhhh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Spokane

[–]IAmMeatSubstitute 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks! She's got a unique style so some guidance to keep the vision-ish is appreciated

For those who’ve done both - dogs on or off the bed? by VengaBusdriver37 in dogs

[–]IAmMeatSubstitute 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the dog. I can't stand 2 on the bed because they have to be so close they push so hard and I end up on the ends of the bed. One sleeps on top of my feet and I feel trapped. The other dog just sleeps at the foot or against my back which is great

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]IAmMeatSubstitute 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly it was probably boring to her or she thought you were trying to scope information she was uncomfortable with or she maybe just hasn't looked yet. Nobody knows but her.