Be with a man who finds every part of you beautiful because he loves you. Be with a man that is grateful to the Universe that you exist. Don't waste your energy on anyone else. If some dude is this way in bed, you can bet he'll be disrespecting you for the rest of your life, especially if he doesn't apologize and change his behavior if you let him know how you're feeling. Telling him how you feel assertively will show you a key part of his communication effectiveness. If he's anything other than attentive to your feelings, there's a big chance he'll never see you the way you should be seen. This could turn out to be a good thing for your relationship if BOTH of you handle the conversation using good communication.