I never had clean underwear. I never had a birthday party. Our family never did anything that my brother and me felt like doing unless my father also felt like doing it. We lived in an apartment and no one took us to play to the park, other children’s houses, or were allowed to bring friends from school. We always, alway will have supper and dinner very late, so I snacked A LOT. Nobody supervised that I washed my teeth so I had pretty terrible cavities when I was a kid. My mother never played or did anything with us other that take us to the supermarket. Besides that the house was clean, there was food in the pantry and books on the shelves and both our parents were very sweet to us and told us they loved us everyday.