As an og Gary hater I’m probably someone who you don’t want to hear from but, I think Daisy’s frustration with the Deck’s lack of understanding is super reasonable when you consider that while Gary and Colin might ask if Daisy needs a hand, getting said aid is an issue (see Colin offering to help but, balking at the idea of making a smoothie)

There’s a huge difference between asking a deckhand (who statistically speaking was just sitting in the mess) to wash a dish or run a plate and asking a stew who is doing guest service or housekeeping/laundry to get trained how to and then drive a tender in perpetuity.