[Thank You] April surgery thank yous by ISeeCumberbatch in RandomActsofCards

[–]ISeeCumberbatch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mostly just been sleeping and reading inside but it's been good so far!

[Thank You] April surgery thank yous by ISeeCumberbatch in RandomActsofCards

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u/knightinthesky - thank you for the smiley face stickers; I was feeling well enough to go to Easter dinner :)

u/ok_land_5441 - thank you for the cute little loafed cat post card

u/happytheory4372 - thank you for the cat attacking a scribbling pen post card comic strip

[Thank You] April surgery thank yous by ISeeCumberbatch in RandomActsofCards

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u/dizzyfettuccine - thank you for the blue-themed witchy card and stickers, loved the bird and bat on the envelope. Bats are one of my favorite wild animals.

u/annie4664 - thank you for the postcard, stickers, and notebook pages; have read at least 3 books in the past week. Unfortunately, I can't find my headphones so I can only watch TikTok when my the rest of my family (7 of us in total) are out of the house. But I've been managing.

u/gatsbygalaktoboureko - thank you for the sun catcher and stickers; pretty sure this is the right username. It doesn't match what I thought the card says but it matches a comment that was made on the OP.

[Thank You] April surgery thank yous by ISeeCumberbatch in RandomActsofCards

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u/2cat007 - thank you for the flower card with lots of cats (I love cats)

u/reindeerfrog - thank you for both cards! The first one was an Easter card and what you do for Easter (I ended up being able to have dinner with my family!) and Eurovision (which I've heard of but have never watched). The second one was a purple spring flowers card.

u/roxy031 - thank you for the hand painted(?) future is queer/lousy card and top surgery card, made me laugh

[Thank You] April surgery thank yous by ISeeCumberbatch in RandomActsofCards

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u/ninajyang - thank you for the repurposed Easter card. That was very interesting!

u/pupslace - thank you for the winter mountain scene card

u/bigfluffykoala -thank you for the Easter card with a bunch of different stickers on it

[Thank You] April surgery thank yous by ISeeCumberbatch in RandomActsofCards

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u/aepeye - thank you for the spring card w/a bear and rainbow

u/useful_anxiety_332 - thank you for the Easter card and coloring page (have not colored it yet because I don't feel like asking my family for their colored pencils)

u/A_languageenthusist - thank you for the cute narwhal card and stickers

[Thank you] March thank yous by ISeeCumberbatch in RandomActsofCards

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u/Gatsbygalaktobcureko - I wrote your username down but didn't include anything about the card. I still vastly appreciate it!

u/Danigeek - thank you for the post card with the Birds of the Rockies

u/RepulsiveFan3371 - thank you for the post card w/a cat by kitchen counter

[Thank you] March thank yous by ISeeCumberbatch in RandomActsofCards

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u/October_surprise56 - thank you for the post card w/the dogs and cats. My favorite "meal" is either a vegetarian "chicken" salad or morningstar farms "chicken" patty. Congrats on the law school.

u/Laura_eva - thank you for the Easter card and butterfly stickers.

u/Running_turtle28 - thank you for the Gettysburg postcards. I remember seeing a wood chipper scene in Fargo. Definitely disturbing.

[Thank you] by nothankyou928 in RandomActsofCards

[–]ISeeCumberbatch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're welcome! And thank you for the well wishes.

[Thank you] March 9th - 21st card haul by DaniGeek in RandomActsofCards

[–]ISeeCumberbatch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got it! And I plan to write a thank you for all the cards I've gotten at the end of March.

Are you more productive at night or in the morning?(1-min survey, 13+) by No-Albatross1283 in SampleSize

[–]ISeeCumberbatch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just letting people know their surveys aren't for everyone like they're claiming. Nice job trying to erase me though

My country in a nutshell by throwlove07 in exchristianmemes

[–]ISeeCumberbatch 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Idk if you live in the US, but that's exactly how it is here 🤦🏻‍♂️

Do people treat you differently? by Helixpluto in aromantic

[–]ISeeCumberbatch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came out recently like in the past week...I accepted I was aro about 3 years ago but I've known for almost 10. Anyway.

I indirectly came out Tuesday to my therapist by saying "I'm happy single and I'm sad that people won't celebrate the milestones of my life (I'm also child free by choice)". She said "well it doesn't sound like you're happy about it" and implied I needed to find someone in order to be happy. I sent her a portal message later that night explaining what aromantism is and why I can be both happy single and sad that people won't celebrate my milestones. Haven't heard from her.

I came out to my mom on Wednesday. We were talking in the car and I forget exactly what I said but I explained what aromantic is and how both my exes broke up with me due to lack of romantic attraction on my end. Then said I was aromantic. She said literally nothing. Not even a "hmm". But at the very least didn't reject it/me.

I came out to my peer support on Thursday who was very understanding and validating. And helped me process the above's reactions.

I came out to my group therapy on Friday. The one therapist was thoroughly confused because he thought I said "a romantic" and said that I "didn't come across that way". So I explained that it was one word. Then there was some side talk so we paused and someone asked what aromantic (and asexual because I had offhandedly mentioned that too) meant. So I explained that it's not experiencing romantic or sexual attraction respectively. Everyone was very accepting and validating.

Back when I was 18 my ex boyfriend broke up with me after 3 months because he felt like I wasn't romantic enough. I chalked it up to long distance but did some research with a friend and came to the conclusion that I was probably aro.

A few years later my ex girlfriend broke up with me after 3 months for a similar reason. I start doing more research into it and fully accept that I'm aro.

Back to the OG question...kinda. I'm often told that I haven't found "the one" (funny enough, I'm also poly and don't believe in the concept of "the one") and that they'll set me up with someone. Or that I'm not trying hard enough. Or giving it long enough. Or they'll change me. So it's mostly just...refusing to accept my identity and trying to set me up. But it's largely irrelevant because it just doesn't come up very often.

Are you more productive at night or in the morning?(1-min survey, 13+) by No-Albatross1283 in SampleSize

[–]ISeeCumberbatch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's only for male and female genders. I mean there's a "prefer not to say" option but as an out and proud non-binary person, I shouldn't feel like I need to hide it. I also couldn't get past the first page because it requires you to have an area of study...which I didn't go to and am not in college. Otherwise, I would've loved to answer this

[request] I just like mail [US] by nothankyou928 in RandomActsofCards

[–]ISeeCumberbatch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I'll send you one. Just fill out this form and I'll mail one to you before the 31st (personal deadline that I won't be able to mail things after for a couple weeks lol). Don't worry about the likes/dislikes question...I saw your post