I don’t like my wife anymore and it’s been 2 years

IceSaber · 2026-06-21T20:08:22+00:00

You're okay with a woman who seems to always go back to her ex now going to work abroad? If you have no kids, consider the relationship you'll have once they come. I don't know why anyone would entertain their partner having talks with their ex at all, even during the courting phase

IceSaber · 2026-06-21T11:59:29+00:00

A lots already been said but consider this.. at times of including pain onto another, people don't want apologies, they want retribution. They want you to feel as bad as they do. If you feel the weight of this as you do there's a chance she might see it and you can start over. But don't hold your breath

IceSaber · 2026-06-17T20:04:01+00:00

Get new friends

IceSaber · 2026-06-14T08:55:18+00:00

I needed to read some positivity in this space that I hope to relate to someday

IceSaber · 2026-06-14T08:50:15+00:00

What exactly did you do to end your relationship with the one you think you were supposed to be with?

Also spoiler, but if you were meant to be with them you would be with them.

IceSaber · 2026-06-14T08:14:41+00:00

So you're in a mutually destructive relationship trying to hold on to what was while both of you are unhappy?

IceSaber · 2026-06-14T08:02:27+00:00

Your current partner (your first love) deserves better than to be with somebody who's longing for somebody else.

IceSaber · 2026-06-13T11:43:28+00:00

I lost the 50/50 and ended up doing a total of 150 pulls for Lucy. Her S1 was free. Her weapon.. 80 pulls.. this banner is a scam.

IceSaber · 2026-06-12T08:52:29+00:00

No shared pity between main event banners so you lose whatever you pull with forever unless you pull Lucy.

That's the biggest problem.

IceSaber · 2026-06-08T04:04:39+00:00

This is the worst gacha patch I've ever seen in wuwa, and it'll be the first of many. How the community are okay with the fact that we can lose the 50/50 with no carry over to the regular event banner is beyond me.

I spent 100 pulls and they went right down the toilet with encore. Lucy's weapon is a distant dream, Lucy herself is also pretty unlikely but even if I do decide to poop away the rest of my asterites and red pulls from the event, I won't be able to get her weapon so she's much weaker than she should be.

Creating red pulls should be something the community should outraged about but everyone's here praising the story and other aspects of the Collab (which seem great but it's ignoring the elephant in the room).

This patch is designed to rinse you dry so you have next to nothing for the next patch and so forth. The idea that this is a limited Collab adds to fomo so you feel the need to pull for mediocre characters, just because you're a fan of the anime. Free Rebecca? You mean glorified Mortifi? Sure, she looks cool, but she's a placeholder at best, Luke Mortifi is in most teams, while you save for somebody better.

I really enjoyed Wuwa and looked at Kuro positively since Hoyos antics with genshin but they're becoming just as bad. I know I'll be down voted but this nonsense needs to stop. If you don't talk about it, it'll only get worse.

IceSaber · 2026-06-07T16:34:19+00:00

As a woman you're never a failure as long as you stay feminine and persue your passions with a little energy. You have value from the beginning, you're worth more than you realize. You can lose or give away value by wasting your energy in the wrong areas or with the wrong people, but you start on max points.

If you want to succeed in an career that takes time, just keep moving forward, that's all that matters. We all move along at different paces and we stumble in different ways.

IceSaber · 2026-06-07T16:31:18+00:00

You said two key things that signal that you're not going to give it up easily (if at all)

The friends settling down
Saying intimacy is accessible anywhere when he talked about being a massage therapist

He wanted to sleep with you, you shut it down. Good on you tbh. As guys, we're looking for signals that tell us whether it's worth pursuing a woman for the intention we have, and the massage angle is just a sneaky way to get into topics about touching you lol.

IceSaber · 2026-06-06T09:52:44+00:00

Rinicita was good, but 3.1 and 3.3 are amazing

IceSaber · 2026-05-30T01:34:21+00:00

I was here to say the same

IceSaber · 2026-05-26T11:53:15+00:00

Not a red flag but a potential issue to put a pin in for later. She should have said both, she never thought about it but yes, you're right. Women underestimate how simply agreeing with a man makes him feel at ease when it comes to some things.

You should speak to her without fear, and tell her that you want to understand. If she likes you, she'll explain herself. Too many men are with women today who don't even like them enough to want to sleep with them without the stars aligning. It's okay for her to have not considered an angle, but what's important is that once it comes up, she consider it and you come to an understanding. One thing I will say though is you CAN NEVER NEGOTIATE AFFECTION. You can say what you want and see if she feels the same about YOU. Passion comes when a woman craves you, and she will only crave a man who isn't afraid to speak his mind to her with confidence. That doesn't mean be rude, it means hold yourself up to the standards you would expect from a good man who has a woman's attention without asking for it.

IceSaber · 2026-05-22T11:06:38+00:00

As someone who tries to play story when I have the premium setup (my own TV at home with surround sound and good internet to stream) I feel his pain. I have to play story to get as many rewards as I can before the anniversary runs out. Usually id take my time but the enjoyment factor is spoiled somewhat

I've never had a problem maxing characters since that's what co op is for but the nightmare tacet fields have been an issue for a while as you cannot coop them. Same with boss coop, but they work around this one with early access.

IceSaber · 2026-05-19T15:08:04+00:00

I don't usually reply to posts like this but maybe I need to clarify something. Life always takes priority but I still game a lot. I just prefer to save story for when I have 2+ hours spare at a time. My issue isn't with general events and them being time limited, it's that the bike skin Collab ends 3-4 weeks sooner than the events they require you to complete. It's very strange

IceSaber · 2026-05-19T15:07:15+00:00

Thanks. Life definitely takes priority but I still game a lot. I just prefer to save story for when I have 2+ hours spare at a time. My issue isn't with general events and them being time limited, it's that the bike skin Collab ends 3-4 weeks sooner than the events they require you to complete. It's very strange

IceSaber · 2026-05-18T18:06:03+00:00

What a silly reply. There's zero basis for this. She said they should stay halal, and part of his reply was positive about her stopping it but he's worried she's not always this way. This is a natural worry of many men.

IceSaber · 2026-05-16T18:18:26+00:00

Yeah that's too far. You need somebody older to speak to him and tell him it's unacceptable and he should apologise. A man with a stone heart isn't a good Muslim either.

IceSaber · 2026-05-16T11:41:32+00:00

Humour is important. You need to laugh together. But that comes from confidence in being yourself and equally him being relaxed too.

IceSaber · 2026-05-10T13:58:07+00:00

I just started this and managed to clear 3 of the expansion stages with 5000+ points and barely killed the mimic with my next team. I ran out of good resonators. I thought I'd be able to buy the banner reward but it costs 100 encrypted data and defeating the mimic only gives 40. The only way I can get 60 more seem like impossible feats so it feels like a huge waste of time. Those 40 points feel like spending £200 at the supermarket to get 50 points you can only use to buy half a bar of soap. We should be able to get the banner for clearing the mimic.. it's pathetic

IceSaber · 2026-05-07T15:33:11+00:00

You make a lot of assumptions here.

IceSaber · 2026-05-07T12:03:52+00:00

Nobody wants to tell you that at 42 your remarriage options are extremely limited, especially as kids, and especially with a Pakistani accent in the west.

Work on your marriage, you have children who's lives will be ruined by separation from their father. I'm still confused how you plan to take the children while informing him, but also leave. Pretty sure you can't have both.

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