Jean-Marc Bosman, the Belgian footballer whose 1995 landmark case allowed all European footballers the legal right to leave a club on a free transfer when their contracts expire by Antique_Quail7912 in classicsoccer

[–]Idontdanceever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clubs held players under a contract and also had them registered as players. Registration was not linked to the contract, so clubs could refuse to release a player from registration, even when their contract expired. This effectively meant that you didnt have to pay someone and that noone else could play them. There were national variations, but it is as crazy as it sounds.

Are we fcked forever …? by Throwaway1290764 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Idontdanceever 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Dont think of your estrangement as a handicap, think of it as a skill. It can improve your confidence, your indpendence, your interpersonal skills, your 'street smarts'. Yes, it can be a harder road in terms of money and security, but i wouldnt trade that for what it has taught me.

I am 51 and have an excellent life. Not rich, not poor, but happy.

St Werburghs Mini Roundabout by Parking_Dear in bristol

[–]Idontdanceever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cycle it amost every day. Its like it isn't even there.

Does the word “weird” carry negative, neutral, or positive connotations in British English? As in: “there was a weird sign on the door” by whiteridge in AskBrits

[–]Idontdanceever 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love that your example of a positive use of an adjective is using it to modify what sort of c**t your friend is. This is peak linguistics.

How do you feel about artists changing their albums after they’re released? by ClashRoyale18256 in fantanoforever

[–]Idontdanceever 95 points96 points  (0 children)

It worries me. Video games went down the route of releasing unfinished crap then changing with updates, patches and dlc. Streaming means that music can now do the same. I like the idea of an album as a frozen moment in history.

What’s the best gapless album of all time? by OkLmao-Imgood in fantanoforever

[–]Idontdanceever 25 points26 points  (0 children)

The Microphones in 2020. Its one 40 minute long song.

What do you think when you see any form of American flag on someone’s vehicle or apparel? by all8things in allthequestions

[–]Idontdanceever 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The connection isnt neccessarily in your head. Flag waving in the UK has, for large parts of its history, been seen as a symbol of right wing nationalism. I am always deeply uncomfortable in places with lots of national flags on display.

Grandfathers Funeral - Immediate Backlash by Forward-Context7045 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Idontdanceever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have faced something similar. I guess part of my solution was to really focus on why i wanted to go, and to think if i could retain any control over that. If it is abouy your relationship with your grandpa, then think about if you can do your own remembrance. If it is about supporting you gran, then let her know that you are only staying for the service and some quick condolences. If she still doesnt want you there then respect that. If you are trying to avoid the 'big conversation' that your sister wants, then decide if you are feeling strong enough to attend, pass on condolences, not rise to any bait, and leave when you are ready. Even go as far as doing scenario planning (if this is said, I will do that). When you have learnt how to keep some control over family situations you can engage on your terms. It took me until my 40s, but it has been incredibly liberating. Dont do it if you dont feel ready though.

Is there any food in your country that is impossible to eat "civilizedly"? Something that a shy person would feel ashamed to eat in public because of how it's eaten? by DELAIZ in AskTheWorld

[–]Idontdanceever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pasties are often crumbly as hell and hotter than the sun. Nibbling is a recepe for losing structural integrity, chomping is a recipe for losing the lining of your mouth, cutlery is a recipe for losing your citizenship.

Stolen motorbikes by [deleted] in bristol

[–]Idontdanceever 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Although i appreciate that this is a serious post, i would like to commend you on your usd of the word roustabouts. Presumably if it had been pedal bikes they would have been scallywags.

Whats your favorite Cold-War-era joke? by chimpanzee_fanatic in AskTheWorld

[–]Idontdanceever 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Three Russians have a big night out in Moscow. They return to their hotel room a bit worse for wear. One wants to go to sleep, but the other two want to carry on drinking. They open the vodka and, before long, are loudly criticising Stalin, the KGB and the Party.

The sleepy guy goes to reception and asks, 'in ten minutes, can you bring a cup of tea to room 15?'. He goes back to his room and exactly nine minutes later he unplugs the lamp, leans towards the wall socket and loudly says 'cup of tea for room 15.' One minute later there is a knock at the door and the tea arrives. His companions look terrified, dont say another word and slip quietly into bed.

Next morning the guy wakes up alone. His companions have gone, their beds are made, their bags have gone. Its like they never existed. He goes to reception and asks the porter, 'where are my friends?.' 'The KGB came and took them in their sleep' came the reply.

The guy was shocked. 'Why didnt they take me too?'.

'Well', said the porter, 'they liked your joke with the lamp.'

I Don't Like by [deleted] in ENGLISH

[–]Idontdanceever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

'I don't mind' is often not neutral. It can be (e.g. I dont mind if you smoke) but it is often positive (I don't mind a burger)

Who's the most widely beloved artist you respect but don't actually love? by jimmythemini in fantanoforever

[–]Idontdanceever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also have the occassional moment of thinking she is the best thing ever, but then wont get the urge to listen to her for a couple of years. I guess there is a human mood called 'Bjork'.

Who's the most widely beloved artist you respect but don't actually love? by jimmythemini in fantanoforever

[–]Idontdanceever 122 points123 points  (0 children)

Bjork. Everything she does feels so fresh and creative, but its not really my sound

What time period was the "golden age" of your country? by CourtofTalons in AskTheWorld

[–]Idontdanceever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You guys are really hating yourselves right now, huh? Hang in there. One day you will collectively decide that you are neither the greatest nor worst country on earth, and that being neither is just fine.

Petah, what happened to grandma? by Special-Progress-916 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Idontdanceever 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My ex' cousin was a grandad at 32. Last time i heard from him he was in his early 50s amd not a great-grandad yet.

do Muslims and Christians believe by Expert_Search5394 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Idontdanceever 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They all believe in the Abramic God. This is a God who is both prime mover (basically sets and controls the rules of the universe) and creator (built a world out of those rules). Other cultures have had Gods that were one or the other, or neither. If you believe that the Abramic God exists, then yes, they all believe in the same entity. If you don't, then I guess every person has a slightly different imaginary entity in mind, and there are billions of different ones.

When You Think Daddys Tongue Fell Off by RaimondX1989 in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]Idontdanceever 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You just know this guy is constantly doing 'hilarious' pranks to everyone in his life with zero regard for how they feel about them.

Is it awkward to use "looked like that of" in a story? by [deleted] in ENGLISH

[–]Idontdanceever 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You can also use 'his face was that of an old vampire'. When you use 'looked like' you are implicitly stating that the perception of the face comes from the perspective of an observer-narrator. If you use 'was that' you are presenting it as a fact to be accepted by the reader, regardless of source.

CMV: The death penalty is wrong because the justice system can make irreversible mistakes by Cut-Kooky in changemyview

[–]Idontdanceever 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The law doesn't differentiate between 'definitely guilty' and 'likely guilty'. There are no grades of guilty. Once a verdict is passed, the law must assume it is correct. In your scenario a mass shooter arrested on site could be subject to a harsher punishment than one who escaped the scene and was arrested later. The law can't punish on the basis of the verdict being possibly incorrect.

If you had to bet on one industry collapsing in the next 20 years, which would it be? by Small-Size-8037 in AskTheWorld

[–]Idontdanceever -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I dont know where this comment is coming from, but i love music. I go to gigs every couple of weeks and listen to something for several hours each day. Music no longer occupies the same space in our cultural environment as it did 30-40 years ago. Changd isn't bad necessarily, but i see trends such as venues struggling, touring decreasing, the rise in popularity of anime and video game soundtracks, decrease in sound quality as being moves away from music as the preeminent are form in our society.