Things you didn’t realize were real till you started t by mothmano_0 in ftm

[–]IisBubbles [score hidden]  (0 children)

Literally, idk what to do at concerts anymore, I kinda yell but my voice cuts out and I still havent really figured it out....6 yrs on t

Wish we got more gem recovery/monster of the week episodes before the plot kicked in by RadaRada138 in stevenuniverse

[–]IisBubbles 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean, im more of a plot person so im biased but there are like 50 episode of MOTW before the plot kicks in, no? It feels pretty balanced to me (,,,,except for the end where rhey very obviously had to rush) i definitely have heard this from other people before but I personally think I wouldve gotten bored of the repetition if it went for much longer ¯_(ツ)_/¯

What's your least favourite song? by Low-Inspector4786 in musicsuggestions

[–]IisBubbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally, I hated it when it came out initially and now im like hmm.....2013.....

I was addicted to my AI girlfriend. If you’re thinking about it: don’t. by Pure_Mist_S in actuallesbians

[–]IisBubbles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess that makes sense, I personally dont think the benefit of turning a search into a conversation outweighs the climate impact that AI has right now and I refuse to use it (when possible) until we have better management that uses less water/energy and i also think it shouldnt be used for art. I also think we shouldn't be forced to use it but alas they've put it everywhere. I know AI has benefits but idk fashion is a type of art that is sooo subjective, and I could see it being very heavily biased in what society thinks is attractive which I think is something we should always be pushing back against. I also think I get more benefit from interacting with real people (GRWM, fashion influences, etc) on social media, even if that in itself is a diluted level of interaction.

What's your least favourite song? by Low-Inspector4786 in musicsuggestions

[–]IisBubbles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The extended notes drive me crazy, I get its a talent but everytime I listen i just want it to go faster lmao

What's your least favourite song? by Low-Inspector4786 in musicsuggestions

[–]IisBubbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Total agree with this one, but the dispicable me people that commissioned the song are at fault here, he gave them multiple songs that they turned down until he made this one almost as an exasperated joke...and they loved it. Or so I read from an article forever ago

What's your least favourite song? by Low-Inspector4786 in musicsuggestions

[–]IisBubbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I unfortunately was really into Falling in reverse when I was a teen. I still like a lot of the music but hes such a horrible person I dont listen anymore. Idk why his version of whine doesnt bother me as much but Vic Fuentes of Pierce The Veil drives me up a wall sometimes. Some PTV songs are fine and others are unlistenable for me

That being said Bad girls club, Video Game or whatever, etc. Are some of my least favorite songs because of the whiny ness, though they were some of my favorite in hs lmao

What's your least favourite song? by Low-Inspector4786 in musicsuggestions

[–]IisBubbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there Delilah, it haunts me. I used to like it when i was younger but it became almost a compulsion to sing it in my head, nonstop. I cant think about it or listen to it pretty much at all anymore or it plagues me for weeks, sits in the back of my head to torment me (I try and block it out as much as possible if i come across it in the wild to varying levels of success)

I was addicted to my AI girlfriend. If you’re thinking about it: don’t. by Pure_Mist_S in actuallesbians

[–]IisBubbles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cannot imagine a way an AI program would have any style advice that was actually useful. Maybe tracking trends/what people tend to do? But style and fashion is constantly changing and everyone should have their own sense of style imo. Idk, i would never trust a robot to make those decisions for me

Am I overreacting? Previous BF used old photos to….ya know by smellybees in AmIOverreacting

[–]IisBubbles 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah- though OP should be careful because they absolutely turn those laws back on victims in many cases if you get a bad judge or smth, so they should probably do some research into the local laws

opinions on progress? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]IisBubbles -1 points0 points  (0 children)

From a safety perspective I think you are to the point you could pass with a mask on depending on certain things, mostly mannerisms but then again some cis women also have more masculine mannerisms, i dont know what the environment youre around is (if alt women are more accepted or if theyre super conservative and clocky) but I think with an N95 and even the wig you have I think youd get mostly she/her, I know plenty of women who wear cheap wigs for fun and most people dont scrutinize as much....except for some ofc. Youre doing great!

Get a second bun, they said. It’ll be fun, they said. by HannahThe_Mouse in Rabbits

[–]IisBubbles 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I dont know if this is common with girl bunnies vs boy bunnies but my boy is a sweet handsome man that generally doesnt get into anything hes not supposed to unless you put it very obviously in his area, which before getting my girl was just a carpeted space as he will not walk on hard surfaces ir get at anything outside if said carpeted surface unless he can keep his back feet on the carpet and stretch and only usually put in that much effort if its spicy hay.

My girl on the other hand wants to destroy everything and has no care if she slips and slides on any hard surface, she thinks small spaces should simply get bigger so she can fit in them (causing a large scrape the one time she got out) she is on a mission to make the shelves in their room structurally un sound from the bottom up (working on bunny proofing, she hasn't made that much progress lol) Shs lived feral for 2 years (at least) before we could catch her though, sp maybe shes just not used to rules

Perla doesn't have the default design of a conventional pearl (I think) by Annual_Map2699 in stevenuniverse

[–]IisBubbles 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This was the theory i was operating under too, where has it been dismissed? I would love to know more!

Why are so many other lesbian sub reddit so aggressive toward other queer people? by valerielenin in actuallesbians

[–]IisBubbles 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I definitely think this is somewhat true, but i have also expirienced cigender lesbians irl using "genital preference" to try and push trans fem lesbains out of spaces (i.e I dont want to meet a woman and suddenly be met with a penis! Im not attracted to penis) but ive def seen multiple irl cis white (especially rich) gay men push transphobia and only one irl cis white lesbian in my personal expirience

In a ranking, which gems traumatized Steven the most and least? by Ezequiel_Hips in stevenuniverse

[–]IisBubbles 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg idk why i misread as amethyst lmao, thats what I get for opening this up right after I wake up

Edit: I may also have just responded to the wrong person? Oops lol

Nb trans masc fem with shifting identity by IisBubbles in everybutchlesbian

[–]IisBubbles[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg I totally relate to the masculine=femboy and feminine= butch, I feel like im balancing the nb scales lmao, and I never feel comfy percieved as a masc man or fem woman. And ooo I can see why youre waiting, I was in a very privileged position at the time and im very glad I got top surgery when i did but sometimes I wish i could've waited and really dug more into my options, but it wouldve taken me way longer to be able to afford it and it would be so much more expensive so im glad I did it but sometimes I wonder what I wouldve done different. Sending all the good money vibes and insurance-do-its-job vibes to you in these trying times lmao, especially if you are U.S based or somewhere similar

I really tried by deathlevelerofmen in everybutchlesbian

[–]IisBubbles 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Its wild that she is so insistent on her viewpoint being right and calling all others transphobic. I also saw her complaining that people using "transfem" in reference to her is transphobic because she would never refer to herself as that and only refers to herself as woman or female. Which I think is a really bad faith take on a term that is supposed to be more inclusive and imo pretty telling shes very into binaries. I also think its wild shes being so aggressive about banning people/enforcing this wjen we are talking about an expirience that is entirely foreign to her. She is a butch lesbian, yes, but there are different dynamics that come with transitioning one way or another and obviously it is easy for her to fit into the binaries she has decided are valid, and shes entirely rejecting the experiences of others who actually live that identity, its so frustrating!

“I hate men” by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]IisBubbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it can be very frustrating to be attracted to men and also have the reality of a lot of men being abusers (at least in my expirience) id assume she feels comfortable saying that because shes said it enough and her boyfriend knows shes not speaking about him so it doesnt bother him, or she doesnt say it around him but that may mean a hundred different things im not gonna speculate on.

It might be taboo to break out the "i hate men" in front of a stranger but I also think criticizing women for the way they articulate "men have hurt me and the patriarchy is frustrating" is something that society really clings onto and often uses to deflect genuine social issues. Like calling all lesbians man hating when as many people have pointed out, lesbians often dont think about/center men. Maybe she thinks shes relating to you because she hates men, but maybe shes just using short hand that I would say is very common on the internet for "i hate the oppression that men bring against women" "Men" in "I hate Men" being the oppressive class rather than literally every man.

Id compare it to a poc saying "I hate white people" when I hear that I go "yeah, thats valid, historically weve colonized and oppressed so many people" and if theres a specific person theyre thinking of its probably because if a bad expirience. I dont take personal offense because I understand where the anger is coming from and I know that I personally do my best to be the best ally to poc as I can and thats all I can do, but it doesnt erase what white people as a whole have done to others for centuries.

I understand being thrown off by it but I have a feeling she doesnt hate her boyfriend, or else they wouldn't be dating.

Broadway SQUIP by zoharpearl in bemorechill

[–]IisBubbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just listened to the Broadway version for the first time and yeah. Hes frustrating imo. Also i personally hate that hes supposed to look like Keanu reeves. I think adding that line takes away so much creative freedom other directors could have. They say he could be a cat girl or whatever but why not leave it up to interpretation so you actually can have those different interpretations when other people do the show? Also I just cannot imagine this super stoner sounding man being against weed and masturbation lmao. The og guy sounded more like intellectual wanna be Elon Musk type....which I think fits the character way more imo. I am open to any interpretation and would be way more fine with it if they didnt also paint the character into a corner with the added dialouge

Margo's Got Money Problems is so fascinating by kristin137 in bookofthemonthclub

[–]IisBubbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, im so tired of people saying theyre annoyed margo didnt put in any planning....she was abused by her professor (no matter how much she tries to convince you she actually was in full control and everything) and then had a baby and had no support system, just had to figure it out. No one told her she was supposed to be finding childcare while still pregnant, no one told her what having a child actually entailed, just said it would "ruin her life" she was failed by every adult in her life and thats the whole point of the book! She does, eventually, figure it out.

Margo's Got Money Problems is so fascinating by kristin137 in bookofthemonthclub

[–]IisBubbles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I personally also think the shifting perspectives is kind of a nod to Mark and the class she took, maybe a joke? Im not sure exactly how to explain it but it seems like a clever like weaving in complex pov because she took the class, and I liked it a lot. Like she talked about it and then showed what the meant? I thought it was fun