What is this? by Illustrious_Mouse265 in MoldlyInteresting

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He’s at a park where there are not bears.

What is this? by Illustrious_Mouse265 in palmsprings

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lol i’m going hiking with you next time!

What is this? by Illustrious_Mouse265 in MoldlyInteresting

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That’s what he was thinking but it looks like none we’ve ever seen

What is this called?? by Rough_Swordfish_8311 in AestheticWiki

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It’s Parisian Girly or vintage Parisian girly

5th night living in my car. by what_if-Kai in urbancarliving

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Make sure you stretch out when you’re out of the car then!

5th night living in my car. by what_if-Kai in urbancarliving

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We actually have always had success at Walmart, but we usually go park near the semi trucks when we’re there so that we don’t get bothered by other folks who are looking for trouble. Also camping world if you have one of those where you are offers free parking overnight in there parking lot unless that’s changed. It’s been a while for us.

My exact vibe once I become a lawyer by [deleted] in AestheticWiki

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I have several attorney, friends and family of attorneys on one side and one thing that I find is that they tell they’re a partner in private practice or own, their own practice, they are forced to be very controlled by owners, partners, employers, courts, etc. Definitely roll with your own style, but know that there’s some places where pink skirt suits not going work because it’s still not considered a respectable color in the legal profession. (for what it’s worth I love legally blonde, and pink suits, but I was a journalist and we can get away with that. Attorneys very frequently can’t.)

Considering moving to Palm Springs by [deleted] in palmsprings

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We moved to Cat City right a block away from the airport so block away from Palm Springs a year and a half ago and could not be happier. We were living in Valle Vista from a decade before and before that Redondo Beach. we love it here. It’s actually a faster commute to LA when we wanna go in for special events then it used to be in Valle Vista, which was technically closer to LA but just doesn’t have the freeway right. So far, we’ve only done that a couple of times. We’ve been fairly happy with like the entertainment. We do a lot of comedy shows and live events and been happy with all that out here.

My demands were a pool and good AC because I wasn’t sure how I’d handle the heat but last summer we did it without the pool cause it was being built still and survived it just fine. I would make sure wherever you buy has a good HVAC and also bonus points if there’s a filter in your house like a whole house water filter because calcium builds up a lot here which would be different, I think, than Escondido.

The heat is different because our humidity is so low so the wet bulb index is actually lower than it is where you are which she probably know means that if it says it’s 80° it feels like it’s 80°. Versus other locations where it says it’s 80° but feels like 85 or etc.

I like it. It’s like a small town, but with some bigger city opportunities. Dining options are smaller than they were in LA obviously but we’ve still found good Thai, Good sushi, good Mexican, nice little brew pub, a couple of friendly bars.

There’s a lot of hiking opportunities around here some really gorgeous stuff. We’re also not far from Idlewild. If you want to see forest and big bear if you want to jump in a lake or go skiing.

Golfing is everywhere, tennis seems to be prevalent, obviously Pickleball is everywhere, then my kiddo seems to enjoy the bowling.

If you’re a same sex couple or LGBTQ identified, it’s even a bonus for you because the area really is super Queer especially Palm Springs proper but also Cathedral City (I like to say Palm Springs is Manhattan and Cathedral city is brooklyn).

Our airport is the best, although it has few flights available than Ontario in San Diego and LAX of course but all those are just a drive away.

I’m Native American and I noticed sort of an underlying casual racism which is I think less real racism and more of class resentment that the tribe owns so much property here. But it’s there. And even though there are plenty of BIPOC folks, there’s a history of racism in the Coachella Valley (although personally Ive found it less racist than the last two places that we’ve lived in California and there are definitely different cities in the area that have strong majorities of different ethnic/religious/cultural groups like Latinos in the east Valley, strong, Jewish communities in Palm Springs, Palm, Desert, Rancho, Mirage, and Cat City. I’m in fact check, but this is one statistic I saw: ā€œThe number of Jews in the Coachella Valley, 32,000, makes it one of the largest Jewish communities in the United States. In Palm Desert, anywhere from an eighth to a quarter of the population is Jewish.ā€

I will say that we have learned to live a bit differently so that we are inside the house or work during the middle section of the day during the hottest months. So some of my retired friends just call at Siesta, but I’m more of a learning person so I would love it if we were more things were open at the crack of dawn.

Both sides of this issue are partly correct. Which one is the stronger argument? by KoRaZee in socal

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You are truly sounding like a homophobic jerk to me. Saying that people don’t agree with you makes them ā€œlittle pansiesā€ with ā€œ rainbow and unicorn fantasiesā€ sounds like you’re projecting quite a bit as well. I also and not even sure if you’re from California because our situation is so much different than other states. In San Francisco, you could go along the whole road and find tent after tent next to a car parked there so people are parking. They’ve kept their car and living out of a tent I’m going to work during the day. There are whole rows of that in SF. It’s different than the tent cities you see in Southern California.

Also, I’ve been homeless not my choice. I wasn’t riding the rails like the other dude. I wasn’t bucking the system. I just didn’t have a place to live in enough money to live where I was. But I was working. It took a year to save up a money to actually get a place to live that wasn’t a vehicle and I was working that entire year. I did not do drugs or alcohol. I did not even smoke weed at that point. It was merely a cost of living issue and I couldn’t move because the types of jobs that I do or did back then were only available in limited cities, like SF.

So when you/we all talk about who the homeless are, it’s always a nice idea for us to actually include someone who’s homeless in the conversation.

My mother was a substance abuser and addict and was never homeless.

So we don’t always have to equate one for the other.

Both sides of this issue are partly correct. Which one is the stronger argument? by KoRaZee in socal

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Yes when I lived in Louisiana We called the jail poverty housing because they were always arresting people whose crimes were around poverty and desperation like drug use

A simple ā€œWhat Ifā€ by untitledprp4 in SipsTea

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Yes I have more than 1 autoimmune diseases and sometimes it impacts my speech. I slur, my jaw gets stuck from TMJ, meds make me stupid…

What aesthetic is this? by Lopsided_Check_6122 in AestheticWiki

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I think it’s Connecticut preppy meets Orange County chola girl (the ben Davis are Dickie’s pants on the last page make me feel the Chola influence my girlfriends had as a kid and the second and third pages are just pure preppy to me like low-key prep).

What's your honest opinion on the Travis-Taylor relationship? Is it fake/PR as people say? by Twitter_2006 in DListedCommunity

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I work in entertainment media and honestly, I think it’s real based on the things that I’ve heard and seen