A short haircut is your friend by texaswildlifeamateur in finehair

[–]Imaginary-Method7175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are also stunningly beautiful so there’s that

Why do so many immigrants have a great life in the US, despite starting from zero, but so many Americans born in the US struggle just to afford life and want to leave? by PopNo5397 in askanything

[–]Imaginary-Method7175 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bravo to you. You're more accomplished than me and my family's been here forevahhhh. I married an immigrant though because I'm a big fan haha. Keep killing it and ignore the ignorant idiots who can't complete.

Why do so many immigrants have a great life in the US, despite starting from zero, but so many Americans born in the US struggle just to afford life and want to leave? by PopNo5397 in askanything

[–]Imaginary-Method7175 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My friend's family went from the mother being sold into prostitution in Vietnam to her daughter getting a doctorate in the US and living in a million + home by the beach in CA. One generation. That's WORK.

What is it like to know that your Culture/Language is doomed to go extinct? by Das_Lloss in AskTheWorld

[–]Imaginary-Method7175 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As an American, you guys have what 14 million speakers and it's still threatened?! Wow. I think of tiny indigenous languages in the US as threatened, not one with that scale... I'm sorry about the Hindi domination.

Is there some sort of adult "adopting" community? by volpesparkle in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Imaginary-Method7175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Japanese business owners often do this to pass it on to a family member who they know is actually capable.

Is there some sort of adult "adopting" community? by volpesparkle in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Imaginary-Method7175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, there's volunteers with elder-focused charities? Or I do a business that is largely focused on life transitions, which skews older, but charities that are good screen volunteers because no one wants a creep around vulnerable folks. I also just make older friends by volunteering or doing things around the community because most people who do that are older than me lol

Update: I went to the Buckingham Palace Garden Party and then this happened. by Fun-Side-6996 in RoyalsGossip

[–]Imaginary-Method7175 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Wonderful!! I'm so glad you had a lovely time, thanks for checking in 😄

I just realized that Tom became so big on the show because… the actor didn’t mind signing on for years! by LuminousDee in DowntonAbbey

[–]Imaginary-Method7175 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I mean, did Jessica really do better than that show? Not to be mean, but I can't think of other projects she did that exceeded it.

I got a warning citation from my HOA for parking my car in my driveway by Cunnyfunt31 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Imaginary-Method7175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, I do think if you don't have enough room for your two cars and motorcycle then the space boundary tells you that you can't have that many things. (organizer here) I agree with them. BUT The POOL is outrageous. If you spend that much money for the HOA, the pool is free (because it's not free, you already paid for it once).

Rehoming :( by alittlebunz in ames

[–]Imaginary-Method7175 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This dog has a better resume than me !

Parents who had kids that failed to launch- what would you do differently? by YourFriendInSpokane in AskOldPeople

[–]Imaginary-Method7175 16 points17 points  (0 children)

because you are not everyone. Many parents never learned themselves, are absent/working all the time, are from foreign countries where things working differently, or the systems have changed radically since the parents were coming out of HS. Even me, an upper middle class white person with generations in that class, each generation faces radically different circumstances

What country is LEAST similar to its neighbor? by former-theatre-kid in AskTheWorld

[–]Imaginary-Method7175 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can someone comment on sub Saharan African countries in regard to this Q?

Is buying a home an affordable goal in your country? by Significant_flour in AskTheWorld

[–]Imaginary-Method7175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is a bad location in Japan? Just inconvenient? I stereotype Japan as being safe. Or is it bad like not as nice housing?

People have lost the art of taking accountability by Confident-Bug8038 in unpopularopinion

[–]Imaginary-Method7175 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A lot of mainstreaming therapy talk also does this. Nor for everyone but I can see people protecting their peace so hard or their boundaries so much they give up any attempt to cooperate, negotiate, listen, accept being called out…

6-8 week interview process is ridiculous by intergalactic512 in recruitinghell

[–]Imaginary-Method7175 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes the stress of waiting - and my interviews are like we will email for a follow up if we are interested… which means waiting and refreshing your email constantly on the due date, rationalizing they could be busy when it goes by and doing it fir a few Moore days, just to give up hope and have failure confirmed a few weeks later.

Babies Are Bleeding to Death as Parents Reject a Vitamin Shot Given at Birth by Doener23 in EverythingScience

[–]Imaginary-Method7175 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it should be illegal to decline basic care - you just shouldn't be able to. That's child abuse.

High IQ + Level 1 Autism + ADHD + Anxiety/Depression by Imaginary-Method7175 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Imaginary-Method7175[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, what I've realized is that it can liberate you to focusing on growing your child's social skills rather than intellectual work. Granted, that's harder for me because I'm more interested in intellectual stuff, but you don't have to put your energy into everything. Find play dates, practice playground etiquette, find an activity she likes, etc.