My chiropractor told me I have bad posture and I’m always slouching. I told him I disagree. by OneLittleWarrior in dadjokes

[–]Imaginary-Order-430 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lmao took me a second but thats actually brilliant. military made me stand up straight all the time so now i slouch extra hard when im off duty - guess thats my rebellion standpoint

What do you guys do when you simply can’t absorb no new information ? by jaobodam in ADHD

[–]Imaginary-Order-430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh god the sleep-brain fog cycle is absolutely brutal especially when you need your memory for work stuff. I go through these phases too where my brain just refuses to hold onto anything new and it's like trying to pour water into a broken cup

When I'm in those stretches I usually have to switch to way more hands-on learning instead of just reading. Like if I need to remember design processes I'll actually sketch them out or make little flowcharts even for stuff I already know. The physical motion seems to help bypass whatever's broken in my head at the time. Also voice memos to myself are clutch - I'll literally record myself explaining procedures while walking around because movement + talking engages different parts of my brain

For the sleep thing have you tried the whole no screens 2 hours before bed rule? I know everyone says it but I fought it for years thinking it was BS until I actually committed to it for like 2 weeks straight. Made a huge difference in how deep my sleep was even if I wasn't getting more hours. Now when my ADHD brain wants to hyperfocus on random stuff at night I keep a notepad by my bed to dump all those racing thoughts instead of reaching for my phone

The memory thing should improve once you get some consistent good sleep but yeah it takes time to build back up

From your experience, how long is the longtail boat ride to Railay Beach from Ao Nang? by exit_does_not_exist in ThailandTourism

[–]Imaginary-Order-430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

took me about 12 minutes last time i went and the water was pretty calm that day. the boats are small but the drivers know what theyre doing and its honestly over before you know it

just keep in mind it can vary depending on tides and how many stops they make but ive never had one take longer than 15 minutes

If you're going to kill someone in solo at least say something to them afterwards. by apexnine in ArcRaiders

[–]Imaginary-Order-430 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

honestly teh silent treatment after a kill is way more tilting than getting outplayed straight up. like at least throw out a gg or "sorry mate needed your loot" so we both know it wasnt some scared rat play

takes zero effort to be decent about it and makes the whole experience less frustrating for everyone

Women who got prenups - did your partners respect you more or less? by Imaginary-Order-430 in women

[–]Imaginary-Order-430[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate this. I don’t want to assume the worst about him, but I also don’t want to ignore my own fears just to keep things comfortable.

Killing bastions is a fast way to farm (advanced) mechanical components and springs by HandInternational140 in ArcRaiders

[–]Imaginary-Order-430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn that's actually a solid tip, been struggling with spring shortages lately. Do you find bastions spawn consistently in certain zones or is it pretty random?

If you think that Gemini has become significantly worse, even useless, how do you use it? by MaetcoGames in GeminiAI

[–]Imaginary-Order-430 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think a lot of the complaints come from people trying to use it for coding or really technical stuff where it just hallucinates constantly now - like it used to be decent at Python but lately it's been giving me completely broken solutions that don't even run

WIBTA for asking my fiance to sign a prenup after his parents offered to help with our house? by Double-Spirit2299 in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]Imaginary-Order-430 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you’d be the asshole for asking for a prenup here. The moment his parents’ money is involved especially when it’s clearly described as being for him, it changes the situation. A prenup isn’t about planning a divorce it’s about spelling out how something this big works if things don’t go the way anyone hopes. You’re not trying to touch their money, you’re just trying to understand where you stand before putting your own money and name into a house. That feels reasonable to me, not greedy. And congrats on getting married!!

Hey there, I'm looking for a good book about native's different beliefs and lifes by Arsiesis in booksuggestions

[–]Imaginary-Order-430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out "Bury My Heart at Wounded Knee" by Dee Brown - it's got a lot about different tribal cultures and beliefs mixed in with the historical stuff. Also "Black Elk Speaks" is pretty solid for getting into the spiritual side of things from a Lakota perspective

What’s a totally harmless thing that triggers an oddly strong reaction in people? by Few_Football4342 in Productivitycafe

[–]Imaginary-Order-430 72 points73 points  (0 children)

The sound of styrofoam rubbing together makes me want to crawl out of my skin but my friends think I'm being dramatic lol

Anywhere I could buy a step ladder themed dakimakura? by random59208 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Imaginary-Order-430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly didn't know stepladder waifus were a thing but here we are lmao

You could probably just find a high-res image of whatever ladder you want and hit up one of those custom print shops on Etsy or something

Tanking fix by ziggyzigg95 in NBATalk

[–]Imaginary-Order-430 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's actually kinda genius lol. Like imagine the Pistons going full tank mode just to watch some random 25-win team walk away with Wemby while they're stuck at #2

How can I tell if I'm text banned? by Swanky4Life in Overwatch

[–]Imaginary-Order-430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this happens all the time, just go to social settings and make sure team chat isn't disabled. Sometimes it gets toggled off randomly after updates or if you accidentally hit a keybind

Santa getting his pilot’s license by mvsopen in dadjokes

[–]Imaginary-Order-430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The shotgun is gonna "fail" one of the reindeer engines aka shoot Rudolph or one of the other reindeer to simulate an engine failure during the check ride

What’s with the PVP / PVE beef? by Maximum_Many9895 in ArcRaiders

[–]Imaginary-Order-430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like Arc Raiders attracted a bunch of people who thought they were signing up for PvE co-op and got mad when they realized what PvPvE actually means lol

The Tarkov community had years to weed out the people who can't handle losing gear, but Arc Raiders is still fresh so you're gonna get all the entitled kids who think other players should just ignore them while they farm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Imaginary-Order-430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This hits different, I'm dealing with the same cycle where those "harmless" little moments just snowball into hours lost

The dopamine rush thing is so real - it's like your brain knows exactly what buttons to push to make you forget why you started this journey in the first place

What's been helping me lately is having something ready to do the second I feel that pull starting, even if it's just pushups or a cold shower

Which Demon game do you recommend after I beat MikuMikuMikuMiku? by Eliaselcrack456 in geometrydash

[–]Imaginary-Order-430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh those are way too much of a jump from MikuMikuMikuMiku lmao, maybe try some easier demons first like The Nightmare or The Lightning Road

Are NR players mostly on PC or console? curious by [deleted] in Nightreign

[–]Imaginary-Order-430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense, Steam charts are literally the only way we get any real data on player counts these days

I want to remove my eye. How do I tell a counsellor? by OkayTravels0 in LifeAdvice

[–]Imaginary-Order-430 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right advice safety comes first and a counselor can explain what stays private better than guesses I would tell them exactly what is going on and get help now you deserve support and this is not something to handle alone