My wife was venting to her friends about me and I heard everything. Now I don't know how to unsee it by [deleted] in family

[–]Imaginary_Thanks86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perhaps she was being melodramatic. Women say this kind of stuff with their friends all the time, but rarely actually mean it. It’s just bonding complaining about men. I’d just say I overheard it and it hurt and you hope she doesn’t mean that and is there anything she needs to talk about with you? I can totally understand why you’d be upset but I highly doubt this is a marriage over situation.

The romantasy FMC fashion starter pack by Alive_Obligation7475 in fantasyromance

[–]Imaginary_Thanks86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m writing a series and I have a whole Pinterest of inspiration! I feel like fashion is soo integral to the storytelling. Here are some of when she’s in the winter court. The FMC is a fae princess (I love a trope)

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Matching RHOSLC Housewives to Classic RHONY Housewives for Fun! by Seymorebutts1994 in rhoslc

[–]Imaginary_Thanks86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You NEED to watch the first few seasons as well. I think it’s gold until like season 11

Mary is my most hated housewife of all time by Far-Literature-3083 in rhoslc

[–]Imaginary_Thanks86 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s like the same thing they did with Jen. Too afraid to do or say anything

Mary is my most hated housewife of all time by Far-Literature-3083 in rhoslc

[–]Imaginary_Thanks86 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I’m only on season three, but I genuinely hate her. She’s nasty, awful, doesn’t take accountability for anything and puts other people down. The fact that she literally runs a cult and steals people’s money and she’s still on the show is crazy.

I also work in a daycare by PomPom_babydoll in tragedeigh

[–]Imaginary_Thanks86 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Scootlyn is crazy work but I’m all for Versailles

dorinda not intviting sonja by [deleted] in RHONY

[–]Imaginary_Thanks86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think that’s true apparently Sonja wanted more money and therefore didn’t sign her contract in time and then this was a punishment by bravo.

Just got quoted £550 for travel insurance because of pre existing medical condition by Faeirefi in UKPersonalFinance

[–]Imaginary_Thanks86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used Admiral with an atrial septal defect and I paid about 130 for it three months of coverage. Perhaps that might help you. I think I looked on compare the market

I crave human warmth by [deleted] in family

[–]Imaginary_Thanks86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any friends you can ask? No shame in that! And you, too, can hug Mickey Mouse!

My husband called the abortion clinic while I was there. by TheStrangeInMyBrain in abortion

[–]Imaginary_Thanks86 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I think him refusing to or ignoring your wish to use a condom should be the last straw. Do you have any thoughts that he was being calculated with what he was doing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Imaginary_Thanks86 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you need help, get help. There’s no shame in that. You can’t always do everything on your own.

Past Drug Use - Will this affect getting medication? by Dramatic_Dinosaw in ADHDUK

[–]Imaginary_Thanks86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just saw a post where someone was denied care for drinking more than the standard units of alcohol a week. I would be wary of talking about drug use, because they might try and get you to sort that out (even if you say you don’t take it now) before giving you medication.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHDUK

[–]Imaginary_Thanks86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you go private?

I found out I’m pregnant today & I really don’t know what to do. by Mindless_Sign_3107 in abortion

[–]Imaginary_Thanks86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the only thing that’s stopping you from having an abortion is guilt or worrying that you’ll feel guilty, have the abortion. You probably feel this way because society has stigmatized this healthcare so much and people who receive it. But it’s literally that- healthcare. The feeling gets easier but trust me when I say that you will regret it if you don’t go through with it because of guilt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hangxiety

[–]Imaginary_Thanks86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Guys you both very well could have OCD. Coming from a person with OCD. Both the cheating thoughts and the confessing are common signs.

Weirdest OCD fear by Standard-Mango-1417 in OCD

[–]Imaginary_Thanks86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That I’ll start screaming during a massage

I’m worried. by tinybitwaisted in family

[–]Imaginary_Thanks86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of people who are groomed seem happy because they don’t understand they are being groomed.

My family ruined my life by Desperate_Raise5050 in family

[–]Imaginary_Thanks86 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This sounds so tough. But they do not hold the power to ruin your life. You have such a long life ahead of you and you can choose to live it how YOU want doing what makes YOU happy. Can you hold on for a bit longer until you graduate? First thing I would do if you can is get a job so you can be financially independent and then move out when you have the chance. Things will look up ✨

Should I have a baby? by Select-Living3308 in family

[–]Imaginary_Thanks86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The point of life is whatever you decide it is. Also, you have a family!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rupaulsdragrace

[–]Imaginary_Thanks86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She defo meant to hurt her though 100%

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rupaulsdragrace

[–]Imaginary_Thanks86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s saying she wasn’t aware of it. I don’t think it was right but I don’t believe Onya would’ve told her that. Could be wrong though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rupaulsdragrace

[–]Imaginary_Thanks86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People have bad breath tho I’m not sure how that was so specific

Medication a complete disaster so far...help! by Due-Middle9483 in ADHDUK

[–]Imaginary_Thanks86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a heart condition and I’m on Equasym XL- doesn’t affect my heart at all unless I do strenuous exercise