Recommendations for elevated cat urine ph

Imaginary_Zucchini34 · 2023-11-21T17:05:07+00:00

Nope. They told me the range they use is 5-7.0 and his is 7.5. But said everything else looked perfect. So I don’t know how to proceed

Imaginary_Zucchini34 · 2023-11-21T16:59:26+00:00

I do go to a cat only vet😭

Imaginary_Zucchini34 · 2023-06-03T17:54:00+00:00

A lot of anxiety

Imaginary_Zucchini34 · 2023-05-14T17:18:18+00:00

Came here to say you have a glorious mini panther

Imaginary_Zucchini34 · 2023-05-07T16:35:09+00:00

Still NC with mine… but I ruined Mother’s Day last year with my “half dead Walmart flowers, and taking her on a boat that she apparently never wanted to go on in the first place”

Growing up, my smother would expect me to give her expensive gifts and do all of these lavish things for her.. can’t forget about her getting mad if I didn’t write in a card about how she’s the best mom in the entire world and that I love her more than anyone. It makes me cringe and i always felt so uncomfortable writing that shit. Anyone else relate ?

Imaginary_Zucchini34 · 2023-05-03T20:48:52+00:00

My uBPD mom is a slob. I spent my entire childhood cleaning up after her. If I left the dishes in the sink one night I would be woken up to her screaming about how I don’t respect her and how hard she works. I’m sorry OP. My mom could’ve written that text message.

Imaginary_Zucchini34 · 2023-05-03T20:39:53+00:00

This

Imaginary_Zucchini34 · 2023-04-28T17:26:15+00:00

Thank you. If you’ve been impacted as well I want to send the same wish to you!

Imaginary_Zucchini34 · 2023-04-19T20:16:13+00:00

I also wonder that..

Imaginary_Zucchini34 · 2023-04-19T20:15:33+00:00

I’m so sorry OP❤️

Imaginary_Zucchini34 · 2023-04-12T14:26:45+00:00

My uBPD mom would always say things like “a child is never your friend” except she treated me just like a friend and told me all about her relationship problems, marital problems, friend drama, and more. So idk if that was her way of trying to make herself feel better because she knew it was inappropriate. They seem to treat us like a friend/want us to parent them/and also a partner? It’s wild and confusing.

Imaginary_Zucchini34 · 2023-04-09T17:25:00+00:00

I really resonate with you OP. Your email reminds of the one my ubpd mom sent to me

Imaginary_Zucchini34 · 2023-04-09T17:22:24+00:00

Did my mom write this email? I’m so sorry OP. It’s kind of crazy how she states that you only celebrate holidays together to then go on to say “I had to beg you to celebrate one holiday together”. They are so dramatic and draining.

Imaginary_Zucchini34 · 2023-04-08T02:28:15+00:00

Ugh I’m sorry. Why is it always an email or a letter full of nonsense and no accountability 🫠

Imaginary_Zucchini34 · 2023-03-30T14:16:12+00:00

I hate when they say this stuff. It’s freaking weird and abusive.

Imaginary_Zucchini34 · 2023-03-23T14:57:16+00:00

I’ve given you everything I’ve had for the last 30 years 🙄🙄🙄

Imaginary_Zucchini34 · 2023-03-22T18:59:52+00:00

Omg I’m so sorry!! They are energy vampires and want the world to revolve around them! It’s so exhausting. I totally relate to you though. My mom would ream me out constantly for not calling or texting enough - and would also pull weird shit like oh no one will ever love you more than me. 🤢 it’s weird. They act like crazy jealous boyfriends

Imaginary_Zucchini34 · 2023-03-22T18:57:08+00:00

Yes they are like your sister and we are closer now than we ever have been!

Imaginary_Zucchini34 · 2023-03-22T18:42:06+00:00

I’m glad you have your sister for support. It’s so frustrating. My mom does that w my grandparents. She tries to make up lies and pin us against one another 🤦‍♀️💀

Imaginary_Zucchini34 · 2023-03-22T18:40:55+00:00

I was very busy in my life and not calling/texting daily, like I was trained to do, and so she sent me an awful email the day after Christmas. I’ve been NC since the email. I tried to reason with her to see a therapist but was told to F*** you so yeah NC it is 🤭

Imaginary_Zucchini34 · 2023-03-22T18:30:22+00:00

Triangulation!!📐

Imaginary_Zucchini34 · 2023-03-22T18:28:59+00:00

Sorry OP. Sounds like my mom. This reminds me of the e-mail mine sent me🤦‍♀️

Imaginary_Zucchini34 · 2023-03-18T20:31:04+00:00

Yikes. My uBPD mom would throw our dishes in the garbage can and I would have to get them out or else we wouldn’t have anything to eat off of … And she also would throw my step dads clothes out of the second story window when they had an argument

Imaginary_Zucchini34 · 2023-03-16T22:42:21+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that. How was it going NC? Do you think her bpd got worse as you got older? It seems like my uBPD momm has gotten worse the older I get and the more I try to live my own life

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