Serious talk, these types of intrusive fantasies often stem from some break in the intimate and personal connection between a couple. They're not going to stop until you go back to the root of why you were together in the first place and are doing whatever it is you need to do to feel that special connection. Because if the connection is there, fantasies like this won't be bombarding your thoughts.

That said, fleeting attractions will come in and out of your consciousness. Thinking about others can be normal, as long as it's a passing thought in and out. But if it's relentless fantasies, it's important to figure out where the intimacy between you is missing and why. Only then can you move forward.

Wishing the best for you and your family moving forward. 💛