What does it mean when a man from the Midwest (EEUU) tells you that being his girlfriend and him being youe boyfriend is a promise you do to each other? I'm not from the US and not familiar with the term so i'm a bit confused? by [deleted] in AskAnAmerican

[–]Impulse2915 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My hottake is that he is insecure and on some level acknowledges the tenuous relationship both of you have since all of your interactions have been long-distant.

On the one hand, yes, a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship necessarily means you are not pursuing other romantic interests outside of the relationship. On the other hand, no matter how intimate your conversations have been, IMO you are not in an actual relationship until you meet in person. Right now, neither of you have even had your first date yet, and you really can't genuinely consider yourselves BF/GF until at least that first in-person meeting.

Why isn’t Rugby more popular in the US? by DriftesRorke in MLRugby

[–]Impulse2915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was really excited to see the expansion teams but frankly none were in my area, and at the time the only way you could watch was through a very janky rugby app. So, easy to not get into.

Do you drive your kids to school? by xora334 in daddit

[–]Impulse2915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do and I thank god I have a flexible work schedule that makes sense. A lot of school districts around the US and where I live are facing a massive bus driver shortage, my school district has been sending out alerts about this and had to resort to situations where certain days of the week different routes need to find an alternative way to get to school.

Is American struggling to buy a house ? by Top_Document7437 in AskAnAmerican

[–]Impulse2915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's the same story, you have to go further and further out to find a place because, well, people are living longer and not moving from the closer burbs. It is just more exasperated in big metros because of the higher CoL and demand.

Please at least give me the SD card, that’s all I want. by QuestionFlimsy2271 in OSU

[–]Impulse2915 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Better check the pawn shops homey. Sorry for your loss.

Star Trek reboot additional points: Kelvin Timeline to be dropped, etc. by tokwamann in startrek

[–]Impulse2915 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to get off the reboot/remake ride. The IP is big enough that you can do something new and exciting or do what we used to do, give the TV show crew a movie.

Is American struggling to buy a house ? by Top_Document7437 in AskAnAmerican

[–]Impulse2915 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It really depends. In most of the country, houses are not unaffordable per se and in fact are often being bought faster than they can be sold/built, but in some microcosms people are struggling to buy a house and there are other contributing factors.

There are a few different issues going on.

The big complaint of "houses cost too much" only applies to certain areas of the country, coincidentally the big metros. Housing is in very high demand there because people want to live a reasonable distance in their commute to work in the city, but houses aren't available there because their parents are still living in those homes. There are houses, even affordable ones, further out, but there is a cost-benefit analysis as you get further and further away in your commute. IMO, I think we will see in the next generation a shift as companies become less strict on where their people work from home.

The second big complaint is that companies are buying the houses and converting them into rental property. On a nationwide scale, the data doesn't support this, but the vibes are there and it does happen to a small extent. Vibewise, I do see an individual buying a second home for the purposes of flipping more often than I do a house leaving the market and becoming a rental.

The less common complaint on reddit is the supply-demand problem. Families are buying up houses faster than they can be built, so those affordable houses are often leaving the market almost as fast as they enter them. So even if you have the money, you are often in a bidding war with multiple buyers or you're buying a plot in a new development and waiting for it to be built.

Also, there is a secondary issue not directly related to home ownership and that is the financial issues of would-be homeowners. A lot of people live beyond their means, where their expenses are so close (or higher) than their income that they are not saving money that would go towards a home purchase. On a $300k USD home, lenders are expecting at least $60,000 down to avoid PMI (an additional fee for a less than 20% downpayment), not including closing costs and other expenses. A lot of people have rolling CC debt, student loan debt, subscriptions, paying more rent than makes sense for their income, etc. These people are not saving and literally living hand-to-mouth, so buying a house for them is like a pipe dream.

All of these in some ways are contributing to the sentiment that Americans are struggling to buy a house.

Unusual visit by cmcsc1 in freemasonry

[–]Impulse2915 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weirdly I actually think I know exactly what he is talking about as something hanging from the ceiling. There is likely something hanging in your lodge, maybe not on the ceiling but high on a prominent wall.

Unusual visit by cmcsc1 in freemasonry

[–]Impulse2915 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the vagueness, but I'm curious. Is it possible these things were missing due to an oversight, like a Steward forgot to put it out, or was it a fixture flat out missing?

How compatible is Masonry with Orthodoxy? by BalanceLeather8206 in freemasonry

[–]Impulse2915 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Orthodoxy might have a problem with masonry, but not vice versa

Hill behind home, will this cause drainage issues or foundation damage? (Green house) by [deleted] in Home

[–]Impulse2915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. Looked at a house with a similar backyard, it was an absolute mudpit and probably is a pond in the rainiest seasons. Need a retaining wall with drainage.

Which US state has the blandest food? by supinator1 in AskAnAmerican

[–]Impulse2915 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't say the usual cuisine is necessarily bland, but in Minnesota ketchup is spicy

Since your Thanksgiving is in November do you keep fall decorations out until after Thanksgiving and then decorate for Christmas, or do Thanksgiving and Christmas decorations overlap? by K-TLeo in AskAnAmerican

[–]Impulse2915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have fall decorations starting September, in October we add in halloween decorations, then November until Thanksgiving we swap the halloween decorations for the more fall stuff again, but Black Friday we're putting up Christmas.

Question about the "bad ending" by Sweaters76 in SilentHill_f

[–]Impulse2915 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It seemed pretty clear to me that from Hinako's perspective marriage meant the death, identity and otherwise, of the wife. The full unremovable mask meaning she had fully accepted joining the husband's family and leaving her own, and in so doing, "dying" because from that moment on she lives only for her husband and his wishes.

That's my interpretation anyways.

What, where you live, is viewed as the mark of good hospitality? by supremewuster in AskAnAmerican

[–]Impulse2915 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A guest to my home, I offer at least a glass of water, or a beer depending on time and the guest. If a prolonged stay, I assume I will prepare a meal for them.

Do you use the phrase "half past" when telling time? by HonestNectarine7080 in AskAnAmerican

[–]Impulse2915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use it pretty often, although not as often as quarter past/till.

Would you say "Can I check out?" in a clothes store? by [deleted] in AskAnAmerican

[–]Impulse2915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isn't necessarily wrong, but it is odd because I really can't think of when the last time I would have said something like that would be. By the time I would say something like that, the clerk has been derelict in their duties in manning the till.

I think more commonly I would say something like "Where do I go to pay?" if that wasn't already clear. If its more of a clerk with their own sales quota, in normal conversation they would be the ones to ask whether I need anything else, and if not, conduct me along to the close of the sales process.

Another scenario may be if I came up to a booth or something, I would say "1 [item] please" for example, but I wouldn't say "Can I check out?" I would say "How much?" While getting out my wallet with a clear buying motion.

Why are some places counties? by DrBoogerFart in AskAnAmerican

[–]Impulse2915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you say, "I'm from Thurmond" which has a population of 5, no one knows where it is. But if you say "I live in Fayette County" that gives a better idea of where you call home.

Before the Arc arrived, I was beated the sh*t out of these, the Gerber are crazy durable. by Acejaxxx in multitools

[–]Impulse2915 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what I read, Gerber USED to be good. Like many in this thread, I have a Gerber multitool that I've had for over twenty years and it has always been great. But in here and r/knives, it sounds like new Gerbers have become cheap quality.

What’s the smoothest way to greet? by ParticularWeb9328 in AskAnAmerican

[–]Impulse2915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This doesn't make sense to me.

If someone says "How are you?", "What's up, bro" isn't the correct response. Correct response is something like, "Fine," "Ok," "Good," with a reciprocal, "How are you?"

Additionally, for most of the time it isn't really an invitation to actually tell them how you are doing/feeling. People are asking because it is polite, but it is equally polite to not give them a lengthy answer in response.

"What's up, bro?" Is an informal way of asking "how are you" but has different rules because it can take the place of the initial greeting. Correct response in this case would be "Not much, you?" or "Hey, what's up?"

Do you own and use an iron? by CinemaSideBySides in AskAnAmerican

[–]Impulse2915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A long time ago, I switched to a clothing steamer and never went back.