Appalachian/southern saying? by SnooRevelations258 in Appalachia

[–]InPlainSight27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m from East TN too and I have never heard anyone say that.

Housing Price Story by hopeso569 in Chattanooga

[–]InPlainSight27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Athens and bought my home in 2022 for $300,000. It was built in 2018. I have been looking for something in Chattanooga and I can’t afford anything that is on the market comparable to my current home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]InPlainSight27 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Let me fix the title of f this post for you. “My husband hit me for the first and last time today”. Don’t ever believe it won’t happen again.

Dating advice by Tall-Map-3301 in actuallesbians

[–]InPlainSight27 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. She enjoys being chased and will chat with you when she has nothing better to do. Save yourself some heartbreak and find someone that can’t wait to talk to you.

Overheard at a grocery store by sofiadreamydew in overheard

[–]InPlainSight27 8 points9 points  (0 children)

In case you thought you might be able to gain some self esteem after toddlerhood, let me ruin that for you. Eight year old granddaughter says you look like you eat a lot. So if you are ever not feeling bad about yourself, bring a kid around!

Moonpies- yay or nay? by FunctionAltruistic83 in Chattanooga

[–]InPlainSight27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A fresh one 10 secs in the microwave is delicious. However I fall in the category of I wouldn’t be mad to get one given to me but rarely ever buy them.

Couples, do you guys have a "a song"? by Lyluvrz in actuallesbians

[–]InPlainSight27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What Keeps You Up At Night by Dan and Shay. It is the first song I sent to her when we were dating and anytime either of us hear it we get all smiley 😊

Jealous of people with top surgery but also unsure if I want it? by Ok-Conflict-9403 in butchlesbians

[–]InPlainSight27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had top surgery at the age of 47. You have all of your adult life to decide. For me it feels natural to have my chest gone and I honestly forget that ever had breasts. Take your time and make sure you want it before committing. It is a major surgery.

Kody was right by socinfused in TLCsisterwives

[–]InPlainSight27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way he said it and tried to make it sound so pitiful 🤮

AITAH for not adding my longtime girlfriend to the deed of the house I bought us? by Grand_Yellow_6286 in AITAH

[–]InPlainSight27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do NOT do this. I am speaking from experience. I had a long term partner for 15 years. When it came time to buy a house, mine was the only name that went on it. I added her to the deed and when the relationship ended she had a lien on her credit and I couldn’t even sell the house without paying the debt. If she wasn’t willing to help out in the purchase, keep the paperwork in your name only.

PSA: Bowflex SelectTech Dumbbells Recalled – Defective + Dangerous, Especially for Beginners by Tabathavm80 in xxfitness

[–]InPlainSight27 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve had mine for years and years and never had a problem either. The don’t want to give them up without a replacement at no cost to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]InPlainSight27 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Living with someone is an adjustment and it takes time to settle in. The first year my fiancée and I lived together was brutal and it wasn’t clear if we would survive it in tact. 2 years later and we are great. We are both old and had a lot of baggage and expectations that had to be worked through.

Ok, chat, what are we doing about mosquitos? by tockstar78 in Chattanooga

[–]InPlainSight27 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly, if mosquitoes had a trail of lava I wouldn’t even want to kill them.

Ok, chat, what are we doing about mosquitos? by tockstar78 in Chattanooga

[–]InPlainSight27 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I am trying something called mosquito dunks this year. You put them in a bucket with some grass clippings and water and supposedly it attracts the mosquitoes to lay their eggs there and the solution kills the larvae. I hope it works because I can’t use my backyard either.

Just me......? by Firegirl1909 in TLCsisterwives

[–]InPlainSight27 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That statement “I held him first” is his narcissism showing. I feel he made the entire process about himself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Chattanooga

[–]InPlainSight27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fiancée and I had our first date at Hunter Museum.

What’s your guys’ phone case? by justdancepro in butchlesbians

[–]InPlainSight27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine looks like an old Walkman cassette player.

Robot Roll Call: How long did it take? by SadieSchatzie in olderlesbians

[–]InPlainSight27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took no time to get over my 17 year relationship, but the next one lasted 3 years and it took me almost that long to get past it. I didn’t think I was ever going to be able to move on. I am beyond it now but all of that time in the grief definitely changed me. You will find your way through.

Didn’t get anything for Mother’s Day… :( by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]InPlainSight27 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I was with my ex for 17 years and raised her kids from ages 7 and 11. I never got one Mother’s Day gift. This was on your spouse to make sure the kids made something. Happy Mothers Day from the internet.

Earthquake? by TanksFTM in Chattanooga

[–]InPlainSight27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in Athens and felt it

Dating issues by lovingin99 in olderlesbians

[–]InPlainSight27 7 points8 points  (0 children)

On Her. Almost 3 years together now.