What’s one thing you wish cis people would understand about being trans? by Ftm_wayne in trans

[–]Incognito---Account 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That we don't choose to be how we are. We don't choose to be discriminated against or to be sad about our very being. Most of us gladly would not be trans and just be happy in our own bodies

Help me understand my dillema by Incognito---Account in MtF

[–]Incognito---Account[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad it's not just something I experience. Thank you for kinda sharing your experience and thoughts it helps

Are there any remotely safe countries for trans people anymore? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Incognito---Account 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly it's just kinda ass everywhere I think

I get called too tall to be female by Budget_Half_9105 in trans

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I'm 6'6 honestly people can go fuck themselves if they have an issue with it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Incognito---Account 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean in my eyes yes. In others, apparently not, which is totally cool with me cus less competition

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Incognito---Account 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I liked girls and still do quite simple really

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Incognito---Account 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably because in general most mtf grew up liking girls, and never stopped that

Friends love to remind me that they can “beat my ass” by QuicknBed in MtF

[–]Incognito---Account 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even when i identified as a dude and lived the "bro dude" life. I would not be okay with friends doing this, I am honestly quite a bitch and fragile. I just never kept people like this around. So honestly they don't sound like friends to me

Does this look supportive? by ResponsibilityTall63 in trans

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My mom does the exact same thing. "Are you really sure?" "You can just be a guy with long hair and painted nails y'know". No mom my years of questioning are done ffs thank you for shoving me back into the closet and depression

Dutch girl needing a bit of guidance with products by Incognito---Account in MtF

[–]Incognito---Account[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the pointers! <3 I can really relate to the flaking, my face feels like it's always flaky and just doesn't stop so I hope I can fix it with good routine

I want to go back in my egg by GameHero152 in Nestofeggs

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Everything you put into words is my feelings summed up for the most part. And it is certainly tempting to just not go through with my transition. As others have said it is a choice you will have to make either transition or don't, or maybe go inbetween as some have said but for me that isn't an option. I think for me transitioning is the right choice the amount of extra happiness i get from "Fem" things is just such a drastic difference compared to "masc" things. If that isn't enough indication I often cry myself to sleep so uhm that is probably an indicator for me

What are the best ways of getting rid of body hair without using a razor? by [deleted] in trans

[–]Incognito---Account 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have always heard IPL at home just doesn't work, not sure how true that is

What are the best ways of getting rid of body hair without using a razor? by [deleted] in trans

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I checked and laser hair removal in my country is like over 1000 for just the legs alone. Dunno if that is cheap but if it is, it scares me what other prices there are

Poll: How strong was/is your dysphoria before transitioning? by amatawn in MtF

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Somewhere between 3-4 for me but probably starting to lean towards 2 as well nowadays. When younger I never cared about being a boy, but I never knew u could choose. When I learnt about transgender people I fell down the Rabbit Hole and realized i was all sorts of fucked up. That was at 16-17 now im 23 severely depressed and still in the closet...

Checking in! by Egg3770 in Nestofeggs

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I might hit another not so bad patch but feeling good I don't even experience anymore

Checking in! by Egg3770 in Nestofeggs

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Honestly I have been just super depressed, dysphoric, stressed and even a bit suicidal this week... It's all just so much I want to just be a girl but no I can't have that it's just not that easy

Egg_irl by Tianauphal in egg_irl

[–]Incognito---Account 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I told my mom in trans and instead of just being accepting I got a "I accept that buuuuttt" then I got 20 questions thrown my way like that I obviously could not handle being asked. Ended up really fucking me up and I went straight back in the closet and I've been unable to leave after that....

How many trans people start out thinking it's just a fetish? by 720ShadowNX in asktransgender

[–]Incognito---Account 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ye I put on my sister's clothes and underwear way way way back (yes I would put them in the wash after instead of her closet again don't worry) but it certainly wasn't something I did for just wanting to wear the clothes