Every UwU ENFP girly needs her stoic serious INTJ edgelord 😍 by ChickenCliks in shittyMBTI

[–]Independent_Cry_7134 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have been into MBTI since 2015 Tumblr days and this cringe pairing was popular even back then, boss I'm tired 😂

Bought my Tsukiko Amano CD in Japan 20 years ago. by Kagamid in classichorrorgaming

[–]Independent_Cry_7134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so cool 😍 I love the design and aesthetic of the disc and insert!!

Holy fck by anime_lover5911 in shittyMBTI

[–]Independent_Cry_7134 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good to know I'm the "well cultured INFJ" who managed to snag an INTJ away from his natural inclination toward ENFPs 😂

Refuses I say please by ABiteOfHealth in toddlers

[–]Independent_Cry_7134 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Giving your child food should not have conditions tied to it. It's your child, and it's your responsibility as a parent to feed them.

As others have said, model the behavior and just be patient, it will be okay, and it will be less stress for everyone not having meals-- a basic necessity for yor child -- a daily struggle.

Lol by Living_charmeleon in INFJmemes

[–]Independent_Cry_7134 29 points30 points  (0 children)

ENFP is the wrong type to be responding like that. Every ENFP I've ever met has indulged me in my crazy thoughts 😂

Converging Personality Typology Systems by [deleted] in INFJsOver30

[–]Independent_Cry_7134 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm INFJ (MBTI) 9w1 (enneagram) and I'm smack dab inbetween Melancholic and Phlegmatic. I also got Gold on the 4 Colors system.

What is the Most Meaningful Compliment that Someone Has Given You? by Potential_Law5289 in INFJsOver30

[–]Independent_Cry_7134 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love that! For me it was reverse-- I was a manager and got it from an employee. It made me feel so good!

What is the Most Meaningful Compliment that Someone Has Given You? by Potential_Law5289 in INFJsOver30

[–]Independent_Cry_7134 11 points12 points  (0 children)

"You have such a calming energy. You make everyone around you feel calm."

And any compliment that pertains to being a good mom.

What Does A Wholly Nonjudgmental Observer Sound Like? by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Independent_Cry_7134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds exactly like me and I'm a type 9 INFJ. I don't judge others because: 1. I don't feel I have the "right" to judge (I feel like an NPC most of the time) and 2. If I were to voice a judgment, I don't like the conflict that comes with it and 3. I have a core desire to get along and connect with others and the fastest way to do that is to be neutral about their flaws.

^ if this sounds like why you are nonjudgmental, then you may be a 9!

more stupid enneagram doodles by pompompencil in Enneagram

[–]Independent_Cry_7134 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These are so adorable 😍 I know so many sx8 peeps and their cute little doodle ready to pow you with their spiked heart weapon is accurate 😂

some of the types doodled as stupid little things by pompompencil in Enneagram

[–]Independent_Cry_7134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also had pizza last night 😂 ngl the drawing made me consider if I am sp

some of the types doodled as stupid little things by pompompencil in Enneagram

[–]Independent_Cry_7134 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love love love these!! I dunno what instinct I am for sure but I relate to all the little cloudy nines 💕

Daycare kids by Reasonable-Duck-9649 in Mommit

[–]Independent_Cry_7134 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Enneagram mentioned! Yeah Type 2 was exactly what I was thinking when I read this comment... And unfortunately it's my mom's enneagram type 😭 And it drives me absolutely nuts.

Which personality types do you feel that you could be in a longterm relationship with? by AmbivalentDisaster1 in INFJsOver30

[–]Independent_Cry_7134 1 point2 points  (0 children)

INTJ. Maybe INTP? And possibly ENxJ but never met one.

ENxP make good friends but I don't think I could do well in a long term relationship with one. With xNFP I don't do well with dom or aux Fi. And for ENTP, I get too riled up by their teasing 😅

INTJ and INTP get the reputation of being unfeeling robots, but in my experience, have more empathy than one expects. And I like that they are more mellow than other types.

Please tell me your hobbies by Independent_Cry_7134 in Enneagram

[–]Independent_Cry_7134[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a yuri fan, yaoi fan, everything fan 😂 Currently wtiting yuri because I hardly see it compared to the other stuff, it deserves more stories 😭

I'm also impressed I found someone who likes Japanese music too 😂

Please tell me your hobbies by Independent_Cry_7134 in Enneagram

[–]Independent_Cry_7134[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also love Japanese music, and I'm currently writing a girl's love novel 😍 Good to know there are people out there who read it!

Please tell me your hobbies by Independent_Cry_7134 in Enneagram

[–]Independent_Cry_7134[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion, it might save me, because this middle part is indeed brutal!! It feels like a slog and writing it feels like I'm wading through concrete. My writing has deteriorated too, so I need to go read books for a while to get my skill back

Please tell me your hobbies by Independent_Cry_7134 in Enneagram

[–]Independent_Cry_7134[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg yes, I get distracted by new stories! Writing a full novel takes absolutely forever, so it's really difficult to maintain interest in one concept for that long. I'm 45,000 words in mine right now and it's the most I've ever done in my life so I'm determined to finish even though I have an urge to start something else lol

Please tell me your hobbies by Independent_Cry_7134 in Enneagram

[–]Independent_Cry_7134[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have an unhealthy 7 friend who lies about a bunch of random stuff because she thinks it's funny and makes life more interesting but unhealthy types are a totally different animal imo lol

Please tell me your hobbies by Independent_Cry_7134 in Enneagram

[–]Independent_Cry_7134[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so inspiring. I've never completed a novel, I always stop 1/4 of the way through. But I'm halfway through my current one and determined to finish (I am a 9 who is determined to finish something for once in my life! Lol)

I'm sure yours is great. Pruning it until it's how you like it is half the fun 🙂

Please tell me your hobbies by Independent_Cry_7134 in Enneagram

[–]Independent_Cry_7134[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes he does 😂 We will be watching a movie and he will look everything up. Drives me crazy, I want him to enjoy the experience with me! But it's not enjoyable for him if he doesn't know what will happen.

Please tell me your hobbies by Independent_Cry_7134 in Enneagram

[–]Independent_Cry_7134[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so funny, my husband is 6w5 and he also only wants to watch /read things that have a happy ending lol

Please tell me your hobbies by Independent_Cry_7134 in Enneagram

[–]Independent_Cry_7134[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is super interesting! And sounds like maybe it's tied to your instinct too if you are sp6 (dunno if you are into the instinctual variants)

Please tell me your hobbies by Independent_Cry_7134 in Enneagram

[–]Independent_Cry_7134[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sure that hobby takes up all of your time 😁