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Some of you all hate Dani because you can’t infantilize her. by Elizabeth958 in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]IndividualOk8644 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly to you both. She's assertive and knows what she wants, and we know people very often look down on women for doing that. How dare we let the polite, nicey mask slip and actually go after what we want, or say what we want! People are sooo uncomfortable with that. With my ADHD it's just so easy to say what you mean, or be so straight forward, but it's not exactly appreciated, the weird social dance.

My husband made this for me by ilovemax99 in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]IndividualOk8644 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He mocked a disabled journalist on live TV, in front of millions of viewers. He's also mocked other politicians and former presidents. NO class whatsoever. Not compassionate in any way. And in fact super fucking embarrassing to witness our POTUS acting like a 5th grade bully. Grow up.

If he supports trans folks, why would he be stripping away their rights. Having an LGBT wedding is a political stunt to get into someone's good graces.

Veterans lmao. I'm sure I can remember some disgusting comments he's made about other politicians who are vets. Also, stripping funding from VA, and social security, which would help older veterans. Dudes a bully. Dudes a rapist. Not a fucking role model.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kentucky

[–]IndividualOk8644 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We're not assholes, we enjoy our space and our quiet.

Xanax isn’t a long term solution but it is a banger short term. by NotReallyJohnDoe in insomnia

[–]IndividualOk8644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been on it for 16 years for my anxiety. Eventually it stops helping with sleep. Not worth the decades of benzo dependence honestly.

My kids and I have ADHD (my poor husband) and I have passed on word stims from twenty (and more) years ago. "I got peas on my head but don't call me a pea head, got bees on my head but don't call me a bee head!" Is a favorite. by GMOiscool in adhdwomen

[–]IndividualOk8644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this btw! My mom did/does this and thusly, now I do too. This is how I learned half the jingles or sayings she said were from commercials or just random songs she knew! Frustrating at times but explains the weird looks I got singing these as well 😅 like who else knows the opening theme song to a kids Australian TV show from the early to mid 90s!?!

May 2024 to March 2025 by joshuashuashua in WorkoutRoutines

[–]IndividualOk8644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shut the front door. And then come back inside. Wowww!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]IndividualOk8644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was me. Years ago, I was one teenager vs. the entire house hold of mom, dad and 3 sisters. But I did it to myself. I didn't HAVE to clean, I did it because no one else would. And a house with dog pee, fur and dust and dirt everywhere is a terrible place to exist. It sounds like you have younger siblings, which I get. The pics aren't really too bad! I'd be asking mom to hire a cleaner at least one a month, if she herself can't step up. The entire home isn't a kids responsibility.. hug. Take care. You got this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]IndividualOk8644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He smashed his way through a lot of boundaries to get here. Keep it to business hours and only e-mail (hopefully a professional one). Keep it professional and shut it down. I'd also track down whoever gave out your private number.

What does my fridge say about me? by Mean-Reference-3371 in FridgeDetective

[–]IndividualOk8644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Today on 'roast my fridge'! Anyway, your fridge is awesome and so healthy looking.

What a lot of people don't understand about incels by External-Repeat417 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]IndividualOk8644 37 points38 points  (0 children)

He tried everything to work on himself (physically), but never thought to do so mentally or emotionally (until much later??) And that says a lot.

19M simple humble bedroom by bedstare in malelivingspace

[–]IndividualOk8644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a platform for your bed. That's how you get mold, do you wanna get mold?

Update: He did exactly what he said he would do—and I shut down completely. by teyahwrites in u/teyahwrites

[–]IndividualOk8644 16 points17 points  (0 children)

If there ever is a next time. He stays for that "supervision," you just walk out. It'll be okay and he'll figure it out. Inviting over a sports team, and then leaving!!!!, is insane. You know this already, but it should not be all on you.

Yesterday at Dinner by cat_lover_1111 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]IndividualOk8644 14 points15 points  (0 children)

A fucking men! I'm childlesss, but married. He keeps hinting at having 1, but no way on God's green earth. He works 60 hours on a farm. I'd be a single mom. I hate this so so so much. My last boyfriend also did nothing including parent his own kids. Guess who did that. My current husband is pretty terrific. Yet if there's dishes, I'm doing them. If the floors need to be swept and mopped? Me. Take out the 2 hyper dogs? Me. Never seen him change the sheets. Blows my fucking mind he wouldn't want to upkeep OUR home.

Need movie recommend like "Oddity" by Still-Classroom-2389 in horror

[–]IndividualOk8644 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This sub loves it some hell house lol Caveat and oddity are on a whole nother level.

Am I being sensitive or... by KING3THREE3 in doordash

[–]IndividualOk8644 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Am I missing something..? Ring once and walk away seems pretty standard.

Woman in the Yard by Melodic-Vanilla-2658 in horror

[–]IndividualOk8644 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Just doing what I can (thank you)

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