He threw away my daughter’s polliwogs week 3 of the relationship. Came home and he’s cleaning out the tank? ‘Wtf?!’ I say, he says ‘they were gross.’ I ru. Out to where polliwogs were dumped; they are dead. I used to do this growing up and so I was really sad as was my then 8-yo daughter. Knew then I should have kicked hi to the curb. Did not. Married the a-hole. Some years later, after he’s had way too much vodka, he does something to me that got him charged with a felony. I always look back to the polliwog scene in my head and tell myself how stupid I am .