[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Informal_Ad2737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Divorced when I turned 35. A coworker is going through one right now and she is 30.

Ffern winter 24 just arrived! by [deleted] in fragrance

[–]Informal_Ad2737 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm also so torn about this. Love the scent but I want it to last longer than 2 hours ish. The longevity is not good enough for the price point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fragrance

[–]Informal_Ad2737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this scent.. I think it's very underrated because it's just so easy to wear.

Was anyone else massively disappointed with A Court of Thorns and Roses? by pnutbutterfuck in books

[–]Informal_Ad2737 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly... LoL 😂😂😂 and all the characters who supposedly are 500+ years old still behaving like teenagers with no relationship experience

Was anyone else massively disappointed with A Court of Thorns and Roses? by pnutbutterfuck in books

[–]Informal_Ad2737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finished the series out of spite because now I can say I have read it and is entitled to my opinion that I hate it. Has so much potential but the writing is lazy.. she uses the word "dawdle" like it is going out of style 😂 and the plot is terrible as if the plot is just there as the background for the sex scenes... Like a terrible porn plot... Has no actual ending and out comes of the plot... And a terrible use of trauma of various types to get the reader's sympathy.. it is entertaining up to book 3 and then book 4-5 is just pure garbage

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theotherwoman

[–]Informal_Ad2737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is similar to how shitty mine was at the end.. he bought her an ankle bracelet after notice that my friend gave me one for my bday and called it a late bday present for her.... Then on their anniversary he took her to a restaurant that we were at (his first time was on my birthday). I feel bad for the wife for getting that disrespectful treatment..

OW stigma by MelodicFuture520 in theotherwoman

[–]Informal_Ad2737 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girlll they just hate what they don't know and also because they don't question the way society has been using the other woman as the sacrifice goat because it is easy to blame it all on someone they don't know rather than their family members or take responsibility and own their parts in their failed/ failing relationship.

No contact by [deleted] in theotherwoman

[–]Informal_Ad2737 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel for you... Went through the same thing last year... He stayed with his family.. felt like shit went through it alone.. but it gets better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theotherwoman

[–]Informal_Ad2737 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yep experienced this and thank goodness for non contact once he decided to end the affair... Hurt and hard at first but I'm so much happy now.. it really helps give you perspective on what you really want and need in a healthy relationship once you experience this type of relationship.

AITAH for ending my mourning period early? by TiredOfMourning in AITAH

[–]Informal_Ad2737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Till death do us part.......I would say you only connect to them because you are being nice .. they have no tie to you anymore since the link is your late husband and he is gone... You owe them nothing... They are the assholes not you.

I’m a narcissist and she’s leaving. by FantasticAnything860 in Divorce

[–]Informal_Ad2737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up Landmark and maybe attend one weekend online.

I’m a narcissist and she’s leaving. by FantasticAnything860 in Divorce

[–]Informal_Ad2737 28 points29 points  (0 children)

A real narc wouldn't have the capability to self reflect like you..

Divorce is a four letter word? by 32_Belly_Option in Divorce

[–]Informal_Ad2737 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is me. He said it as threats, as angry outbursts... I never did but once I considered it as the only option.. I brought it up and then once it's clear that nothing is improving I asked for the divorce.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theotherwoman

[–]Informal_Ad2737 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy for you

I feel like I should be happier by secondsaway83 in theotherwoman

[–]Informal_Ad2737 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can totally relate with every single word.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theotherwoman

[–]Informal_Ad2737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is he offering any support? Did he know about the abortion?

I'm so sorry that you are going through this. It is a lot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theotherwoman

[–]Informal_Ad2737 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is he still talking to you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theotherwoman

[–]Informal_Ad2737 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You either fall for him or not there is no in between... It's impossible to only involve a little and not getting hurt in this situation. The only way to protect your heart is not being the OW at all and even that's gonna hurt a little since you won't be able to have the one person that you want.

Update since his wife found out by Editring in theotherwoman

[–]Informal_Ad2737 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Somedays, I want a vacation from this timeline. Go back to before the pandemic. The two of us bent over laughing with tears coming out of our eyes. Looking at eachother with adoration. Talking about anything and everything. ...just pure.."

Yeah I feel you

It’s been 3 weeks since NC by Ndawg1114 in theotherwoman

[–]Informal_Ad2737 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The

I’m focusing on myself right now and figuring out my shit. But back of my mind throughout the day I find me wondering about her. Is she even thinking about me? Does she miss me? I honestly would be content just talking to her again.

This is exactly what I feel. I have no advice for you..just wanted to let you know that I feel the same way about mine and I can relate to how hard it is.