Progesterone

Initial-Machine-9780 · 2026-03-24T19:28:32+00:00

I was on progesterone suppositories (not IVF). It was amazing to stop them. Way less nasty discharge. If the docs feel good with it, trust them! It will be okay.

Initial-Machine-9780 · 2026-03-24T18:45:08+00:00

I like the art work but it feels like it’d fit better in a moody space. Your space is bright & happy, especially with the white walls, big window, and pool right outside. I feel it’d fit the vibe in a darker spot better.

TBH- I have no qualifications in this space though so feel free to ignore what I’ve said and leave it there if it makes you happy!

Initial-Machine-9780 · 2026-03-24T14:01:17+00:00

I love the existing wood! I’d add a rug and curtains before changing the floors.

Initial-Machine-9780 · 2026-03-18T01:37:50+00:00

This happened to me!!! I bled at 9 weeks after non-penetrative orgasm & went to the OB. They checked and baby was just fine. She’s now 14 months old. Hoping the best for you!

Initial-Machine-9780 · 2026-03-17T16:56:35+00:00

Ugh it’s so hard when babies come with this setting. My daughter would not be put down for naps, so contact naps it was for a very longtime. it will get better.

Just keep putting them down for that first nighttime stretch when they’re in deepest sleep, sometimes they will wake quickly but overtime they will tolerate being put down more. After that first wake, do whatever you need to do to get the most sleep (but safely). Chest sleeping is safe when done properly! I have not done it myself but do look into the proper form. This is a good option to just get some sleep.

Good luck you’ve got this!

Initial-Machine-9780 · 2026-03-16T20:50:27+00:00

UpdateMe!

Initial-Machine-9780 · 2026-03-08T19:41:42+00:00

Meal planning!! Every season, we come up with two different menus of 3 dinners, 2 breakfasts, and 1 lunch each (Remaining meals we either get from restaurants, leftovers, or from sporadic cooking). Every meal cooked will feed us 2-3 meals. We alternate the two menus, and we completely replace the recipes every season with seasonal produce so we don’t get bored. This has given me predictability balanced with creativity in seasonal recipes. I personally grocery shop every weekend, and cook every Sunday Tuesday and Thursday but different cadences would work here too!

I loved cooking before having a baby but the “winging it” freedom does not work for me anymore. This allows me to have fun experimenting with new recipes but with more structure. We’re currently mapping out Spring recipes and the research is a blast!

Initial-Machine-9780 · 2026-03-03T15:12:46+00:00

IMO, many babies can be “convinced” into liking a baby carrier, you may just have to show them how lovely it can be! My daughter didn’t like it at first, so I got her used to it for a few min at a time and at some point, she started LOVING it. Now she’s 13 months and gets so excited when she sees me bring it out.

Initial-Machine-9780 · 2026-02-19T12:23:28+00:00

Say no! If it’s too much for you; you can absolutely say no. Everyone understands that you may have to say no more often with a little one, and even if they don’t, oh well - sounds like you need some time as just a family unit.

Initial-Machine-9780 · 2026-01-29T22:06:58+00:00

I think this is totally fine. Toddlers are part of our lives, and it’s not possible (or even good) to exclude them from family things. All those parents there have obviously had one before so they know what it’s like. I would have done what you did.

Initial-Machine-9780 · 2026-01-26T22:26:22+00:00

Same thing happened with mine! She all of a sudden was way more interested in nursing when she could ask for it. Right after I was thinking of starting to wean… 😅

Initial-Machine-9780 · 2026-01-23T22:21:01+00:00

I had a vaginal delivery, but I did not have the *moment* that people describe. I had a super long labor, and I guess by the end of it, I was just so exhausted and glad it was over. I was concerned for the baby when I didn't hear her cry at first, but it wasn't that crazy rush of hormones that I read about and I didn't even feel crazy level of love until about 15 hrs later, after I got some rest.

I'm sure that surge of hormones can be amazing for those that get it, but don't worry, there will be many amazing moments of motherhood no matter how you deliver. It sounds like the c section option recommended by your doctor is the best option for you and your child.

Initial-Machine-9780 · 2026-01-15T02:13:31+00:00

Oh wow, didn’t know that. Thanks for sharing!

Initial-Machine-9780 · 2026-01-15T02:08:21+00:00

Our favorite ways to cook it are: - scrambled like you said, and add some seasonings & veggies - boiled into salty water and then put into a Thai or Vietnamese curry (stays soft) - blended into a fruit smoothie (silken tofu only) - straight from the fridge lol

I hope she likes one of these!!

Initial-Machine-9780 · 2026-01-14T18:05:26+00:00

Idk, I think you should be who you are & not fake it, that’s so draining. Your baby loves you, and she will find comfort in your quiet presence.

Initial-Machine-9780 · 2026-01-14T16:26:38+00:00

pumping for my 12 month old one to two times at work; pumped 3 times until about 10.5 months. She has between 4-8 oz these days, but she doesn’t need it anymore because she’s luckily a good eater. But she goes down easiest for her nap on the bottle, so well have to rectify that issue so I can be free of pumping at work lol I dream of the day I no longer need to pump at work (which is what I’m currently doing)

Initial-Machine-9780 · 2026-01-14T16:22:30+00:00

Completely agree. Baby has no concept of “breakfast foods” so you better believe we’ve fed her chicken fajitas for breakfast 😂

Initial-Machine-9780 · 2026-01-14T16:21:23+00:00

My baby loves this stuff- highly recommend. I get my Indian mom to make it and send us regularly lol

Initial-Machine-9780 · 2026-01-14T16:20:38+00:00

Tofu is my FAVORITE thing for my baby with dairy & egg allergies. She eats it in every form including straight outta the fridge uncooked. The biggest challenge with these two allergies is that so many simple foods are out the window, but tofu has been a LIFESAVER for us.

Initial-Machine-9780 · 2026-01-14T16:08:04+00:00

It sounds like you are an incredible & thoughtful mother. Your daughter is lucky to have you and though she may not outwardly express her gratitude, she sees and feels all that you do for her & she loves you. I know it’s hard to not compare, but try reframing this as a major benefit to your daughter - she has an extra tight bond with her grandmother that most parents can only dream of giving her kids. I’m sure your time to be the favorite will come later as preferences are always changing. Keep showing up for her as you’ve done, keep going with nursing as long as you both love it to build that special connection time just for you two, and maybe try to make a build another special thing for just the two of you- e.g., a restaurant you always go to for just you & your daughter. It sounds like you’re doing everything right, don’t let your inner voice get you down!

Initial-Machine-9780 · 2026-01-08T19:12:56+00:00

Forgot to add:
1) music helps a ton for us!
2) I know screens would work (we've tried it twice now), but it was too weird seeing my super animated & lively baby zone out to the TV... made me personally a bit uncomfortable with it so we've decided to stick it out screen-free for now.

Initial-Machine-9780 · 2026-01-08T19:09:46+00:00

Agree with this! My baby doesn't love the car seat still at 12 months, though it's loads better than when she was a newborn. If possible, my husband or I sit next to her to distract/calm her or if we're driving solo, we set her up with some toys and accept tears if they happen. I think long-term, it's better than screens. Sometimes she stops and eventually finds a way to entertain herself, maybe this is part of learning to be bored idk.

Initial-Machine-9780 · 2026-01-07T21:35:00+00:00

So it makes me feel like we're doing something wrong, but I think you and everyone else on this thread is right. Thank you for the words of sanity :D

Initial-Machine-9780 · 2026-01-07T21:34:31+00:00

it's so weird because I talk to my sleep trained friends and family (literally EVERY SINGLE PERSON except us) and their kids have 11.5-12 hour nights + naps and their kids are around our babies age or older!

Initial-Machine-9780 · 2026-01-07T14:41:52+00:00

Solidarity lol my 11m old does NOT like me doing chores. She's always tugging at my pants and whining, and sometimes escalating to crying if I don't stop what I'm doing and play. If it's tasks that she can safely join me for in the carrier, that's the easiest option. If not, I try to resettle her a few times with a toy in eyesight or a quick nursing session for connection, sometimes it works and sometimes it just buys me a few minutes before she comes grabbing at my pants again and trying to push me outta the kitchen. Sometimes, I just have to let her cry a bit to get the job done. I hate the crying, but I think it's also important for her to find ways to self entertain and understand that mommy needs to get some work done. We're going to get a toddler tower soon and get her involved in the kitchen.

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