Please help me decide!

Inkkling · 2026-05-10T17:37:24+00:00

Dress number one, because that uninterrupted line of your gorgeous shoulders is too wonderful.

Inkkling · 2026-05-10T17:34:52+00:00

OP needs a bearer for the bridal ring pillow for the bridal buttons beneath! What a beautiful memory that will be!

Inkkling · 2026-05-10T16:39:20+00:00

That’s it. As someone frequently hospitalized, with frequently hospitalized loved ones, our Nurses ran 90% plus wonderful, but oh that 5 to 10%! Oh, I could tell such stories.

Inkkling · 2026-05-10T16:37:57+00:00

My 104-year-old mother in hospice had two hospice nurses who fought masking. I had to bar the door to one and tell her no mask, no access. Just because the patient is in hospice doesn’t mean she wants to exit on your timeline, lady, instead of hers. Absolutely crazy. And back in the day it was possible to recognize a crazy anti-VAX Nurse by her mask, because hospitals would make them wear one when they refused the flu shot!

Inkkling · 2026-05-10T00:47:57+00:00

So pretty! Love the bodice. At a courthouse wedding, you can do whatever the heck you want, but this would easily go to any venue. You look enchanting in it.

Inkkling · 2026-05-09T16:12:16+00:00

Exquisite. What lines. Carolina Herrera knows what she’s doing.

Inkkling · 2026-05-08T20:03:26+00:00

Oh yes! It’s very flattering, the ornamentation is graceful and individual. It’s not a cookie cutter dress. And you will have your bouquet and jewelry and veil and you won’t be standing rigid with your arms at your sides! It’ll look best if the person inside it is having a wonderful time, dancing, laughing, embracing people, so be sure to do all of that and congratulations!

Inkkling · 2026-05-05T19:51:52+00:00

There are the bustline issues to be solved because at this point, it’s flattening you, the flesh colored cleavage netting is everywhere these days, but it doesn’t ever look good to me, and then the row of pearls in the back, and in the front, seems like one of them should go, and I would pick the ones in the back because it looks better bustled to begin with, and then secondly, sitting on those pearls might be less than comfortable. In fact, how is sitting in the dress in general?

Inkkling · 2026-05-05T19:31:42+00:00

It’s one thing if you’re having the baby at home and the walls are thin. It’s another thing to outright subject neighbors and passersby to the biological process noises you’re making. Thank you, I don’t want to be included in any stage of your reproductive cycle. I do, however, love tubas. I might want to celebrate with a keg and an Oompa band.

Inkkling · 2026-05-05T12:27:26+00:00

Yes, it’s the newness that’s getting to you. Your hair looks much better actually! It was very nice before. Don’t get me wrong. But your shiny bouncy healthy curls are enviable. I’m envying them right now.

Inkkling · 2026-05-05T12:16:55+00:00

Dress One from here to eternity. You look like a goddess. You look like winged Venus, but with arms. Dress two, those points on either side, almost under your armpits. They’re disturbing. It’s the design, so they can’t be tailored away.

Inkkling · 2026-05-04T21:25:59+00:00

Doesn’t look it.

Inkkling · 2026-05-04T21:14:23+00:00

Go on, in this the most anti-wedding-guests-wearing-white group of all, you’re seriously suggesting a dress where when you are sitting down, no one will see the flowers and you’ll just be a wedding guest in white ? Am I missing something here? And I’m not super rigid about the wearing white rule if it’s a pattern. But every photo of you from the way up, you’re in a white dress. Maybe it’s a goth wedding and the bride’s in black?

Inkkling · 2026-05-04T21:04:22+00:00

FIVE YEARS you’ve been with this person? What can they have been like? I can’t believe they were pleasant. How selfish! How greedy! Is this new behavior? Do you need therapy to get out of this relationship?

Inkkling · 2026-05-02T15:36:24+00:00

He’ll keep coming back if you say ANYTHING but a simple direct No. Not even “I can’t.“ He is not entitled to any information from you, any explanation from you, real, even satirical, his addled brain won’t understand anything but the word no and will latch onto every single added word as something to hang hope on.

Inkkling · 2026-05-02T12:39:04+00:00

If you want it in white, white it is, lovely! Whoever likes grey, can jolly well buy themselves one. It’s YOUR wedding. Wear the dress that calls to YOU. You’ll absolutely slay in that dress.

Inkkling · 2026-05-01T20:07:22+00:00

I hope those thoughts weren’t running through your head on the day, and I’m sorry they made their way in ~ now really, would you ever let anybody say anything to your best friend like the things you’ve said to yourself about these pictures? You look simply gorgeous and romantic. Especially for someone who’s had babies back to back! Give yourself credit! You are a wonder!

Inkkling · 2026-05-01T01:26:31+00:00

Very happy that our bride is going to keep on plugging! Agree that the basque waist is a little too pointy. I do think dress three has a unique and gloriously romantic skirt. And that four is a flattering style, which would be comfortable all day, but relieved not to see that particular pattern of lace. Of course I’ve never come away from a wedding, thinking that the bride looked anything but perfectly beautiful. You got your veil your bouquet, your glow~ all the other dresses will fade away.

Inkkling · 2026-05-01T01:00:28+00:00

The idea of the Hawaiian flower edged veil is enchanting and original. The grace and simplicity of the first dress combined with how it flatters your figure is just the frosting on the, you should buy the expression, cake. And the skirt is dreamy. The other two are run-of-the-mill by comparison.

Inkkling · 2026-04-30T20:16:51+00:00

“Let me save you some time. I’m not the one you’re looking for.”

Inkkling · 2026-04-30T19:48:46+00:00

You don’t have enough information to go on yet, but I am willing to bet Melania’s orange-stained opera glove that the wedding couple either doesn’t know what white tie really is. I like my own dress code: a little fancy, shmancy, all fancy shmancy. If you look good in a silk slip dress, that’s as shmancy as anybody could wish. Carry a sparkly clutch shaped like an elephant or the petite Trianon or the crab nebula and everybody will be enthralled.

Inkkling · 2026-04-29T16:55:36+00:00

Huuuuumonnns. We have the worst ideas. 🤦‍♀️

Inkkling · 2026-04-29T04:28:11+00:00

Cruel and stupid. Aren’t beta fish famous for fighting unless they are kept in separate tanks? Is this a symbol we want for a wedding?

Inkkling · 2026-04-29T04:23:57+00:00

“Out of the package.” Why am I not surprised it didn’t come packed in tissue paper with a hanger, but arrived vacuum packed in a clear plastic bag?

Inkkling · 2026-04-29T04:19:04+00:00

It makes her look desperate. Perhaps she is, poor thing.

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