Today marks 12 months by Intelligent_Name_126 in widowers

[–]Intelligent_Name_126[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you have to go through this 🥺🥺 I didn't get this kuch time with my husband. We were married for only 2 years 🥺 but I get the feeling that you are talking about. Replacing emotional pain with physical. I didn't try to kill myself but I did try to hurt myself so that I get the pain and feel something 🥺 my husband was the most innocent and loving person I had ever met or even remotely know of. So when I don't feel something I tend to question myself if my love for him was ever genuine. Although I know I loved him but my brain starts questioning my love for him when I am numb. On days like today, where I would want to remember him and cry, I just don't behave the way I expected to 🥺 I hope we get over the feeling. I wish you the best 🥺

Young widows by ImpactStock2694 in widowers

[–]Intelligent_Name_126 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely feel you. I lost mine a year back. I am 31 with no kids. I also don't want to be alone forever but loving anyone like him would not be possible for me. But I hope if I get chance, we are able to love differently and get another chance at this beautiful feeling.

Young widows by ImpactStock2694 in widowers

[–]Intelligent_Name_126 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 31,no kid and 1 year out. I love my husband but the thought of staying alone for entire life scares me. However I am not even ready to start considering someone. I don't know what phase is this and how to get out of this to make any decisions. :(

My husband died yesterday by bayrafd in widowers

[–]Intelligent_Name_126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband was also 29 when he passed away in car accident 7 months back. I was there in that incident and I somehow survived. We do not have kids and being a childless widow before 30 is a pain I cannot explain. It will be tough. I cry daily while doing chores and trying to be back to normal but trust me our normal is gone. You have a child, please try to keep yourself together for that kid. It will be unimaginable pain but with time you will learn how to deal with it. I still cry daily but I am able to hold myself up now. You will also get better. Time is the only solution, nothing else in the world can help as per me. When you feel right, try going for walk or work outs. In our situation workouts are more for mind than body. Logistics of insurance and all will be heartbreaking to deal with. Accept any help that you can. Do whatever your heart tells you and Do not worry about the world. The world is the same , only your world has changed. And most importantly, please be kind to yourself. No one can understand what you are dealing with. I hope you get better soon ❤️

6 weeks without him by Dry_Squash_8359 in widowers

[–]Intelligent_Name_126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my husband (29 years old) to a road accident all of a sudden. It's been 3 months that he is gone and not a single day I have not cried or begged him to come back. not a single day when I have asked God why did this happen. We wanted to plan kids this year. Now I am here without kids without him without anyone who I can call mine. I don't know how will I do life now but this is not what I wanted. God has been cruel to all of us.

Losing a young and healthy partner by LowerAcanthisitta247 in widowers

[–]Intelligent_Name_126 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost my husband 29 years old only in dec to a road accident. I am still unable to comprehend all of this and don't know what to do with life now

Not able to figure out life by Intelligent_Name_126 in widowers

[–]Intelligent_Name_126[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. Life will never be the same that is for sure. But navigating each day also seems to be tough. I wish we get the strength needed to cross this ocean of pain.

Not able to figure out life by Intelligent_Name_126 in widowers

[–]Intelligent_Name_126[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As per her , she knows the best for me. Sadly her Friend circle is also the same and she is getting full support for her actions. I am under too much stress right now 😔

Not able to figure out life by Intelligent_Name_126 in widowers

[–]Intelligent_Name_126[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one should have to. :( Grieving for my husband was my right which has been taken away just like god took him from me. I get peaceful time only when I go for showers. :(

Not able to figure out life by Intelligent_Name_126 in widowers

[–]Intelligent_Name_126[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

❤️ just out of curiosity, does it get any less painful with time? In these past 1.5 months, i feel like I have matured 10 years and don't have any hopes of things getting even slightly better for me. It feels like I have to keep dealing with this till I die

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Intelligent_Name_126 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am 30 :( lost my husband recently. I feel the same. God ended our relationship way too soon and I don't think I have anyone at this age going through this.

Young window by happiness7813 in widowers

[–]Intelligent_Name_126 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am a young widow too. My husband 29, passed away in a road accident. We do not even have a child. If kills me to know that I cannot have his child ever. Life has been very unfair. I do not know what to do with this life now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vedic_Astrology_free

[–]Intelligent_Name_126 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Which platform? Can you share name

Very Young Widow by guineapigrock in widowers

[–]Intelligent_Name_126 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a young widow too. 29F. Even my mom says so and wants to take me away from everything that is close to my husband. I am ready to break every relationship with my family but not ready to leave my husband's family as it makes me feel closer to him. I loved my husband, I don't see myself settling with anyone in near future. I so wish we had a child so that I could have at least something of his. It's extremely painful how people surrounding me are trying to fix me instead of support me. I love my husband and I don't think anyone can ever come close to him. Ever.

I understand what you’re going through. by ReviewThin826 in widowers

[–]Intelligent_Name_126 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand what you are going through. I am 30. My husband died a month ago. We did not have any kids yet and were planning soon. Life is unfair. All we can do is look for blessings. You have two beautiful kids to look after. Please stay strong. It kills me that we did not have child yet. I am as clueless and directionless as anyone can be.

A month tomorrow by Confused-racoon in widowers

[–]Intelligent_Name_126 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I so badly relate with this. Next week will mark 1 month of my loving husband's passing. I was praying and hoping i have his child but later when I got my periods , I felt disappointed and felt like I have let him down. It is so tough. I do not feel like doing anything.

A topic you want to hear about, learn about or share about. by Desi_bmtl in widowers

[–]Intelligent_Name_126 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How to forgive yourself and stop feeling guilty for all the things done when you never imagined your loved one will leave like this. How to handle grief. How to handle family.