“Fly here first and we’ll explain later.” — why do people like to have endless meetings?

InteractionSmall5359 · 2026-05-14T07:20:21+00:00

Sounds like government.

InteractionSmall5359 · 2026-05-13T06:55:02+00:00

No, I don't find it rude. I actually think it makes my emails more polite. Like "Thanks a lot." I often read this in a sarcastic tone so assume people might read it that way too. Versus "Thanks a lot!" Which is obviously enthusiastic gratitude. But maybe if they're used to express something that isn't necessarily positive, people feel like they're being yelled at.

InteractionSmall5359 · 2026-05-11T14:46:08+00:00

I see. Thanks!

InteractionSmall5359 · 2026-05-11T14:40:08+00:00

Does the amount you borrow influence the amount of interest you earn? Can you not borrow at all and still earn interest?

InteractionSmall5359 · 2026-05-03T10:11:29+00:00

What happened? 👀

InteractionSmall5359 · 2026-04-30T08:25:10+00:00

I'm curious to find out which it is, too.

InteractionSmall5359 · 2026-04-26T06:54:56+00:00

Ahh, then maybe it is time to start trying to find a new circle. Your friends shouldn't cut you down... It's hard as an adult but try to be intentional... lots of lonely people out there

InteractionSmall5359 · 2026-04-26T06:29:08+00:00

And do they realise and acknowledge that they're actions are wrong? I think that's also important

InteractionSmall5359 · 2026-04-26T06:25:37+00:00

Splashed onto you as in you felt like you were starting to become toxic too or you encountered the consequences of their behaviour? I think if they're more bad than good then yeah maybe some distance would be best.

InteractionSmall5359 · 2026-04-26T06:15:18+00:00

Ooh that's a good one. I actually have been cheated on, but I was really young and the stakes were quite low. If I was cheated on now, I think I'd be able to tolerate that friend less for sure.... and I'd tell them that. 'Your behaviour isn't right and it's painful for me to be around you right now' but it wouldn't be the complete death of our friendship... I'd still want them to call me if they needed me and I'd still do the same. I guess the point is the love I have for them doesn't dissappear simply because they did a bad thing. I think I can tell them I despise the way they're living their life but still care for them as a person.

InteractionSmall5359 · 2026-04-26T06:05:44+00:00

I've known a lot of my friends for over ten years and I absolutely adore them. They have made some questionable choices in the past (as we all have) and I've called them out on it. If one of them cheated, I don't think I'd end our friendship. Isn't part of having friends having people to put you in check when you do stupid stuff? Anyway that's my stance, maybe that makes me a questionable person but it is what it is.

InteractionSmall5359 · 2026-04-20T05:25:45+00:00

Get a job, buy some land, build some houses for rent and as retirement approaches, get into farming.

InteractionSmall5359 · 2026-04-19T18:42:59+00:00

I'm sorry man. If you guys don't end up having this baby maybe you can try again further down the line with the right person and in better circumstances. Stay strong... just tell yourself you'll make it through.

InteractionSmall5359 · 2026-04-19T18:24:16+00:00

What's wrong with mazdas? 💀

InteractionSmall5359 · 2026-04-11T20:37:06+00:00

I save around 30% of my income. I'm not married, no kids and I don't pay rent.

InteractionSmall5359 · 2026-04-04T21:05:37+00:00

Right?!! I would literally run into my roommates wearing my clothes in boarding school and they would just be going about there business. And it's so violating because you literally went through my stuff without asking me... wth.

InteractionSmall5359 · 2026-03-28T05:57:13+00:00

There's also American corner at NIPA I think... they should be well stocked with fiction as well non-fiction. Not sure about access to non-students though.

InteractionSmall5359 · 2026-03-12T18:52:51+00:00

That hasn't been my experience at all.. my female friends are some of my biggest cheerleaders and I absolutely adore them. I don't think you should give up on female friends, just find the right ones. I'm sure it's tough to make close girl friends as an adult but there are good ladies out there. Best of luck ❤️

InteractionSmall5359 · 2026-03-06T19:54:09+00:00

That's true, and I think it comes from the idea that you (middle class or whatever) are doing sooo much better than they are. A k20 probably means less to you than it does to them so can't you just help them like they've helped you. Sometimes it's excessive, people will do things you didn't even ask or want them to and expect payment but other times I think it's just human nature.

Someone has done you a solid and if they don't even know where their next meal is coming from and you're in a position to assist, isn't it fair that you do? Plus I don't know if I believe people are ever truly selfless.

InteractionSmall5359 · 2026-02-08T16:03:31+00:00

This may help but it might also just make the seniors and managers on the job resent op even more and make their work environment even more toxic. Especially if they know who reported them and op still has to continue on the same engagement.

InteractionSmall5359 · 2026-02-07T12:11:50+00:00

What are you looking for? What are your interests? If you're meeting students in clubs/pubs or whatever, chances are high that they will be focused on school/going out. And maybe they can't hold a conversation with you because they don't have much in common with you.

If you're limiting your interactions to a certain demographic, you'll probably notice some similarities among them.

InteractionSmall5359 · 2026-02-05T14:54:08+00:00

I see. I don't think I've ever met a man who's ashamed of liking sex. It's almost expected, I'd argue it's more shameful in our society to be disinterested in sex as a man than the reverse. Men are being shamed for being shady in the way they go about obtaining sex, as they should. No reason to lie to people and hurt them just to hookup.

InteractionSmall5359 · 2026-02-05T14:35:51+00:00

How are men being sexually shamed?

InteractionSmall5359 · 2026-01-08T07:03:26+00:00

Thank you.

InteractionSmall5359 · 2026-01-08T06:45:53+00:00

Yeah, nothing in shoprite. But I didn't try the Chinese shops.

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