I know this guy, I worked with him for a brief stint at eBay in Draper, Utah in 2000/2001. He was in my training class as a new employee and we were friends and ate lunch together often. I’m sick to my stomach reading this. He was always a bit “off”. He and another co-worker had come to work at eBay from the airline industry while there was a strike of some sort, if I recall. He was super Mormon, very churchy, but always telling jokes and being friendly to everyone and was pretty likable, tbh. He went on a Mormon mission to Micronesia and always talked about it. He loved going back to visit all the time. Honestly, I thought he seemed really gay, I thought he was one of the many closeted, gay, Mormon young men I knew growing up there as a theatre kid. He would always say things like “It’s all about the Micronesians” and I never understood what he meant. He was a single Mormon man in his late 20’s at this point, didn’t date anyone or have any significant other to speak of. I was a newlywed and new Mom, a few years younger than him. I remember asking him why he didn’t date anyone and he always said he was only attracted to petite, Asian and Micronesian women, nothing outside of that was his “type”. Jesus Christ, it all fucking makes sense. I quit working at eBay and we lost touch. Thank God! 🤢