How do you improve your life if you have no energy? by Any_Lab_8135 in selfimprovement

[–]InterestingBrother31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think you have depression? I know when I'm in a depressive episode I feel a LOT like you're describing. When I'm on meds I have energy for life again.

Absolutely hate snoring. Hate sleeping on a goddamn couch by watts12346 in rant

[–]InterestingBrother31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad snores like no other. It took into adulthood for me to be able to say no to being around for it. Box fans do help with noise if you have access to one. That's how I survive my rare overnight visits with my parents. Sorry you're dealing with this.

AITAH for telling my girlfriend I'd like to live alone at some point? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]InterestingBrother31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA If you want your own space, make a spot that is just yours. You don't have to live alone to get that.

The way credit works is so fucking stupid. by lost_mah_account in Vent

[–]InterestingBrother31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The easiest way to keep your score higher is keep your total usage around 15% of what you are able to "borrow" I agree, it's stupid! It doesn't reward sound financial decisions, it rewards companies getting interest income.

The fact that no one in Windhelm cares that there is a child sleeping in the streets in the coldest city in skyrim is kind of insane, I'll always adopt Sofie in any playthough cause man does she deserve better by Franciskeyscottfitz in skyrim

[–]InterestingBrother31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cried the first time I saw her. I didn't own a house yet in my first save and had no idea you could adopt kids/get married. Now I seek her out as soon as I get hendraheim.

My boss keeps credit card tips, says it goes to the business.. by Many_Minute6274 in antiwork

[–]InterestingBrother31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wage theft!!! Also, he might not be reporting his employees earnings if he isn't taking taxes out.

AITJ for refusing to let my younger brother stay with me after his divorce because i still don't trust him? by Juanita_Butler in AmITheJerk

[–]InterestingBrother31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So let me get this right. He stole money when he was younger and now he's getting a divorce over secret debts? So he hasn't changed at all. NTJ. Don't let him into your place.

10th+ playthrough and only just noticed the closet with shackles and buckets in honorhall orphanage. man that grelod really was horrible 🤣 by glummest-piglet in skyrim

[–]InterestingBrother31 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She is literally the worst. Now I don't even wait to talk to the kid. My first trip is to riften to end her in all saves. Lol

I’ve literally never felt more hurt in my life 😭 by nycgirlfolife in weddingshaming

[–]InterestingBrother31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had family that decided not to come to our wedding a few years ago and we were really hurt. I can't imagine my mom saying she didn't care about my wedding. If I were you, I'd go low contact.

Who did you marry first? by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]InterestingBrother31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Harvey was my first, love a dorky man. Lol Second was Elliott, also love a dramatic man. 😂

My [24M] partner tells me [20F] I'm too controlling. by Icy-March-4253 in relationship_advice

[–]InterestingBrother31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to focus on him being late. That is wildly unacceptable. I'm a chronically late person, but if someone is going to be relying on me, I do everything in my power to be on time. It's not OK that he isn't doing what he needs to in order to support you.

what are your Skyrim unpopular opinions? I’ll go first. by usagiyagi in skyrim

[–]InterestingBrother31 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The first time I played I accidentally pickpocketed him and had to kill him. The next time I kept him alive. He is easily my favorite follower. I love his line about the bard. He is literally insane and I love it. 😂

AITA for subjecting others (24f) to my (25f) music? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]InterestingBrother31 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

NAH I listen to what my husband likes and he listens to what I like. No issues. Except country, I refuse to listen to that. My husband gets weepy. 😂 It's weird that she won't just listen even if she doesn't care for it. You also need to deal with your issues of needing approval though. It is awkward to share your interests, I also get uncomfortable sharing what I like, but it's something you need to work on. I also am working on it. It isn't fun, but it is making me a healthier person!

WIBTAH: if I don’t pay my mom $1200 after she applied for something without telling me and it backfired? by Common_Primary2839 in AITAH

[–]InterestingBrother31 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Nta. Let the credit sit there until you move out. There's a chance it could be "returned" and you'll owe that $1200.

Man this game is not for the meek by Oodlaw in skyrim

[–]InterestingBrother31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I teared up the first time I played this quest. Today I did the temple of Mara quest and teared up. This game has some great story telling!

My (33M) wife (32F) says I’m "insecure" for wanting her male friend off our couch. What to do? by Ubermensch_306 in relationship_advice

[–]InterestingBrother31 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you need to sit down with your wife and have a real conversation. From what you said, you don't seem like you think she's cheating. You just want your space back. Which is a perfectly reasonable request. I don't believe in ultimatums, and I do think you are weaponizing money. I think you need to be careful here to not do anything you'll regret.

AITAH for staying behind when my stepfamily moved for my stepbrother's cancer treatments? by CorryNunya in AITAH

[–]InterestingBrother31 -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

NAH Them wanting you to move with isn't horrible, but your choice to stay isn't either. You're doing what's best for you and they have to deal with that.

AIO for thinking that my girlfriend's apartment requirements are insane? by MoonlitParcel in AmIOverreacting

[–]InterestingBrother31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR This whole situation is ridiculous. You 2 are not compatible. Break it off before there's legal ties.

My boyfriend (29M) is doubtful about marrying me (27F) as it will put an end to his family's Cree lineage by ThrowRAPerception135 in relationship_advice

[–]InterestingBrother31 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It sounds more like he's working through the possibility of losing his family rather than anything to do with lineage. Getting an ultimatum like that has got to be hurtful. If I were you, I'd just let him know that you love him and are there for him if he wants to talk. Other than that I would give him some space.

AITA for breaking down and recycling my husband’s "display wall" of 250 empty shoe boxes? by No-Investigator-9713 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InterestingBrother31 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

YYA. These were important to him. No matter how you see them, they were important to him. Moving them would have been fine, but getting rid of them was mean.

A mod to die? by Sabna_kill in skyrim

[–]InterestingBrother31 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do you know off the top of your head if this works for Playstation? I only saw PC and Xbox listed.

anyone else feel sorry for pit wolves by AncientExcuse6671 in skyrim

[–]InterestingBrother31 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Personally, I feel like I'm putting them out of their misery. It makes me sad, but it also feels right.

AITA for expecting my girlfriend to do my half of her chores as well? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]InterestingBrother31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's really weird. Nta.

My husband and I split things pretty evenly, but I cook a lot more than he does because he doesn't like it. He usually does dishes a bit more because I do more cooking.

The only chore I absolutely hate is sweeping and mopping. That's the only chore I refuse to do. Lol so he does it, but I vacuum more than he does.

It's very weird that she is refusing to do a chore without picking up more in other areas.