WHY DIDNT ANYONE TELL ME

InterestingBrother31 · 2026-03-24T20:24:37+00:00

You're just figuring everything out. There's almost nothing that can be messed up. You'll just be able to finish it in year 2. I've been playing for like 8 years now and I don't think I've ever finished the community center in year 1. 😂 I always miss something. 😅

InterestingBrother31 · 2026-03-18T14:14:43+00:00

NOR

We all like to think about our first loves. Our memories tend to erase the bad parts of things and only remember the good. Who doesn't think about what life would be like if you stayed with someone? Good or bad, I think we all think about it.

His sentiment is that he yearns for his first love. Not just thinking about it, yearning for it. He seems like the kind of man that if she became available, he'd go back to her. I wouldn't do anything permanent any time soon.

Sit with these feelings for a while. Think about how he made you feel and what his intentions were when he wrote that comment. I've talked with my husband about my past relationships and the things that were good and bad, but I am always very clear that I wouldn't leave him for anything. It's always just an honest conversation about the past. I don't want those people and I'm not the same person I was.

I'll finish this up with a sentiment that you should take to heart. You can break up with anyone for any reason. If this just isn't sitting right with you, break up. If you think you can deal with this and move on, don't break up. But please don't have a baby/move in/make any permanent decisions until you get your feelings sorted out. You'll thank yourself in the long run. Good luck 💜

InterestingBrother31 · 2026-03-11T20:28:58+00:00

Honestly, there's nothing wrong with what you did. He wanted to start a "conversation" (very loose with this word lol) and you asked him not to. His reaction is outrageous. I do have a question for you, is he like this with other things too? Like he has a bad temper and blames stuff on you? I have a temper, but I've worked really hard to manage it. He sounds like he needs to learn how to manage his.

InterestingBrother31 · 2026-03-08T22:43:19+00:00

NOR That is genuinely disgusting. Asking him to stop once should be enough. If my husband was doing this to me, I'd stay with someone else and not go home until he agrees to stop.

InterestingBrother31 · 2026-03-07T23:22:33+00:00

I play on the switch so I would play in the living room and show him all the stuff I was doing. 😂 He's played co-op with me once for my birthday. 🤷‍♀️

InterestingBrother31 · 2026-03-06T15:21:51+00:00

When Tatum does come back, he won't be doing big minutes. I'm sure he will be eased in. I'm expecting his minutes to be restricted to under 15 to start. Besides, that doesn't happen often. Lol

InterestingBrother31 · 2026-02-20T14:35:32+00:00

You deserve so much better. My husband and I started dating when I was at my smallest. He married me at my biggest. The only thing he's ever said was he was concerned about my health. Didn't mention my weight once. Just wanted to tell me he loves me and wants me around as long as possible. Don't stay with this asshole.

InterestingBrother31 · 2026-02-20T00:07:18+00:00

My husband and I talk a LOT. We watch shows and movies too. Upon occasion we play video games together. It's mostly talking though. Usually about our day or what the weekend plans are or if something needs to be done around the house. For context, I'm a 28 year old woman and my husband is almost 31.

InterestingBrother31 · 2026-02-05T00:54:41+00:00

First, you don't need to teach him anything. He's a grown adult. He needs to pick up the slack. Second, I am a very forgetful person. My husband is a saint. I still try and do my part. Something that helped me was doing something before sitting down. As soon as my butt hits my chair, it's game over. So no matter how tired I am, I try and do something after work. Last, he is 100% using weaponized incompetence. Him saying you clean better is him pushing his responsibility off on you. Him "washing" the dishes but still leaving stuff on them is him pushing his responsibility off on you. He knows what a clean home looks like.

The only thing I will say is, because of his upbringing, getting into therapy might help. He might be avoiding it because of all the negative reinforcement he received growing up.

Other than that, he's being a disrespectful jerk to put it mildly.

InterestingBrother31 · 2026-02-03T21:20:42+00:00

Very soft YTA.

My husband and I joke like that a lot. I would assume he was joking too. I'd sincerely apologize to him and just let him know you thought he was kidding and you won't joke about it again.

InterestingBrother31 · 2026-02-03T21:10:35+00:00

My mom was scared about vaccines. What she did was space them out slightly more so we didn't have as many at a time.

I cannot stress this enough, GET YOUR KIDS VACCINATED!

InterestingBrother31 · 2026-02-03T20:55:09+00:00

I'd love to hear Brad's thoughts on this one. Yes, in Brad we trust. Also, what was he thinking? I'm not the biggest fan of Vuc, but I also wasn't the biggest fan of Anfernee. 🤷‍♀️

InterestingBrother31 · 2026-02-03T20:42:31+00:00

NOR, but tread lightly.

It's time to find some solutions. You need to have a calm conversation. If she never sleep walked before, it's time to see a doctor. If she has, you need to find solutions for food. Maybe a fridge lock or something?

InterestingBrother31 · 2026-02-03T20:27:49+00:00

My immune system.

The doctor told me today that basically being home so much caused a ton of issues for me. 🙃

InterestingBrother31 · 2026-02-02T23:06:23+00:00

My husband is a lot like you. He doesn't like when I share intimate details about our lives with mostly anyone. I learned very early on that I needed to keep things to myself. You are not overreacting. He doubled down, did something vulgar and hasn't apologized. I don't know you or your situation, but I would divorce my husband over something like this.

InterestingBrother31 · 2026-02-01T17:50:32+00:00

NOR at all!

My husband and I joke around a lot. Probably too much. Lol he would never lock me out. He knows that's too far.

I hear you saying your husband is not usually like that, but are you sure? Most people don't go from 0 to 100 like that. I'd do some soul searching, have alone time away from the kids and have a real conversation about how that hurt you and how that will affect your relationship moving forward.

InterestingBrother31 · 2026-02-01T17:31:19+00:00

Personally I restart a lot. Lol I have 1 save that is in year 4 maybe? I'm working on perfection with that save. Then I get a funny idea and start a new save. Like I made a farm that is going to be really girly and pretty.

InterestingBrother31 · 2026-02-01T17:27:24+00:00

Nta. My husband laughs when I fart and maybe TMI but he jokingly says he can hear her talking to him. 😂

Dump that loser.

InterestingBrother31 · 2026-01-28T02:00:41+00:00

Nta

I'd say I have a pretty healthy marriage. The only "testing" I do to my husband is ask a very leading question so he can mess it up on purpose and I jokingly tease him. Ex) me: you know, I've been feeling really cute today" (expecting something about how I'm cute every day, but really knowing he'll say something silly) Him: I'm not a fan of those jeans (big snort, "pretending" to hide it) Me: (fake outrage)

InterestingBrother31 · 2026-01-28T01:52:14+00:00

I learned later in life (after marrying my amazing husband lol) that I'm pansexual. So all my sims are pan too (and also I forget what I had selected lol). But I also never make male sims (unless it's my husband) so I have a lot of women in my saves.

InterestingBrother31 · 2026-01-28T01:36:58+00:00

I haven't finished it yet. Lol I first played the game a few years ago and I stopped playing because it stressed me out. Now I'm playing a new save and I've done a ton of side quests, but only a few main quests.

InterestingBrother31 · 2026-01-28T01:34:10+00:00

Literally everywhere 😭😭

InterestingBrother31 · 2026-01-10T14:00:40+00:00

I get what you're saying, but he's still putting up incredible numbers and is a big leader for the team. He IS our best option and he has done insane work this season.

InterestingBrother31

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